Hi guys. I'm Cockydevil (because cockiness is my thing & because I like being the bad guy), 20, sort of AFC from Romania. Currently in a relationship (going into almost 1.5 years, but my girlfriend has always kind of been retarded), laid 2 girls all my life (current gf & a one night stand this summer), kissed about 7. I've joined the forum couple of months ago, and then it was also the time I figured I want to be a PUA. It all started with "The Game", I've read a couple of pages, it got me super intrigued, and I sorta had the "Eureka!" moment when I saw what the book was about: I had to get better at picking up! Unfortunately, I wasted my summer with useless stuff, and only a week ago my PUA dream came back to life.

I've started re-reading "The Game", got myself one of those handbooks to write every useful information, and kinda started developing my picking-up routine. I have 5 of the 6 points in the "Mystery Alpha Characteristics" and those are: smile, sense of humor, well-grooming, connecting with people, and also being seen as a social center. My problem lies in the domain of confidence. It's not that I'm not confident, but I kinda have a problem when I have to open a deal...I do some crazy overthinking sh*t, and that's one of the things I want to get rid of quite immediately. I've gotten myself some openers (SPAM, I've rehearsed a bit The Maury Povich opener, and the not-so-100% rejection proof opener, the one where you pretend to confuse her with an ex-colleague-somewhat of yours), a routine (Style's Five Question Game), and also the basic format of the approaches. I don't have a problem in being cocky-funny when I'm engaged in a conversation, so I imagine neging will not be so hard, although I do want to also improve in this domain. Body language is kinda solid (everyone tells me I have an arrogant & self-righteous way to walk), although I would love to know how to improve it (guess I'm going to have to search something on that domain). I've written a sh*t load of information, but here's a resume of what I want:

Things to work on:

- the actual game
- confidence
- openers and routines
- improving cockyfunny

My goal is to learn the game, cause SPAM I suck. But I have a reason to be proud of myself, and that is I started doing research on picking-up and rehearsing to improve my game, and also I'm motivated to go out and meet up girls. I also want to improve current qualities, mostly cockiness & being a funny little mofo, so if you happen to know some lines, books about it or something like that, I kindly ask you to help a fellow AFC out. And that's it for this night. Going to sleep now, cause I want to read & practice tomorrow, maybe even go out for a sarging ride in the town..

PS: If you have some general tips, guides that can help me, or whatever can help me, please do send me a message or even reply here so every fellow wannabe PUA like me could savour the info

So, last night I went sarging with a couple of friends (they didn't know what was going to happen lol) in a club in my town. Club theme: Girls night, free drinks for ladies all night - I wondered how could this go wrong? We got there, payed the entrance, I bought myself a neat whiskey, insta spotted a HB8. We made quick eye contact, I saw her smile, took it as an early-game IOI, went in her area. The problem was that she was sitting at the bar with 2 girl friends of her, and was nearly impossible not to come from behind, so I waited for her to turn, she eventually did, and she actually opened me: Do you have a lighter? Playful is my game, so I playfully told her that I don't, but eventually one of my friends helped me out with a lighter. She lit up her cigarette, and told me "We know each other". Shocker. I asked her "Really?", and then she told me "Yeah, we went to school together". The funny part comes now, cause she kinda implied that we were in the same class (that was 5 years ago), asked me if I kept connections going between me and "our" former classmates, bla bla. I laughed my ass out inside, but kept it cool on the outside, actually agreed that we were in the same class and such.

Anyways, we kept things going, having a casual but entertaining conversation, a bit about university (cause she just started), a bit about that night, a bit about how was our day jibber jabber. After a little while, I started paying attention to her group, a HB6 and a HB9, made some small talk with them, negged the sh*t out of my target, laughing with the other HBs, then turning again my attention towards her. I did Style's 5 questions game on her, she lost it at the "How many until now?" question, even though at first she did not realise that she lost, and then she got a little mad cause her friends were like "OMG SUCH A FAIL HAHA". I gently refused the drink, told her that I've had anyways too much for the night, but then she gave me her drink, at first I was like "Are you trying to get me drunk? Cause it's not working" (push) but then I was like, when she wasn't paying attention, I'd go sneaky peeky and take a sip from her drink as her friends were watching and laughing. She told me to play more games, I told her that I don't take orders from anyone, I eventually performed the ESP trick, I said 7 on the 2nd turn, she said Yes, but then she changed her mind, I negged her about this. Minutes passed, I asked her if she wants to see something cool, she said Yes, I told her to come with me, told her friends to relax cause we'll be back in a bit. I kinoed her a bit (Gambler's I-dont-remember-how-it-s-called, but she was behind me, and instead of kinoing her hand, I intentionally mistouched her around her va-jay-jay. She kinoed me back. The funny thing was, I only wanted to take my jacket in the cloakroom, that was the cool thing I was telling her about. She told me that I'm a cheater, bla bla, that I owe her a drink for this scheme, I told her that a drink wasn't implied in the first place, she fought me, bla bla, I won, bla bla, we went back. We danced, she was all over me, lap dancing, rubbing her ass around Cockydevil.jr, singing, dancing. I got all the IOIs in the world, the kissing & f*cking was close.


But then..a twist in the action.

As I was there, feeling proud as f*ck and almost close to tell her to come with me to catch a breath outside, I realised just how cute the HB9 she was with is, and I switched targets. I could tell that the HB9 liked me, because the signs were there. Anyway, the thing I had to do was pretty hard. Switching from the HB8 that I could have easily closed to the HB9 was no easy job. I DHVed all the night, so that part was over, so instead I went cockyfunny on her, negging, pushing and pulling, casually switching my attention to HB8, then to her again, bla bla. Dancing went on, partying went on, and after some time, she asked me what's my zodiac. "What do you think?". "Gemini". "And why are you saying that?". "Because I'm a Gemini too". It was on. I had mad game. (meanwhile HB8 was literally crying for attention, pulling me, telling me to not make fun of her friends again, cause they could get angry and stuff like this. damn she was funny)

I continued having a great time. I was dancing (I am a good dancer), we looked at each other, I laughed at her moves (cause she was imitating an oriental dance), she laughed at my moves (cause I did too), we had an amazing time. Crazy little Cockydevil already got the HB8's Facebook earlier that night, I went on her Facebook, saw the last checkin she posted, it was with the HB6 and the HB9, found out what her name was. "You said you were Gemini, right?". "Yep". "Well, I'm going to take a long shot here and try to guess your name". I got mad game, telling her about vibrations & shit, cause b*tches love that stuff, told her that I think her name's X, she didn't know what else to say. Well, I told her that my mom's also a Gemini, also named X, bla bla. (meanwhile HB8 went to get me a drink). Negging, dancing, laughing, converting attention to others, push pull, crazy stuff.

We had a great time, and eventually they had to go. That's when HB8 came at me, kinoed the sh*t out of me, bla bla we have to go but let's grab a coffee these days, bla bla. I ignored HB9 for a bit, talked to HB8, waved goodbye, got home, added HB9 on Facebook, talked to her, & as I write this we set up a date on Sunday.


Sarge review & things to do next time:

- choose target wisely lol
- get some new, better, mindblowing routines
- although the game seems to be on, next time I want her to give me her Facebook (as HB8 gracefully did), try to ignore her more (even though I did ignore the HB9 as I was DHVed especially for HB8) but still, it's ok for my first sarge, especially cause I switched targets

So, yesterday I went on a date with this HB9 I picked up on last Thursday in the club. We should have met at 17:20 , so I arrived at 17:30. I made a gentle kino opener, put my hand on her back and cheek-kissed her. We went to a coffee pub, and as we walked, we've made some small talk.

As we arrived, I knew instantly where we should go (upstairs, they had a couch), so we went there, I sat down on the couch but damn she sat in front of me in a chair. I'm guessing now that she wasn't comfortable enough to sit by my side. Even though I said to myself GOD DAMMIT, I played it cool and tried to make her comfortable, as I noticed she was a littlte bit nervous (her voice was trembling a little bit, she couldn't find her words, she was pretty stressed overall). The whole date was a tease, pull & push thing that I think she enjoyed. We talked a bit about her day, about mine, we joked, I went cocky funny (I think a little bit TOO cocky funny), and I found ways to escalate the situation. From jokes to her saying a stupid thing to me saying that "Ah, women don't think" tease (I don't remember how I've said it exactly, but the idea is there) to her getting pissed at me for saying that to me saying that "You see, it's not that they don't think. But you women have a thing that it's wired into your subconscious, and that thing helps you to make your decisions bla bla EVEN IF YOU AREN'T FULLY AWARE OF IT bla bla, and then I performed the EV routine. Negs, pushpull, EV routine, cockyfunny, and the date went amazingly well. We left the coffee pub after 4 hours, in which we had a great time. The IOIs were there, I did some kino and she replied back even more, she subtly complimented me (subtly for her but not for me), she was smiling at all times (even when I didn't say something to make her laugh).

So we went down for a walk, as my apartment was in her direction and she had to take a bus ride from somewhere near my apartment. She put her hand around mines (obvious IOI), we walked, we talked, we had a great time. The bummer is that she had to meet her sister at some supermarket. Her sister called her, and offered her a ride there. HB told her that she is waiting for the bus (even though she wasn't, another IOI) and that she will meet her there. But her sister insisted to pick her up, the deal was made. Another IOI came soon as she told me to hurry to get to the meeting point before her sister does. She definitely wanted to kiss me. Unfortunately, her sister was already there, I could tell that it wasn't appropiate to kiss, so we cheek-kissed and said goodbye to each other. My next move was to tell her on Facebook "Tell your sister I don't like her anymore". She replied when she got home "Why?" and I told her "I'll tell you the next time we meet. Luckily for you, I have no plans these days haha". I could tell that this intrigued her , as she is the curious kind of girl. Next time we meet I'm planning on insta-kissing her, but the line I will say isn't ready yet.

Things to improve:

- definitely need more building rapport & building a emotional and physical connection routines
- pay attention to the moments when I know I have to anchor her, cause yesterday I should have done it during the EV routine but I didn't
- pay more attention to PULLING when being cocky funny, cause yesterday I mostly did pushing lol
- kiss her you dumbass idiot

Theoretically, I've won the Stylelife challenge. But in no way I'm going to quit now. I'm thinking of restarting it, because these days I haven't payed that much attention to it. So, Stylelife challenge begins today

awesome read man ...... loved the upgrade

lolz.. I just read 2 paragraphs out of all your posts. What I could gather was that you met a girl from school and then switched to another "more hot" girl. . May be keep your posts a bit short next time ??

So every one starts with "The Game", you are not the only one. Looks like you are enjoying your time and having fun. Good luck man and keep updating, not 300 words long paragraphs though

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Dont know much about routine game, but what you are doing sounds great! And your analysis of yourself is brilliant. Just keep going and dont get tied down. Good work man.

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First of all, thank you for the awesome replies, guys! And yeah, as Style981 said, I'll try to keep my posts shorter next time.

I was kind of lazy these days, mostly because of college. BUT, the great part comes now. I'm going on a trip from Monday till Wednesday (college trip), the college trip goal is to visit some college-related sh*t. However, I only intend to pickup. I feel like I backed off a bit these days, lacking some motivation, but this trip idea really pumps me.

So tomorrow's gonna be a long day, getting my prop bag in order. I have some new things to learn, others to practice. Gonna update on Monday night to see how everything went. Wish me luck!

Little update time.

Yesterday I went out with HB9 I was talking about in my second post (as far as I remember) and we went to this coffee shop in town, called Hubert. As soon as we got there, I threw my jacket on the couch, instructed her to sit on it, victoriously dancing in my head as I watched her do what I say (it was a win situation for me, cause the last time we went to get a coffee she sat in front of me, although I almost did the same thing, trying to MAKE her to sit by me).

It was on. I didn't use any routine, magic, or gimmick, as it was not needed. No DHV needed, attraction & rapport already built these days (late night talks, cinema date, lets-go-on-a-walk date, etc), I had nothing else to do but be playful, cocky funny, push & pull, and this is my kind of stuff, so I had nothing to prepare, except maybe some funny lines I found along my journey (like the ADD line).

The thing is, she freaking annoyed me, cause she did the push-pull thing to. One second she was kissing me, the other second as I kissed her, she didn't replied. My lips were kissing her's, but her's weren't kissing mine. This pissed me off. It didn't happen once, it happend several times, until I remember I should punish her, so I did: stopped replying to her kisses & stopped kissing her often. This worked out pretty good, as later she just kept on telling me "Kiss me, kiss me". I built more rapport with the Triangle Gaze Method, we had some peaceful, cuddling moments, building even more rapport & attraction. As we left after 4 hours, she took my hand outside. Felt pretty good , although I think she wants, or at least she will want, to be my girlfriend. But that's a clear no-no for me.


Things to improve:

- punishing a girl more when she annoys me, cause yesterday I didn't do it quite right
- I think I need to see myself more as a prize, think like "She's the one that wants to kiss me, it's not me that wants to kiss her", make her earn the right to do it
- pay more attention to my body language, had moments where I felt nervous, even if I didn't show it (I had a ring on my hand and I kept playing with it, and she noticed it)
- definitely have to keep improving my game, and also DO THE GAME, as no sarges were performed in these last days (I think I need to find a way to punish myself when I'm being a pussy)

Well, I'm baaaack.

So a couple of weeks ago, I went to a uni classmate of mine. He lives with his HB5 sister, HB7 non-related to him chick, and his HB9 cousin. Guess which target I picked.

We introduced ourselves, blah blah, talked a bit, found out her Facebook, added here, and since then we've been talking on Facebook.

But that's not important, since here's the Field Report area. So last night I went by their place, bought some drinks, played a game that inolves heavy drinking. The moment I arrived and I said hello, she looked me in the eyes and smiled. IOI. I kinda saw her through the night looking at me, then the instant I looked at her, she would look down. IOI.

We talked through the night, when we made some game pauses, I push-pulled (we were talking about zodiac sign, she's a Gemini, I'm a Scorpion, we talked about traits, concluded that Gemini & Scorpion were a perfect match - pull - and then told her "If you hadn't upset me earlier, things could be like that" bla, bla), went cocky funny, soft kino (touches on arm, kiss on her forhead), no routines were necessary. After about 2 bottles of wine and 1 bottle of 40% liqueur (hoped I spelled it right), me and HB9 were the only ones standing (HB5 went to sleep, HB7 and my classmate went in a room and locked themselves up. wonder what happened there lol).

Idk what the hell we were talking about, but we started kissing, and from there things went better and better. She said stuff like "I guess what they say about Scorpions (not the band, the sign) it's true" , "You're such a good kisser" , "You're incredible" , to stuff like "Well, alcohol gave me the courage to do this" (here I nEGGd her, told her that she shouldn't blame it on the alcohol cause it's irrelevant as f*ck), I don't remember her exact words, but she said something like "God, I want to thank you that I'm kissing this hot stud right here". Anyway, I think we kissed ~1h, moving her around the kitchen, teasing her (pushing when she said something silly, telling her that I'm done with her and turning around, 2 seconds later she was jumping on me).

Well, we did everything except coitus. Cause we didn't quite have a place & the necessary intimacy. We had no kitchen key, and I personally didn't want anyone to come see Mr. Cockydevil JR as he delivered some action. But F-close will happen. I'm not done with her.


Things to improve:

- the IOIs were there, but I didn't payed enough attention to her body language. I need to focus more on the non-verbal situation.
- DHV. I really need to work on DHV routines, and to pay attention to ALL stages of building attraction, cause if this time worked, it doesn't mean that next time I won't need'em.
- my body language. Definitely need to pay more attention to my posture.

Guys, read this until the end and please do tell me some advices about these kinds of situations. So I went out today with this HB10 I met in a college trip a week ago. There, we only said "Hi" and stuff like that, we hang out with our common friends, but I was a F*CKING PUSSY and didn't initiate nothing.

So, yesterday I talked a bit to her on Facebook and today we went out. We went to a coffee shop (funny story, I picked the first spot, we went there, she said she doesn't like it. I asked her "why?", she said "I came here before and they have no couches", I replied that they do have, she said she didn't like the music..I'm starting to think this place has somewhat of a connection to her, I really don't know). So we went to another one.

Dis da hottest girl I've dated till' now and boy, is she a hard one. We made some light, playful, small talk at the beginning about the trip, college, stupid things about exams. The thing is, when I tried to build rapport, trying to find things about her, she wasn't very communicative about it. All my questions/statements received almost the same answer: I don't know. I asked her what was her dream as a child, she said she doesn't remember, things like this. She's not the talkative type, and when I said "I see you're not too conversational", she contraired me, but then continued to being semi-silent. I managed to pull Style's 5 question game on her, got a laugh from her, there were moments when we laughed but also quiet ones.

So, I switched places. I told her to grab her jacket and go for a walk, she agreed. The moment we switched places, she became more comfortable. Nevertheless, still quite silent. But it went ok, playful, light, a bit cocky funny, negs, blah blah.

Don't get me wrong, she did talk. But not as much as I did. I just think more rapport should have been built at the beginning before jumping into those questions I've talked about.

But jesus, almost no kino at all. (there were some moments when I touched her lower back, and things like that, but too few; also, cheek kiss at the end of the date) She went hard on me. She accepted to go out with me, and I could spot even a few IOIs while I was with her, but damn...I'm not into non-talkative girls. I guess I need to build more rapport to get her talking, that's why I already set up the 2nd date. We're more comfortable know, we built some rapport, but definitely things need to get amped up.


Things to improve:

- I need to figure out how to manage situations like this, when she's not too communicative. I know the less I talk, the better I'm off, but today I entertained the conversation; maybe next time I'll tell her something like "Enough for me for today. It's time for you to keep me interested" or something like this
- it was one of the first challenges for me, so I kind of stressed myself on what to say and stuff like that, especially when I saw that's she's so dead . So I need to chill the f*ck out the next time something like this happens. Maybe date her even more to get used to shit like this lol
- do u even kino bro