Hi,

Apologizing in advance to the one-itis haters. But there's one specific girl that I really want to hookup/ potentially have a relationship with. I don't know enough about pua to approach this without asking for advice on how to do this.


Not the head-over-heels ignorant disregard for the fact that they're in the friendzone (no, I don't 'fully' believe in the friendzone, but thats a matter separate/pmable from this post) kind of one-itis, more like this girl is really smart, and interesting (and in normal circumstances I think I'd have asked her out), but she has a boyfriend (good ones always do, don't they, huh?).

The moral guys might say 'wait til they break up', but that's a flawed view anyway (waiting is basically the 'gutless' thing to do, and waiting causes loss of attraction).

The typical one-itis responders might say 'just date other girls, you'll get over her', but I have dated other girls (another recently) and enough to know girls like her are rare and I don't want to wait for the next one.


This question is more about strategy than ethics anyway, so how do I get her?






Thanks in advance, guys. I appreciate your comments.

You provided absolutely no relevant information about the nature of the relationship you two have going on.

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So you have a crush with a girl that has a BF?

You might as well be asking advice how to seduce Kim Kardashian

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Look. You might be stalking this girl who has no interest with you at all and that's illegal. Besides that, you haven't provided any detail that we can work on.

If it's illegal, I don't want anything to do with it. If your detail is good, we might come up with something. The bottom line is, once a man is in oneitis mode, his chances with the girl drops 99%.

It's your vibe that will make you fail. That oneitis vibe isn't attractive at all. Been there, done that. The only chance you've got with this girl is to cut off any contact with this girl for one year and work on improving yourself, health-wise, fashion-wise and skills-wise with other women (several dozens).

Again, if the details are good, we might come up with something other than the tried, true, reliable and tested advice of: "Go sarge other women."

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You already knew the replies you'd get here.

This is a pickup forum. Not a "she's amazing and --- EVEN THOUGH I DON'T KNOW A THING ABOUT HER --- I've decided on her behalf that I'm better than her boyfriend so she should be with me" forum.

I still have no idea how guys fall in love with chick's the haven't even dated. You don't know her enough to care this much. You don't know of she's a bad kisser, or she could be bad in bed, or she could be pilor and depressed, or she could be a nagger. You need to meet more women if you're even taking seriously your perception of who a girl is. You don't know her