so after a very unsuccessful and cold friday, saturday proved to be quite good. managed to #close my first BANGIN HB9. we're both still in school and she said to "look her up on facebook". she lives in chicago and i live in dekalb an hour away, i told her to find me a place to live when i graduate in may (time bridge). should i just send her a text message or facebook message saying she should hit me up if shes in town again and i'll do the same?

any tips on how i should approach this facebook situation? i was figuring just send a message, not a friend request, and do the cocky/funny routine, something along the lines of "omg, look who it is...". i already modeled my facebook profile to be a DHV, but i feel that sending the friend request is along the same lines of asking a girl's name before she asks you. thanks!

I don't see why friend requesting her would be a bad thing, I mean she did tell you to look her up, and you can't see her profile unless she marks you as a friend (and visa versa). You can just add your message along with the friend request and that way you can start a conversation of some sort that can maintain the attraction she has for you until you guys eventually meet up again. Make it a C/F message that will grab her attention. Try to bring up something that you remember about her from your previous encounter. Maybe something that you busted on her for, a nickname, or anything unique that will remind her who you are and why she liked you so much. If you can't think of any of the above, then just say something like "OMG, look who it is. . I bet you've been up to no good." or "What have you been up to? Nothing good I presume." They say the same thing, just choose your wording.