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PostPosted: Wed Oct 14, 2015 7:03 am 
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Hello guys,

I have a pretty shitty situation and I'd like to ask you for any advice.

So. I know this girl from a good friend of mine. For a year and a half he tried to game her but they just make out. Recently they stopped talking and I started talking to her. We get along very well .
We went to our first date sooner than she expected, I tried to kiss her and she playfullt refused me. After that I tried 3-4 more time. At the end of our date I also tried to kiss her till she promised she'll kiss me on our next date.

3 days later she told me she's in a club with some friends and classmates from university. I went there without telling her and I surprised her. We did make out multiple times , her buying temperature was high.

After a week we went on our second date. She told me that we can talk no more because she's stressed by an anonymous person who's been texting and calling her, so this annoy her very much. She tend to believe that is someone from my friend's group of friends. And I am included in that group of friends ( more or less). The idea is that she want to have no contact with anyone from that group.
At the end of the date, in my car we started to make out and eventually she was on me, grinding, she was moaning , her pants were wet between her legs, and eventually I kissed her breasts.

Now she tells me she doesn't want to talk to me. Like forever.

We almost had sex and she tells me she doesn't want to talk to me no more ?!? Why ?! Just why ?!

I tend to think this is a buyer's remorse because everything happened fast.
What should I do? What would you do if you were in my shoes?
I need some advice because I've started to care about her.


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PostPosted: Wed Oct 14, 2015 8:09 am 
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You should respect her delusions and say "okay". However, you can also tell her that you think she's doing the wrong thing, and that she's welcome to call you anytime if she changes her mind. If you, just like me, don't like delusional people, you can say exactly that and never answer her calls afterwards.

This was probably not the advice you wanted, right? It's because it requires you to be non needy and outcome independent.


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PostPosted: Wed Oct 14, 2015 12:05 pm 
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Sounds like a keeper.

Dude she's nuts. Just smirk and say ok... And wait for her to flip flop in a day or two and message you.


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Sounds like a keeper.

Dude she's nuts. Just smirk and say ok... And wait for her to flip flop in a day or two and message you.

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PostPosted: Wed Oct 14, 2015 1:23 pm 
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Hello guys,

I have a pretty shitty situation and I'd like to ask you for any advice.

So. I know this girl from a good friend of mine. For a year and a half he tried to game her but they just make out. Recently they stopped talking and I started talking to her. We get along very well .
We went to our first date sooner than she expected, I tried to kiss her and she playfullt refused me. After that I tried 3-4 more time. At the end of our date I also tried to kiss her till she promised she'll kiss me on our next date.

3 days later she told me she's in a club with some friends and classmates from university. I went there without telling her and I surprised her. We did make out multiple times , her buying temperature was high.

After a week we went on our second date. She told me that we can talk no more because she's stressed by an anonymous person who's been texting and calling her, so this annoy her very much. She tend to believe that is someone from my friend's group of friends. And I am included in that group of friends ( more or less). The idea is that she want to have no contact with anyone from that group.
At the end of the date, in my car we started to make out and eventually she was on me, grinding, she was moaning , her pants were wet between her legs, and eventually I kissed her breasts.

Now she tells me she doesn't want to talk to me. Like forever.

We almost had sex and she tells me she doesn't want to talk to me no more ?!? Why ?! Just why ?!

I tend to think this is a buyer's remorse because everything happened fast.
What should I do? What would you do if you were in my shoes?
I need some advice because I've started to care about her.
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She told me that we can talk no more because she's stressed by an anonymous person who's been texting and calling her, so this annoy her very much.
Absolute crock load of bullshit. She has other reasons for not wanting to talk to you.
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I tend to think this is a buyer's remorse because everything happened fast.
Lol. You got to second base on the second date and you think things were moving too fast huh?

There is no buyers remorse here. It does sound like you are dealing with a pretty flaky chick. One who loves the attention but probably doesn't have enough interest to deal full on with you.


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Sounds like a keeper.

Dude she's nuts. Just smirk and say ok... And wait for her to flip flop in a day or two and message you.

This.
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