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So i've been stringing some chicks along...and I never really understood the psychology behind it back then but this is what is happening and I thought I would share.
Basically, just treat her more than she is just a conquest. I haven't been on dates with these girls...but I keep them open as options. i just string them along...make them chase. How? Just talk about all the things you are going to do in the future together. Talk about how some event is coming up and you guys should totally go together. Ping them by texting them and get them to invest in you some more. How? Every time she answers your text, that is an investment. Everytime she sends you a picture, that is an investment, everytime you ask what is her schedule like this week, that is an investment...and you can gradually increase it as you please. Ultimate investment is obviously the date, where you can get the physical investment and everything else.
As one of my girls has described in the past, a guy can tell you right off early in a relationship how much he cares about you, loves you, wants to marry you...and she admitted that can be scary but given the right guy...can really be effective.
if the guy delivers these caring statements (even if he is lying his ass off) in a non needy way, lets say from a place of security or abundance mentality...she stated that a girls mindset goes from "what a needy guy" to "wow this guy really likes me."
Then again it all depends on your experience. The more playa you are, the easier it is to early infatuate your woman.
I'm against the message within this post. You're setting the bar really low here. A chick you haven't slept with multiple times, is not an option. This is just giving girls attention really. A date, is a very very very low form of investment. Not something I'd recommend someone ping that much for. Sure, a girl will love hearing nice things, but in person is where the real attraction is created. If they are really infatuated, use it. Hit them up and ask them to come to your place for a movie. See how quick most refuse because they just want the attention. Sending you a picture she's sent to various guys, female friends, and has on 3 social media sites, is not investment. Having her come over and cook a meal for you is. My point is you are focusing on the stuff that really doesn't mean anything. Take action and meet these chicks instead of building an infatuation that doesn't amount to anything if you don't do the same in person and make moves. So dont focus on making her swoon over text....meet up with her, fuck her, fuck her well and make her swoon for real.
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