I wanted to see what are other people's thoughts on this.

When I go out, I feel like people are out to have fun whereas I'm there with a specific agenda.

I feel like I stand out from the night.

It feels like people are socializing and having fun, whereas I'm sarging alone and busting in on them.

How do you see this issue?

Who says you cant have fun learning game.

Change your thoughts.

Everyone else looks like they are having fun but if you take a closer look all you'll see is a bunch of choads and naturals out with their social circle.

You ain't a choad, and you're in this forum, so you aint a natural.

You're better.

Be a boss and approach.

I understand how you feel because when learning game at first can feel like a task.

But once you learn it you'll DESTROY, often times have waaaay more fun than naturals because you'll be socially free and aware.

But yeah, dont forget to have fun even when practicing.

If you feel like you're busting in on people then you are.

You need to work on your core confidence and you're ability to give value.

Take control of your thoughts, your lifestyle, become intune with your masculinity and who you are as a man.

problem is you're out there with the "Give me" mentality.

Give me pussy
Give me fun
Give me good reactions.


A good PUA is out there spreading the seed of his awsomeness.
And ultimately spreading his natural seed
Sharing his awsomeness with the people
So you're not breaking in the party, you are the party.

This is a whole deeper, very simple, mental concept but i hope you get the gist of it.

A simple way you can start appying this concept is by taking a look in the mirror and telling yourself WHY you're the shit.

If you dont have any reasons, you better start building some or you aint ever going to win.

Pump yourself up.

And dont make up fake reasons, actually DO things that make you think you're cool.

Read a book
Lift some weights
Make some money
Buy some cool clothes
Fix your hair
Joke around
Flirt
Be positive
Meditate
Smile
Make people smile
ect. ect.

have a fun life for yourself then you will never "break into" a party, you'll be the party.

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Have fun then.

Do you think the veterans around here are taking turns to opening 'sets'? They just have a blast and do their thing.

The pick up mode needs to be experienced I guess and you will gradually start to like it. Kinda like the gym, hate every second of it till you've developed a routine and you look forward to go to teh gym to see the new gains. Get a routine going.

Once you're getting making outs and numbers consistently, you pretty much can't wait till you go out next

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