The first set I opened last night was a warm-up set. It went very well.. Next, I moved to a mixed set one table over. There was a gay guy who was very outgoing. Gay or not, he was the AMOG. I ended up chatting with him for quite a while. He was some kind of rock star.. The entire time people would come up to me, hug me, etc because I was chatting with him.

People, at first, thought I was gay--- One of his friends (my target) engaged me in conversation. It wasn't long before I kissed her. She seemed surprised... She said "you're straight?"

I said: "of course, why do you ask"

Besides the fact that I'm talking with a gay guy, she said it was because of my style-- I wore a pink button-down with a green/black camo t-shirt over it.. (I love the combo of pink with camouflage, lol.) She said:” most straight guys don't have as much style,” lol...

I got the target’s number, but ended up hanging out with the gay guy for the rest of the night. This guy was some kind of rock star. We rolled VIP to the next club.. he was shaking hands and knuckle bumping everyone from the doorman to the coat-check girl.. This guy was social phenom. Any and every set he opened, the girls absolutely adored him.. This guy was lights out. He was overtly gay, but I guarantee this guy could have layed any girl he wanted.

We hung out the whole night, and ended up having breakfast in a casino diner the next morning (well, that same night, lol).

So, my question is, what about a gay guy as a pivot? Do any of you hang out with gay guys?

Before you respond, let me tell you… Women treat you differently if they assume you are gay… You totally fly under the radar, lol. And when you tell them you’re straight, it seems kind of (pleasantly) surprising to them… Let them believe you’re gay.. at first.. it’s an easy in, IMO…

One of my clients is queer as a three dollar bill. Every night i see him out he is with 2+ hb6's and up. One night I saw him out with 2 hb9's another 2 hb10's. Its fucking uncanny and a gay pivot is probably well worth it. Be friend the gays its like haveing a backstage pass to a show (no pun intended). They have the ability to bring the Bitch Sheilds down.

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A bartender at the restaurant where my old roommates used to work is gay and I went out with him one night and if we had been somewhere with more women, it would have been easy as fishing in a barrel with a bundle of dynamite. We went to the gay bar and we met 2 girls that were interested in guys the whole night and both of them showed lots of interest and I was talking about taking one home until her gay friends dragged her off.

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The whole gay pivot thing is wonderful man. Yes, it is an easy in, flying under the radar. Why do you think we have a gay opener? LOL. And THIS example shows why guys SHOULDN'T be worried about . . . "how do I get her to know I'm not gay? Won't that ruin the whole thing?" NOPE! It just gets you in.

do you have a picture of this?