Game is bugging the fuck out of me. In its essence though game is simply having good communication skills and presenting/dressing well.

As per usual I like to ask questions, but I also like mix the lessons I’ve learned or experiences I’m currently having to HELP other people gain some insight and not make the same mistakes.

1) Lack of closeness/good conversations with people. Not for the want of trying I make the effort in conversation but feel people don’t dislike me but they don’t really like me that much either.

2)Every interaction I have at the moment is horrible online/real life. I’m getting 0 interest from any girls at the moment and when I do I just get frustrated with them and almost take it out on them for showing interest when they do because I feel like it will end up like shit, just like the rest of the interactions are going at the moment. I literally feel like a VIRGIN again. I'm currently thinking how I got laid in the first place and what they even saw in me.

SIDE NOTE: Because im getting a lot if negative interactions its stopping me from wanting to interact more and learn.

If you want any-more insight on what I mean let me know

Go back to basics? Repeat the old rookie challenge, and rather than worrying about game just focus on the three building blocks: stand up straight, hold eye contact when speaking, and be happy.

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I'll be honest in saying this is probably the best "question" post I've seen on here in 3 months.

You've got what the "game" part is down but you're missing the rest of the picture.

You can have "good game"... But you still need to be an attractive guy.

Assuming you have all the rest of your shit in order, (interesting job, cool lifestyle, healthy, etc.) it seems to me like your big problem is being polarizing. You seem more concerned about not getting rejected than you do about getting laid.

I'll tell you right now, as someone who used to crave acceptance from other people more than anything, that is not the right frame of mind to be in. You're either going to realize rather quickly that most people aren't going to like you, accept that, and enjoy being happy with the people who like you for who you are or you're going to keep trying to fit to everyone's standards and getting the same frustrating results.

You didn't give a ton of context in your original post but if you'd like to elaborate, I'll help you figure this shit out. Sounds like you've got some deep neediness/acceptance issues going on.

If you have the fundamentals, basic social skills , approaching girls and making a move, you will get laid by default.

Too many times I see people who do the approach stuff but totally neglect the fundamentals and the fact they they are approaching perfect babes whilst being a poorly dressed over weight guy with bad accent.

They then focus on crap like NLP, push/pull and totally disregard the gym, eating clean, investing into their style and actually believe that looks don't matter when in fact. Getting into shape and dressing well is probably THE quickest and biggest bang for your buck to obtain pussay, it also requires no anxiety. So you can actually double your game within a weekend's work and not having to approach a single girl.

What about your social skills? If you were to meet your friend's friend. Would he think you're a cool guy? Do you make things intense? Are you the tne word reply guy?

All you have to do, is be a little above average with those 3/4 things and you will get laid sporadically by default. It really isn't hard to be better than the average guy. The more beyond the fundamentals you take it. The less games tactics you have to use.
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"But dragula, I do have those things"

I would get a 2nd opinion from a 3rd party. Or even PM me to take a look at how you carry yourself. Too many guys think they dress well but they just don't.

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Sounds to me like a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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im going through the exact same thing, i just didn't know how to ask the question.

This is actually a really good question not just for game, surprised more people haven't weighed in on this

I agree with "The Coach" about how most people aren't going to like you, and that in reality you have to accept it as it is. Like he said just be happy with the friends and family that accept you for who you are.

Your not alone, I am also dealing with a similar situation right now. Shit, for a period of two years i just stopped caring about myself and doing reckless stupid things that could've gotten myself injured/killed due to the fact that my social life was lagging behind alot and shit in honesty I'm 19 and I'm still a virgin.

You should really work on your positive thinking. I know that you are not getting the results you want and it can really turn your thinking pessimistic, but like I said just keep thinking positive.

Sorry for getting of topic, but I just wanted to share that with you.

Okay back on topic!

In times like these one way to boost my confidence/game is to get in shape by working out and investing money into better clothes.

Seriously these will help you feel better, especially the gym in irritating times like this.