So there's 2 girls In my life right now.

Girl 1(Df)
So I kinda kept her away for a while cause I thought she was too good to be true. Beautiful girl, knows a lot about different subjects, loves music, and speaks her mind. She's really nice to hang out with. I find her sexually attractive but I don't really think about sex when I'm with her.

Girl 2
Met her online and took her out a few times. She is very assertive. She is kinda hard to talk to cause shes anxious. When I'm with her I want to have sex with her and it's on my mind but I'm not sure how to. Plus she always seems to be busy and I rarely see her.

So here's my dilemma. I'm going to Italy in a week (military) and won't be back for 2 years. Girl 1 i have a lot of respect for and I want to keep her in my life.

Girl 2 i could see myself dating for a little bit but nothing long term. I haven't had sex in almost 6 months and I know its just gonna be longer in another country.

So I'm trying to decide if I should have sex with one or not. Because I'm dating girl 2 but I'm closer with girl 1. Girl 2 is kinda busy and doesn't have/make a lot of time for me but when she's free she gets mad if I don't see her. Girl 1 told me she was busy but said that if I ever want to just chill with her while she studies she'd enjoy the company.

So my options are be mature and just go for girl 1 even if that means no sex
Or go for girl 2 and maybe get sex but it'd be meaningless

You are not considered dating or have a power to choose until the bitch chooses you. You know you are chosen when she opens her legs and let you enter her. Clear!

So you are not dating any and you find one sexually unattractive and another masculine and bossy but she is hotter. Who should you be with?

If you are desperate fool with no self respect both are good for you. I advise you though to get an escort and fuck the desperation out of you.

My boy your problem is you are desperate and needy like crazy. The girl you choose to be with must turn you on and you must want to fuck her. So Girl one is easily out of the picture.

Girl two needs a bitch slap and you must make it clear that to be around you that bossy attitude should end. There is one boss who give the orders and it is you.

Be a man,
Pimpin'Scout

Swerve

Why not both?

You haven't had sex in 6 months and are going away for 2 years. I don't know how often you get free time to do whatever you want in the military but I'll tell you one thing, you won't find many english speaking people in Italy. You won't find any other-than-italian speaking people for the most part. At least that was my experience.

I'd have sex with both of them given this situation. Definitely the second if you're so attracted to her.

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You haven't had sex. You're not dating.

You're going away for 2 years. You're not going to be able to create any type of relationship that is worth maintaining over the course of the next week lol fuck them if they want to have sex. Don't put any weird expectations behind it though.

You're not "together." You just hang out sometimes. Don't be weird.

This sounds like a answer from a boy

I was going to say the same thing about your question... but I was trying not to be a dick.

What do you think these women think of you?

You act all pussy whipped and you haven't even touched her pussy.

And you're talking about over seas relationships?

Psshh.... Not only are you a little boy... You're a fucking push over if you think these little "angels" are going to remain loyal to you for 2 years while you're over seas. Welcome to reality man.

Women are loyal to the man that fucks them the best. Not the one who tells them the best bed time stories.

This sounds like the answer of a hurt boy.

Right.... I forgot... I was the one asking the question.........

Because it's an answer you don't like to hear doesn't mean taking a shot at me is going to do ya any good, pal. I was deluded into the same disney reality that you are and then some real world experience woke me fuck up.

So "hurt" is the wrong word. Jaded? Ehhh maybe. I've seen some shit.

Welcome to Reality. You can keep getting pushed around or you can start doing some pushing. Either way, your choices don't impact me so I really don't give a shit. Call me a boy again lol I'm done trying to explain this to you.

Remain dumb if you'd like. Otherwise, wake the fuck up.

You can either be a player or the played... I'm trying to help you be the player...My guess is you like getting worked over cause you're not liking my advice. Good luck to you.

To be honest I have no idea what your response has to do with the original question. It just sounds like you're bitter toward women.

"i've see some she shit" lol I didn't realize your relationships were Vietnam

Well I've been talking to other people and apparently they think I'm cheating on girl 2. To me dating isn't like being together but a lot of people are saying otherwise. Girl 1 is cool and we talked about it and the only reason we aren't calling it dating is because I'm leaving. I'm thinking of just asking girl 2 what she thinks but I don't want to hurt her feelings cause she's going through some stuff

How can you be cheating if you're not physical with either of them?

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This was my response to your original question. Re-read it. Because you're not "dating" these either of these girls.

You're talking to them. But they have 0 investment in you. Zero. Zilch. None. Natta. Okay? They don't have your baby yet. There is no reason for them to answer your phone calls or stay "loyal" to you when you leave.

So quit being some lovey dovey 4th grader stuck in a Disney Movie. This is real life. Girls like dick. Girls love to have their legs spread apart while you ravish them from behind and pull their hair. The like being gagged and blindfolded.

You are not giving these girls what they really want. You are giving them what your mommy told you they want.

You're still "dating" like you're in grade school. You guys sit underneath the bleachers and talk to each other? Maybe kiss her on the cheek after a few weeks?

Get the fuck out of fantasy land man.

P.S. You've got no idea what I've been through Mr. Tough Guy Military Man. Forgot civilians are just pieces of shit to you guys. Nobody has ever experienced anything life endangering except for military people right? Everyone else is just a bunch of pussies?

Your posts you've made on here so far make you sound like a big, soft, floppy vagina... And my guess is that's why you're struggling with your dating life. I saw another post you made about not being the guy a girl cheats with because it's "dickish."

Guess what? Assholes finish first in this world. Being Mr. Nice and Noble is going to leave you standing with your dick in your hand for the rest of your life. No other guy who's got the opportunity to fuck your hot girlfriend is going to say "I don't want to fuck this girl... That would be dickish."

Women don't like pussies. Stop acting like a pussy. You're not in Disney Land with mommy any more. Wake up.

Tl;Dr
Thanks for your input