Hello,

So I went out to a party this week with two girls, one who I've been f***ing for a couple of weeks. Before the party I was casually flirting with both and could see them competing for my attention, so decided to just chill. I was out the night before and didn't sleep, and was pretty much falling asleep at this party lol, so the girls were getting bored. They decided to go outside, so I followed.

Outside were two guys, they were chatting to one as I came out so I chatted to the other. Noticed the guy they were chatting to seemed to be using MM, then his friend asked him to show the girls his magic trick. At this point the girls were hooked, he had their undivided attention. His trick was really clever, involved a part where they had to feel up his arms and squeeze his biceps haha. But at this point the girls had completely turned on me, when I spoke they would be like: "who invited this guy, go find some other girls to dance with etc." lol. I'm kind've new to game and had no idea what to do, so just rode it out and ended up leaving early.

Can anyone advise how to deal with someone who is either natural or a lot more experienced? And how the f*** do you divert attention from someone doing magic!

Thanks.

Girls enjoy magic - doesn't mean that she is fucking any of these guys. You could of joined in on the fun. THEN still fuck your girl at the end of the night. If the guys are sticking their back's in your face and escalating with your girl, then you are being tooled. But this report doesn't seem that way.

The fact is, you got jealous, pissy and made yourself look like a needy guy, which is why they turned on you and made the guys look more attractive. Do you think they would of turned on you if you were part of the group and getting involved and having a good time?

Anyway, doesn't sound like you're gf and bf. Why would you be meeting your fuck buddy and her friends and hanging out socially like that? If you are tired, why not stay in? I'm pretty sure you'd be better off if you stayed in that night and she still would respect you.

Think about the dynamic for a sec, there is you and 2 girls VS 2 PUA's, if you stick around, one guy has to wing his friend and occupy you and your girl. The fact is, you made it very easy for them by walking off and cock blocking yourself.

Lesson learnt I hope? Pick up isn't a war zone and you really need to contain the neediness from within.

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Thanks for the reply. After reading the game I've now got this mentality that when someone starts using MM type stuff the guy doing it is gonna pull the girl from right under my nose like in the book. This sends me into a state of anxiety like i need to be doing something to stop that from happening which obviously shows. I'll work on that.

What I'm interested in is say I just joined in and had fun, and that wasn't enough...

Yeah, if someone used MM on the girls i am with, I would be pretty confident they won't seal the deal.

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