this has been a common struggle for me. I dont go to bars and clubs that much because im broke af. so im relying on getting dates online that go straight to my house.

how do I make girls want to go to my house or how do i plant the idea inside her that she wants to go here and make her do it.

thanks in advance. AFC here

Duct tape.

Fix this.


Is there anything cool to do in your parents basement? Call of Duty? Netflix? Natural Light?

Start by building genuine rapport, and trust.

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yep sorry first time poster. btw I live in a four floor house with a rooftop. Im the man of the house. I can do whatever I want since im the only one here (besides the maid; she ugly dont even think about it)

so what im saying is that ive got this kickass place with everything in it. the only thing lacking is a girl. I workout regularly(the gym is full of guys) soo one of my shots in getting a girl is by letting them come over. this is only a tempo thing since school starts in about 2 weeks but i would love to learn how to invite girls and make them want to come over to my place.

I hope you guys see my problem here. and please help me.

ps. i have been chatting and getting a lot of online dates but you cant fuck your phonescreen or laptop. my parents own the place but I dont have any fucking money man. it sucks balls. and I wish a hb would suck mine

tyia

Your goal is not to look for sex or a woman but merely to look for and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it.

It's easy to blame- Mom & Dad, Your wallet, Your looks, Your city.

Don't wait until everything is just right. It will never be perfect. There will always be challenges, obstacles and less than perfect conditions. So what.

Define you goals in your search. Are you seeking that 'Perfect Princess' to have and to hold, for ever and ever?

Or do you want to fuck 100+ women?

Either way, the first clue is - Woman want to think you’re in demand but don’t want to think they’re just a notch on your bed post – they want to think they’re special snowflakes to you and the rest of the women are not.

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thanks mate for the reply

I get the inner game stuff, im not shy and im comfortable around people. im also quite charismatic. but thanks for the advice I will be reading some inner game later on as to help me even more and to correct whatever I lack

what I want is this: I talk to girl, make her want to see me at my home. there we can watch movies/drink/smoke/etc then proceed to fuck. I have no particular goals in mind just the fact that I want to know how to make her want to meet me, hence the title.

and thanks for the clue. what I have been doing is this (and this is before I knew the game and puartsitry)
1. normal open (hey you look cute)
2. get to know each other through tinder
3. post a couple of topless moments
4. chat those who liked it and ask them out (this seemed needy and obvious)
5. I invite them to a bar near my place, they refuse.
6. end game. new target. or try again

can anybody help me in some sort of format form or tricks to make her want to meet me

cheers

I'm starting to see a pattern here.

There are no 'magic tricks'. It's called building comfort!

You go from 1st gear hello, hit turbo, I need my dick sucked vibe.

That immediately throws her ASD switch into gear. Anti Slut Defense. A tactic so as to make the slut (or not a slut as the case may be) feel less guilty about being DTF.

Your outcome dependency is standing out like a fire truck in your driveway.

They can sense when you have an agenda. Instead, you should try to enjoy the interaction for what it is and not care so much about what she thinks or does.

This mindset allows you to be more relaxed and more fun in her mind. You can take more risks, later, then take initiative to be more sexual, as the interaction progresses.

Being less dependent on outcomes is one of the most important principles of getting better with women.

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thanks bro. I think im finally getting it now. i guess im way to fucked up about not getting fucked. and looking at the replies i got from the girls makes me think youre right.

are there any threads or posts you should recommend me to read?

btw ive been texting this new girl(got her number thru tinder) and what I have been doing is just fluffs and negs, and im getting great replies. im trying to figure out a pattern which will work to most if not all girls to make them want me.

before reading your reply ive talked to this new hb 8 and im trying this one out. this is our convo on tinder
me: hey ive got a question to ask you
her: yes, (my name)
me: wow do i know you? haha
me: well anyways i need your female opinion on something
her: sure go ahead
me: ok. but first on a scale of 1-10 how would you rate yourself

after the opener i made a neg, then what im trying to do is to make her qualify her self to me. let me know what can I do and what could have been better. and what your approach would be

cheers.

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