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PostPosted: Mon Mar 03, 2008 12:01 am 
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Hit a point where they've been doing great for an extended period of time, and suddenly bottom out? Not game wise, but emotionally drained.

Just get depressed out of the blue and just not want to go out and PU.

I just had this happen today. I blame it a bit on a one-itis I've recently met, and the fact that I'm living alone in a new city and my B-day is tomorrow. Also the few friends I have in town work crazy schedules and there isn't much of a support net SPAM.

As for the one-itis, I intentionally didn't #close her, because I know what she'd turn out to be (an infatuation), even tho she was really into me. After I met her, I basically went on a tear, and prob had one of the best couple weeks ever PU wise just so I wasn't thinking about her. Basically the, to get your mind off of one principle go meet 12.

Everything was going well on that aspect, eight #closes and 3 *closes in the past week alone.

Thought everything was going well, but today I just bottomed out. I feel depressed and going out sarging again just doesn't seem to be like the answer SPAM. It almost seems the binge I went on made it worse.

If this happens to anyone, how do you guys deal with it. When PU women just doesn't bring you out of a funk like it normally does.

What gets you into better spirits?


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PostPosted: Mon Mar 03, 2008 12:09 am 
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most likely your bored and you feel things aren't exciting.
keep youself busy, try doing new things.
i recommend taking a class or two, keep the mind sharp and busy.
like learn mtn climbing or how to surf, or maybe there are some other things you wish to learn, keep yourself entertained.
buy a unicycle, relatively cheap(~$100), takes a little while to learn, but you'll have fun, keep in shape, and you get good laughs and points for being out of the box.


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PostPosted: Mon Mar 03, 2008 1:19 am 
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It happens, it's really perfectly normal. You're a human being, not a machine, so you're gonna run out of energy from time to time, life can be exhausting and occassionally you need a break!

I had this happen back in January and so I took a couple weeks off, stopped posting on the forum, didn't go sarging for a while, I started hanging out with my other friends more again and started playing some video games to get back to roots. It worked well for me, I got my energy back, got re-centered and remembered that you have to take a break now and then. Now I like to play some games with my friends at least once every couple days, just to keep relaxed.

Now, make sure not to fall into the trap of becoming lazy, never getting back out there, being anti-cocial and doing nothing but gaming or whatever hobby you like to do. Moderation is the key.

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PostPosted: Mon Mar 03, 2008 3:32 am 
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thanks for the replies guys. much appreciated.

hopefully this nonsense won't last too much longer.


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