UGH she is too damn good at flirting with me.

Her:
Ning, stop distracting me. I'm in class right now and really can't have you on my mind
hahahaha

Me:
Sorry, my bad
can't help it
hypocrite

Her:
Well, gee. What can we do to fix this?

Me:
I can think of several things

Her:
I keep smiling. I think people in my class think I am crazy.

Me:
I fully accept all responsibility

Her:
We are so disgusting






Goddamn Amanda. Too powerful. I'm supposed to be ice. This is normal for me. I'm Ning, the man with the golden mouth.

How does she make me this happy with such a stupid little back and forth?

To be fair, it's actually a pretty solid line of game to use on her part. Take it and use it, nubs

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Ok goons. Here's the damage:

Main Product (name has changed) + 3 bonus products: Done. Waiting on the cover art.
VSL transcript: Done. Been through 3 drafts. The copy could always be better, but for now, it'll do.
VSL slides: Done. Waiting on cover art


To do:
Record VSL once cover art comes in (sometime this week)
Start setting up clickfunnels, clickbank, and aweber accounts and implementation
Think about / create exit splash lead capture free product (pdf? video?)

Mexico in a week. Need to get data and make a poster. If I fuck this up, not a big deal. No one at a science conference is gonna yell at me, except my PI. But who gives a shit about him. Who gives a shit about the PhD.

This shit is about to go live soon, and I know that it all really depends on the copy. It's only been my first week writing it, and I've been emulating a lot and trying to follow what I've seen and heard, but it really is hard to gauge how well it'll actually convert.

If it doesn't, the obvious answer is, change the copy. I'll have to just take a step back and ask myself, what about the offer isn't compelling enough?

Can't wait to finally unplug from the grad school mindset and focus full time on this.

In other news, Amanda has been much more invested and motivated in this relationship since the Halloween incident. Good to know, reinforces what I already knew. Women love sex, women love getting physical.

She's suddenly ok with under the belt stuff, not having negative reactions, enjoying it, getting into it, ok with talking about it after, embracing how sexy she is, etc. etc.

She brought me lunch today, how sweet. We chatted, flirted, and Snapchatted throughout the day. We flirt at Spanish club, and she keeps telling me how she just wants to hug me. I sense more naughty time coming this weekend.

Quiet on all other fronts. This has been an INSANE month of work. It really is absurd how many words my fingertips have spat out.

100+ pages of product.
60+ pages of copy.
300+ slides on Powerpoint.
However much bullshit I've spit out in this journal.
+PhD work.
+TA'ing work.

Shit. Once this thing hits the internet and starts selling, I'm gonna take a nice FAT vacation break, and do nothing but exercise, sleep, and socialize all day.

Ning out, gangstas.

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Just heavily, heavily re-editted my VSL transcript. I'm finally happy with it. I've watched / listened to / read a ton of copy in the past couple days, to try and internalize some of it. I've picked up on some elements, and I finally feel better reading my VSL. It's actually sounding good, coherent, and compelling. I'm gonna be able to help a lot of guys with it.

Everything's set. All the content is ready. It's time to get a clickFunnels account!!!!!!!!!!!

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There is so much to fucking learn.

I'm re-writing the VSL transcript again. Each time it gets better. Each time I get further in the process. But I'm not releasing something if it ain't up to par.

In terms of game, Alyssa came and studied in my lab from like midnight to 2:30 am. Shit. It was just us two, and I was definitely thinking about kissing her, but I ended up refraining, thankfully. Jesus.

If I was single, I know what my weakness is. I'm not afraid to physically escalate, but it's the verbal escalation. It's the lines about kissing that just skyrocket the tension that I'm missing. It's all good, though. I don't want to cheat.

Besides, things with Amanda are at an all time high. Let's keep it that way.

I don't have a ton of time to sit down and handwrite copy from copy greats, which I've heard from multiple sources now that it's the way to get good. I've been reading and re-reading copy on my phone while walking, and saying the lines out loud to get them into my head, and listening to audio seminars on copy while doing lab work. I wonder if there's somewhere with audio copy, or if I should just listen to VSL's over and over again.

When I do get free time to handwrite, it's the first thing I'll do. Still, going to switch focus now to VSL draft #3. I thought I was close, but this might still be like a Thanksgiving break thing. I can't wait for break so I can pour way more time into this.

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YO!

What's up Badass. How YOU doing?

I'm fantastic.

You know what sucks? When you're trying to talk to a girl, and you can just tell that she's bored.

She's checking her phone, looking away, and responding with one word answers.

Talking to girls, especially hot ones, isn't easy. Trust me, I know. Just flip back and read the beginning of my journal.

The problem is, the more you seem to try, the more bored she seems to get.

And the thing I hate most? Awkward silences. The last thing you want is for there to be an abyss of silence between you two, and the girl is just waiting, waiting for you to say something... except you can't.

You see, most guys concentrate on finding better, funnier, wittier things to say, and that's exactly the wrong way to think about it.

Listen, if you only focused on HOW to say things, girls would be falling over themselves to talk to you.

So... how DO you say things?

I'm going to reveal that to you for FREE, but before I do, how have the last couple days gone?

Today, I grabbed food with Amanda, and practiced verbal escalation. I'm fantastic with innuendos and sexual misinterpretation, but am still going to work on direct statements of interest and intent (I can't stop thinking about kissing you right now.)

I'm feverishly studying and practicing writing copy. Listening to it. Reading it. Practicing writing it. Working feverishly on VSL draft #3. THIS ONE is going to be good, guys. Each version's been 4x as good as the previous one, and I'm learning quickly.

It's all about grabbing attention, poking a pain point excessively, providing a solution, future pacing the benefits of the solution, hinting at all the features of the solution without giving it away (creates curiosity / desire), and then the all important call to action.

Most / all copy is some variation of this. I'm just learning all the ways to do each part, and all the cool power words that make things seem more scarce or valuable. I came up with one today... "unorthodox". I've fiddled around with this...

Discover the one UNORTHODOX strategy that *benefit benefit benefit*

It really is fascinating stuff, and supremely interesting, especially for someone who's got a background in game.

It's so emotionally based, just like all of game and all of human behavior.

Now, I told you I was going to reveal to you how to make girls want to ride your disco stick just by opening your mouth and making sounds with it.

Click here for your FREE video on how to attract women by speaking with more confidence:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kIEjROIu9y0

If for any reason this doesn't work for you, just email me within 60 days for all your money back.
ninglidating@gmail.com

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Things are getting very close with Amanda.

Friday night she comes over so we can watch some Netflix. You know what that means. We start out on the couch, and we get 3-4 episodes in before she starts touching me slowly, etc. etc.

I ask her if she wants to go to my room, no response. Ok, not yet. We continue watching. A couple kisses.

I start touching her on her bare skin on her back, and getting close to the pants. She starts getting turned on. I ask again. No response.

I put my hand in her pants and start touching her lady parts. After a bit of that, I ask again and she nods. Bingo.

We go into my room, I come up behind her, take her coat off, and start touching her everywhere. She puts my hand in her pants. I push her onto the bed. Clothes start flying off. Suddenly we're both naked and playing with each other's junks.

This goes on for awhile. She gets on top and starts humping me. The snake doesn't go into the hole just yet, but it's face is getting rubbed into the sand around the hole again and again. It gets very, very close a couple times before she gets off and starts getting a bit upset with herself again.

It's a bit worse than last time, but not bad. Within a day, it was all better. I took the lead, and stole her frame by sending her a text:

I'm good. Last night was a little crazy, let's take it easy on the physical part for a little bit, at least until life settles down a bit. I love you and just want you to feel comfortable and in control. I'd still love to take you on that hot date sometime. Good luck at work today.

She responds favorably, and things are all better now.

Finished the slides and transcript for draft 3!!!!!!! I hope I have enough time to record it today. Editing the video takes awhile, so I might do that on the plane to Mexico. THIS IS THE FINAL VERSION! I'm finally happy with it!

Lots of PhD stuff to do before Mexico, but after, my friend from high school Lauri (super duper cute) is visiting me in Colorado, and then it's Thanksgiving break! This thing is DEFINITELY going live that week, no classes, no teaching! I'm fucking pumped.

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Did you know that you can make a girl attracted to you without saying a single word?

Most guys are so frustrated with figuring out what to say to attract a girl, because sure, coming up with witty banter with a hot girl staring you in the face can be challenging.

The last thing you want to do is say something stupid and be embarrassed in front of everyone.

What if you didn't even need to say anything to make her attracted?

Here's something that's been said over and over again in the community but no one seems to apply it:

Communication is 90-95% nonverbal. That means the exact words you are saying matter very little.

If you want to find out how to flirt without saying a single word, click this link to see ME demonstrate on a gorgeous girl:

https://youtu.be/INAdTzgMgKE

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Currently I'm sprawled in the Denver International Airport, plugged in the wall and click clacking away.

I had an epiphany while driving here. Before I tell you about that...

I'm leaving for Mexico in the morning, but I got here the night before because of a huge blizzard warning. Not the first time I'll spend the night at an airport, and it gives me plenty of time to work on sales copy n shit.

On the ride here, I was day dreaming about sales copy (yes, that actually happens now) and I heard a song on the radio. The one that's like, "I'm without your kisses, I'll be needing stitches," and I thought to myself, wow that stitches line is great.

How is that better than some other line he could write?

People think in images, and influencing someone is all about being able to make that person picture something. Saying something like "I'll be needing stitches" is so much more impactful than "I'll be really really hurt" because of how much more imagery the word "stitches" induces.

It seems like nouns have a lot more potential to induce emotional imagery than adjectives.

Which sentence induces more imagery?

That girl was incredibly, unbelievably sexy.

VS

That girl was made for lingerie, silk sheets, and candlelight.

So what the hell does this have to do with sales copy?

Well, from what I've read so far sales copy is all about making the prospect see benefits as a solution to pain. So there's two points where imagery is useful.

Making the prospect visualize benefits- the clearer he can see himself benefitting from your product, the more desire and need will be built up.

So instead of:

blah blah blah will make women instantly and uncontrollably want you.

VS

blah blah blah will make her instantly and uncontrollably want to push her soft, warm body against you.

blah blah blah will make her instantly attracted to you

VS

blah blah blah will make her instantly start biting her lip and gazing softly at you with her big blue eyes

Instead of:

Making the prospect visualize pain points- the clearer he sees the pain points, the more pain he feels, and pain drives action.

blah blah you won't ever be rejected again

VS

blah blah you won't ever feel the dagger of her recoiling from you again

Oooo, I like that. Dagger induces all sorts of painful imagery.

Yeah, so in terms of imagery inducing power:
Nouns are very powerful.
Descriptions (biting her lip) are powerful. I guess verbs are quite powerful as well.
Adjectives are less powerful, but still help. It just takes a lot of adjectives to accomplish what one noun can accomplish.

With this in mind, DESPITE the fact that I've got draft 3 recorded and ready to be edited, I'll probably edit that on the plane ride AND start on draft 4. Draft 4 probably won't be that much different from draft 3, at least as much as draft 3 and draft 2 were different, because instead of a huge stylistic change, I'm just going to be changing a lot of the ways the benefits and pain points are worded.

Hopefully, clearer imagery = more emotion = more sales.

All in all, a wonderful learning experience. All from the stupid song.

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YO! What's up gangstas?!

I know I know, I haven't been here for awhile. That's cuz the last couple of weeks have been crazy off the hook bat shit SPAM bananas.

Let's see... where do I start?

Amanda and I are tighter than ever. Things have gotten a lot more physical, and we're right on the cusp of doing it. Been naked together, lotsa fingering, I even got her to send me dirty pics of herself. Pretty damn impressed with myself.

Helping this girl blossom into womanhood! How charitable of me...

Lots of other girls have been flirting with me, including Alyssa and Cassandra.

I hit up Mexico for a week for a science conference, it was SICK. I love traveling. Ate a fuck ton of ceviche. Flirted with girls in Spanish. Turns out it's not too different, and had a lotta Mexican cuties giggling. Flirted with a girl from Portugal, was giving me all sorts of eyes.

I'm loyal though.

I told Allison and Jennifer about my business plan, and they've both been helping me out with the process.

Speaking of which... IT'S DONE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

So much work!!!! So much time!!! And it's finally done!!!! The funnel is set up, the email newsletter is set up, everything is set up and the product is pending approval on ClickBank. It should be just a couple days before the product goes LIVE.

Hell yes hell yes hell yes!

I'll probably be posting in here less, as now I'm dedicated to writing a daily newsletter chock full of FREE dating advice for my email listserve, helping them grow, kick ass, and sleep with all dem ladies.

If you want in, it's super easy. The first edition is called "7 Strange Moves to Attract her without a Single Word", and you can find it HERE.

Keep in mind, the product payment link doesn't work yet (should be 2-4 days away), but you can at least start receiving free tips that you can use to start attracting women.

Keep it sleazy, gentlemen!

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YO!

Sup G.

I know I said I wouldn’t be able to write all that much, but I just couldn’t stay away.

Why are you doing this to me? So distracting…

Anyways, I hung out with Amanda’s friends, Annalis and Connor. Annalis used to hate me when Amanda and I were broken up, but now it’s better.

Connor’s a solid bro.

We all did work at the Alleycat, and it was fun and productive. Amanda’s leaving to shadow at a medical school in Iowa over Thanksgiving break, so I’ll have a ton of time to work on newsletters and traffic.

There’ll also be 3 Thanksgiving parties for me to go to, and socialize at. Hellz to the YAH.

Oh, also, I uploaded a new YouTube video on getting girls to like you by TEXTING.

Texting girls is actually super confusing, as sometimes you’ll even have an amazing interaction, but the girl will take EONS to respond.

Also, if you make a mistake, it’s stored in the annals of history FOREVER so she can look at it over and over again, show her friends, her dog, her grandma, whoever.

That’s why it’s IMPERATIVE that you know how to text a girl, especially since so much communication happens by text in today’s dating world.

So go ahead and check it out here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5LgRs9R1Gk4

Oh, and if you’re not subscribed to the channel yet, what are you waiting for?

It’s FREE content that’ll get you more girls. A no-brainer.

Check it out, and I’ll see you later, boss.

-Ning

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DAT EMAIL LIST THO!

It be growing!

Amanda hits me up for lunch yesterday, and we chill in the microbio lounge instead. We just chat, flirt, and I pull out one of my tried-and-true moves that works NO MATTER HOW MANY TIMES YOU DO IT.

It takes two milliseconds.

Anybody can do it.

And it instantly makes the interaction fun and flirty.

I've lost count on how many girls I've tried this on.

Any ways, I use the move, and she starts giggling, flirting harder, and afterwards, she leaves for a math group. Not two minutes out the door she calls me and tells me a funny thing that just happened to her. Aw, how cute.

Oh, the move? I'm going to tell you about it RIGHT NOW.

When you're sitting side by side with a girl, pull out your phone, and start taking selfies with her in them. Start making weird, dumb, faces (self-amusing) and she'll follow suit.

Afterwards some work and a meeting, I head to the gym and rip on my biceps and lats. Amanda hits me up again to hang out, it's her last night before she leaves for Iowa for Thanksgiving break. I smell blood in the water, and make sure I clean my room lol.

People start hitting me up to hang Friday night, but I brush them off. It's Amanda time.

Included in these people are several guys that I can tell try to hang with me for access to my huge female social circle, which I gently shove aside. Cooler bros like Jesse I let know that it's Amanda time.

I grab some hot and sour soup and we watch Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind on the couch. SICK movie. Not a whole lot of great game in the movie, but it's a pretty profound statement on love and pain. Amanda agrees.

She suggests just ONE episode of Better Off Ted before she has to go pack. I agree.

We lay down, and things start getting touchier. She starts running her hands down my legs, putting her hands in my shirt, etc. I start kissing her, touching her waist. Halfway through the second episode she presses pause. You know it girl.

We make out heavily on the couch and then I wordlessly stand up and lead her to the bedroom. Shove her on the bed.

Clothes fly off, and we basically do everything but the deed. It gets REAL close, as the snake is sticking it's face in the gopher hole when she stops me. She freaks out a little bit, and I talk with her and make her feel better. Getting really good at that.

We talk about children, marriage, and the future, but I do it in a way that's completely relaxed, easy, and funny. I promise her that I'm going to get rich and take her to Spain next summer.

She feels a lot better, and we're lying there naked, on top of each other, having intimate conversation. It's awesome, she loves it and I love it. She starts touching me again, and I use my PATENTED escalation technique to turn her on again.

She starts touching Mr. Ning downstairs, and gets on top. We fool around a bunch more, and then Mandy, my roommate, gets home and we have to stop.

The technique is actually super easy, but so few dudes do it, have no clue why. It's called the "Blame it on her" technique.

You know what? If we get 10 more subscribers on my dating advice newsletter, I'll post it here for you all for free.
Join us here: http://ninglidating.com/email

I put on some clothes and leave the room, Mandy gives me a knowing smile. Amanda is super embarrassed and freaks out again, so I go with her back to campus while she runs a couple errands and calm her down. It works, and I finally get home to sleep around 3 am.

The next morning, she sends me this text:

Yeah, I'm all good. Got about three more hours of sleep so far. So refreshing! I'm also okay, because, well, you are amazing and patient and I appreciate you so much.

It's been a long journey with this girl (5 months), and I feel like the relationship is finally where it's supposed to be. She's opening up, talking and sharing intimate things with me, and it feels super close. Go back a couple pages and read where it was. It's come a long ways.

When I put my mind on something, I fucking do it. If there's something I want, I'M GONNA FUCKING TAKE IT, no matter how much work, effort, blood, sweat, and tears and it takes.

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Gobble gobble, gangstas.

You know what I love?

I love that people are here, on this forum, improving themselves. I love that guys are sharing ideas, taking action, and CONSTANTLY getting better.

It’s more than most guys are doing.

A whole debacle happened yesterday.

I told Amanda about the fact that Hannah (ex of 5 years) had gotten residency interviews in Denver and Greeley (20 minutes away) and was coming up in January.

She had booked a ticket for after my birthday weekend, and wanted to know if we could go hike a mountain or something, strictly as friends.

Amanda, obviously, didn’t like the idea, and after talking with her, we agreed that it would be a good idea for her to get an earlier ticket back before that weekend, and that as a compromise we could go out to lunch with her.

I had dinner with Jesse, Daisuke, and Mandy at Thai Pepper last night, and afterwards, we went to Trailhead (a bar), where Jesse regaled us with his bathroom sex story from Friday night.

JESSE IS KILLIN IT! So proud of this guy, he’s come so far. He’s gotten laid twice off Tinder now in the last month. THAT’S WHAT HAPPENS WHEN YOU TAKE ACTION!

Afterwards, Hannah calls me, and I drop the news on her, that she has to change her plane ticket and that I wouldn’t be able to hike with her.

Despite knowing about Amanda this whole time, Hannah gets epic-ly upset. She starts crying, yelling, cussing, and all I do is say, “I’m sorry.” After 20 minutes of this bullshit, she hangs up on me.

Dayum she crazy.

I call Amanda, and tell her the news. She’s relieved, and cheers me up. Honestly, I don’t care with all the yelling and shit, as that doesn’t really affect me, but I don’t like hurting people.

And I know that Hannah was really hurt from me not being able to see her when she was going to fly all the way out.

Afterwards, Amanda really lays it on thick over text:

Her:
Got your voicemail. Have fun tonight! Hopefully I can find a coffee shop tomorrow and get some internet access and be in better contact. You are amazing
Did I mention how perfect you are?
And attractive
That awkward moment when you have a huge crush on someone…
But then you remember that they are your boyfriend.
And it makes you insanely happy.

Me:
:):):):):):)
XOXOXOXOXO
My face hurts from smiling

Her:
Good. This is very good.
I miss your face.

Me:
Hahahahaha I miss you and your face

Her:
All I want to do is hug you. Ugh, feelings…. So gross. Why you gotta make me feel this way? Bahaha

Me:
Hahahahahaha I want that too. Ugh this is disgusting

Her:
Hehehehehe, you’re the best.
You make me so happy.

Me:
Aw thanks you are awesome

Her:
As much as I want to keep this up, I probably should get some sleep for tomorrow. So, if you wouldn’t mind, stop being on my mind But really though, you are such a good boyfriend. I miss you. Tell everyone hi!

Me:
Hahahaha I will. I miss you too, have a good night! MWAH

*end of interaction*

As you can tell, it’s disgusting. I feel bad for Hannah. But whatever, that girl cheated on me and shit. I’m not obligated to do shit, and it’s the right decision.

Sometimes the right decision feels like shit, but what ya gonna do?

Ning out.

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What's up, gangstas!

I been HARD at work learning sales copy and getting my product through review at ClickBank. The email list is growing every day, and Thanksgiving break has been relaxing as fuck.

I've been churning out pages and pages and pages of handwritten sales copy, trying to learn the intricate art.

A couple days ago I noticed something unusual...

I was at a coffee shop working when a guy cold approached a thin, cute blondie and started talking to her.

Intrigued as I always am with these interactions, I discreetly observed.

I noticed RIGHT away that he was committing a classic "Attention Mistake" that women are programmed to respond negatively to...

She started giving one word answers, and giving all the body language signals that she was gonna scurry off as soon as she got her drink, and he tried harder and harder.

The harder he tried, the more uncomfortable she got, until it inevitably ended with her running off.

I immediately shot a video about it so that YOU don't commit the same mistake. It's super quick, and the mistake takes like 2 seconds to fix. Check it out here:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=f91uQDPV_Ck

Enjoy, and take it sleazy, gangsta!

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Sup guys! Made a new video on How to Flirt.

Check it out here:
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Wuzzup gangsta!

The Welsh Rabbit is a swanky place in town that serves wine, delicious cheese, and high class meats. Mandy, Kevin, and I roll in for Mandy's birthday.

The drinks start rolling, dirty jokes start flying, and everyone's flying high. Colin and Jesse arrive, and we all head to the Yeti to see my favorite cover band, the Keys and the D's.

The crew:

Mandy- my roommate, we are super close and she's a cutie, but we are definitely just friends... I love Amanda
Kevin- my other awkward ex-roommate that moved out awhile ago... a little socially handicapped
Jesse- my homie, killin it as of late, been following my advice, working his social circle game, and getting mad pussy because of it
Colin- tall, good-looking bro. Super chill, great guy
Javi- my lifting partner, solid bro
Bri- Mandy's friend
Andy- Bri's boy toy, looks exactly like Colin lol. They're both 6'4", have beards, and I make a big deal out of it the whole night, calling them twins
Morning- blonde girl, meh
Bryan- her husband

We all start taking shots and we get up and dance. The whole place is dead cuz it's the night before Thanksgiving, except for our loud, circus crew. We start dancing and yelling, and Mandy starts getting drunk. It's her birthday.

She starts pulling a bunch of guys in to dance, and I can tell she's starting to get feisty. She's feeling sexy on her birthday. She pulls Javi in, and it seems like things are clicking there.

Javi, Colin, and Jesse disappear, and Bri pulls me and whispers: Mandy wants to know where Javi is.

THAT'S the exact moment I know shit is going to go down.

Take note guys, if that ever happens to you, know that that's a very clear signal that a girl is down.

Mandy's drunk as fuck, I go find Javi and the other two by the bathroom, and then the bouncer comes up to me and says that Mandy's gotta go. Too drunk, lol.

She's getting fairly sloppy.

Getting her out the door is a fiasco, as moving drunk people always is, especially since drunk Kevin is a handful as well. Right at the door he yells, "I stole 4 shot glasses!"

Lol.

The bouncer, literally right next to us, shakes his head and tells him to give the shot glasses back. Drunk Kevin says, "I'll give you back 3." Lol

We head to Trailhead after, and we're sitting there talking, and Mandy and Javi are super close, arms around each other. Mandy starts crying and looking really upset, I blame it on the drunkness.

Javi comes over to me, and whispers... "Mandy just told me to make out with her... but I told her I couldn't because she's super drunk, and now she's really upset. I think we should take her home..."

I grab the gangsta minivan over, and shuttle the three drunks in (Mandy, Javi, and Kevin). I drive all three back to our place, and Javi and Mandy start making out in the back. Mandy stops crying lol.

At our place, we convince Javi to just crash in Mandy's room, and I let him know that I have condoms if he needs them.

The next morning, Javi texts me super early, letting me know that he needs a ride because his oven was on with a Turkey in it the whole night. lol

Apparently he had no idea, but Mandy had had a crush on him for awhile, ever since the snowshoeing thing. Go figure. Usually I can spot this shit quick, but not this time.

Javi doesn't even do any "game" per say. Get this, guys...

ALL YOU HAVE TO BE IS NORMAL TO ATTRACT HOT GIRLS...

That means that when you meet a girl, you don't have to fucking run stupid lines and bullshit, all you have to do it talk to her like a normal fucking person. Like she's someone you've known for awhile. Not like an alien creature from Mars shooting rainbows out her ass.

95% of guys go up to a girl, try to run all sorts of "game", this routine and that routine and this and that, and get stuck in the friend zone. The more you try, the harder you fall.

Badasses go up to a girl and doesn't give two shits what she thinks of him. That's the aura that's so intoxicating to girls.

It's surprising how much marketing and sales copy is like game...

I'm learning all this shit about how to make things seem fast, easy, and unique, but when I try to do it, it just sounds like I'm TRYING to sell.

It sounds like me, a year ago in game, TRYING to run attraction game, TRYING to run comfort game, TRYING to do all this stuff.

When I read the sales copy of people who are really good, it's got something that mine doesn't: positioning. Their stuff doesn't sound like selling. It sounds like... sharing the benefits. Sharing features of a product. They position their product higher, so they're qualifying the customer instead of their product.

Just like a Badass in game.

He doesn't try to sell, he already has higher value.

Which is tough for me because right now, I have no leverage in the market place. I need to figure out how to generate that positioning, but just like in game, fake value isn't as good as real value.

Yes, there is "fake it till you make it," but obviously, generating real value is better. Which, the only way I can figure out right now is just to generate insane amounts of content and value for free. Why not.

Then, I need to keep learning sales copy (handwriting it out every freakin' day) and try to learn how to put myself in the higher positioning frame, just like in game.

That's a brain dump.

I shot some new videos, but don't bother checking them out unless you're someone who wants to get better at game.

Guys who are going to get good will watch these immediately, internalize the concepts, and practice the technique right away. Guys who'll never get good will not do anything. Here it is, whatever you decide:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rycLqla3Qic

Oh! One more thing.

Are you an Asian-American, like me? If you are, you might want to check this out:

http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B018JO ... 1_1&sr=8-1

Aight, that's it for me. Keep it sleazy, fellas.

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