hi all, i female friend of mine sent me a link earlier today that basically says if ure under 5ft6 ure gonna struggle getting laid. she sent it joking around as she knows im only 5ft6 myself. link below

ive had afew expiriences myself through pof where they have said "ure a nice guy but ure to short for me" thats an actuall quote. and by girls in bars/clubs who look at you like dirt if youre short and try and approach them.

my question is has anyone else been turned down or rejected (although thats a harsh term) due to hieght and has anyone found a way to over come short guy troubles?

http://www.thesun.co.uk/sol/homepage/wo ... women.html

It happens, I am 5ft 9 and sometimes I can't compete with girls in heels.

There are plenty of petite girls going around though.

Options:
- You can some 'shoe lifts', combine with boots and that will get you to an average height.
- Or just kinda be pride-full about it and accept it. Involves some serious inner game though.

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Develop inner game, What girls say about height is not indicative of weather you can bang them.

Laugh it off

reframe

Game them

look up RSD Max who is 5'6 and look up cupidshmoopid who is like 5'2

These dudes are short but can pull really well

attraction isn't a choice.

Talk to girls instead of relying on POF, and learn to take a joke when your friend tells you one.

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The only reason you're going to have a harder time getting laid is because really only a girl who's shorter than you is going to be into you (which is still quite a few girls... so don't tweak.) and for good reason.

Women like to be dominated. Physically and emotionally. Unfortunately, you're smaller so you're not going to make the girl feel physically dominated. You're just not going to turn women on in the same respect.

My suggestion to you would be to start lifting weights and pack on some size if you are skinny and short. I'm only 5'10 but I'm a fucking monster so I make someone who's 6'1 and skinny look like a baby. If you can't grow up, grow out. (Just make sure its mostly muscle and not flab lol)

And on top of that, its difficult having sex with a girl who's taller than you. Sex positions seem like they were just "made for" the guy to be taller than the girl. I've had sex with a few girls who are taller than me (which is way too tall for a girl to still be feminine. It puts her in the category of Amazon Woman.) and it was really fucking awkward.

im 5ft 3 and yeah i get alot of shit. not just because of that. im also partly deaf and a little overweight. ive been punched out of the way by girls friends haha. best you can do is laugh it off and halve fun, show them you can have fun and if they say that you are too small, say to them that they are too short and u can make exceptions, but say it in a fun way and you not giving a shit about how tall you are. acceptance in key and be percent.

there is a new guy in rsd who looks small so look up RSD Sam and look at some of RSD vidios on youtube as they do help.

my height only hinders me when i let it so dont let.

He's wrong. He is flat out wrong.

If short guys had such a hard time getting sex, there wouldn't be many short dudes anymore. Genetic variation in our species is fundamental proof that there is no single genetic trait that dominates because VARIATION IS KEY.

So get over your height, learn some game, and go outside. You are on POF, you're not even out talking to women.

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I'm 5'7 , relatively short but 5'6 and under is definately short. In my experience i've seen guys who are short as fuck killing it. And thats a fact.

I saw a dude who i met through a friend, short dude, with a smoking hot girl. And yes it looks weird, but he fucking owned it. I carefully observed the phenomenon.

Then through a little more life experiences i started seeing guys who are not average, in height or in physical appearances, rise above all these fucking excuses and DOMINATE.

To wanabegurus who will undeniably say i am talking rubbish and pure motivation bullshit can take their hippy ass home cus this is hardfacts and your ignorance repulses me.

If you know anything about success in game you know core confidence is the way to go.

Rise above the rest.

Short guys get laid too.

Be Short and Alpha.

Check out Sean Stephenson.

ps. I was 5'7 bout 135 pounds(skinny as fuck, not anymore i hit the gym now) and i've had instances where i've seduced 2 girls at the same time for a threesome pull and i remember guys coming up to me at the club while both girls were dancing on me like "Dude wtf?? how did you do it?"

My response to that will always be "Confidence man, Real Confidence"

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It's funny how in these height threads there are always apples to oranges comparisons. Yes, sean stephenson is really short. Yes he was able to get married. Yes, if you're short, odds are you'll still be able to get married and pass on your genes. If you're 5'6 you can still get laid and have relationships. The problem comes from applying these examples to COLD APPROACH. Sean Stephenson aint at the bars walking up to chicks and sleeping with them consistently. So comparing SS and the average short guys ability to get married or pass on their genes doesn't add up. "Oh Sean S was able to get married" ="You should be able to get married." It does not equal "You should be able to pickup girls consistently at the bar and bang no problem." It's cold approach, it's different from what most short guys in the world are doing to meet women which is social circle. It's not an equal comparison. The examples should be about knowing x short guy who is able to get laid consistently through cold approach and him having no problems, not a guy who was able to get married, or a guy having a taller gf who he most likely met at work. And X guru whose job it is to take your money and sell the dream is not a good example. Especially now where all these guys are having to admit to using fake footage.

That aside, being short is a negative. Cold approach is tough. Girls are more selective with strangers. Even more so online. So meet girls in person, work out. You CAN overcome it but it's still something that has to be overcome.

thanks for all the replies guys, i wasnt meaning to come across in a moaning and/or negative way but youre advice does leave me more optimistic for future oppatunities. just felt the topic was one alot had expirienced and wanted to see there opinions and expirinces

dude obviously sean stephenson isnt cold approaching.

And obviously neither are you.

After approaching thousands of girls you realize cold approach is merely a tool that is backed up by CORE CONFIDENCE.

Then you start looking at the bigger picture of attraction and what it takes to really get what you want out of life and accept what you can get out of life and what type of girls you can have in your life and how to get them.

Cold approach is your pick up artist fantasy lol. This is the year 2015, move on dude.

Cold approach is something a confident man does.

Sean doesn't need to cold approach because it wouldn't make any sense.

This isnt magic buddy. This is the reality of life. And the reality of life is even people like sean or people in bad circumstances can have success with women.

You dont have to be one track minded and assume all success comes from cold approach.

Cold approach is awsome but theres all kinds of things you can do.

Cold approach is a byproduct of a confident man.

I'd go as far is to erase "Cold approach" and just say you're being a go getter, a winner, someone who doesn't miss opportunities, or otherwise maximizes opportunities.

And i'm sure sean or any other short dude who takes ACTION is a winner and totally capable of having love in their life.

Fuck off with your cold approach fantasy land shit lol.

Guys are in this to find love or get laid and become confident men, not to be "Cold approach masters" lmao.

And cold approach is NOT tough you fruit cake hippy why are you being negative.

You're simply portraying the fact that you don't cold approach correctly. lol.


ps. dont mean any disrespect with me name calling, i'm just humoring myself, due to my harsh upbringings i tend to lash out a bit

And to add on:

A list of things you can do to get girls that when combined produce awsome results

BODYBUILD
CHARISMA
BE SOCIAL(Neccessary)
BE PROACTIVE(Neccessary)
FUNNY
CONFIDENT
HAPPY
POSITIVE
ALPHA
IMAGINATIVE

the list goes on...

Oh and yea...

Cold approach,

good luck doing that without any of the above qualities.

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Lol. Wtf are you talking about dtrak? It's like you literally just threw a bunch of things together that had no relation to what I said.
Look, the OP mentioned meeting women on pof and bars. Cold approach. Now, if you want to give him a relevant example, you don't give him an example of someone getting success who does not cold approach because it does not fit his situation. And if you give that example, you should at least have enough honesty to acknowledge that yeah SS does not fit your situation but blah blah blah.
For example if a guy came for advice on starting a business from scratch you dont give him an example of someone who inherited a business and how he runs it.
SS does not cold approach. So using that example as proof for a guy who is cold approaching is just dishonest. And if you want to tell the guy that it's more than just cold approach and he should meet women beyond cold approach as SS does, that's fine, but not what you did. As I said you compare apples to oranges and then want to act like they're the same. The OP, didnt come here asking about whether he can hopefully find a wife, he asked a question about his success at meeting complete strangers. Now you want to be like "Oh, you will be able to find a wife one day"....but thats not what he asked about. Forget about him having success at the bars or pof more, one day he will find a wife or some vagueness about love in his life

It's a negative. Being fat is a negative. Being short is a negative. Can you still find a wife one day? Sure. Will those things hamper you at the bar/club? Yes. I'm not gonna tell a non white guy that him being non white means nothing in a bar full of white girls. There are gonna be some that will disqualify him off his race alone. The strength is in accepting the truth and being ok with it. Not pretending that it means nothing.

So if you're looking for love one day, don't worry abt your height, stay the same and eventually you'll find someone. If you're looking to increase your success at the bars or on pof with being short, work out and be more dominant. Majick and Pebble gave real advice, not dreams about how girls will not reject you due to your height. So accept it and work around it. Doesnt mean you have to be insecure just honest. If you're planning on approaching strangers whether online or in person, how tall you are, how ugly you are, how fat you are all matter. If you're meeting women through friends, or work, they still matter, but you have more leeway.You can still get many girls, but maximize yourself and make up for your limitations. Don't fool yourself that that 5'8 girl isnt gonna know your short because you're confident. But it will be easier to change her mind about sleeping with/dating you if you bring other things to the table.

Some say...Dtrak is the reason why Waldo is hiding...

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Neo87 you twat, stop quoting my shit , let the OP interpret it how he wants to, i'm fairly confident in my beliefs and have changed alot of lives including mines thanks to it, but theres always hippies like you who will want to argue.

Fair enough. You win. I've got nothing to gain from argueing with your irrelevant self.

Dragula you cheerleader you. :p

Let the OP judge, not you hippies.

Every bit of information helps.

My technique is encouragement to take action.

But apparently neo wants to argue about cold approach haha, you hippy.

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This isn't a joke but i swear I dont know if you're actually serious or just parodying a very weird pickup blogger. I think it's just parody tbh. I'll have to check tomorrow, but last time I saw one of your vids there was like 2 people watching your stuff...so what lives are you changing? Come on man, you have got to making fun of yourself or the industry or something

PS- none of that was to offend you, I just assume that you're not serious abt coaching people and just making fun of the industry. If you do intend to make money off this I apologize cause its not for me to judge your goals. It's just weird to me that someone with 2 subscribers would call themselves "relevant" so I assume your playing.