Hi guys

So I met this girl while I was working abroad. We are both from the same university. She split up with her boyfriend of years while we were in Spain. Eventually we hooked up and became a friends with benefit type thing. At the time it was fun, and exciting for both of us. We would regularly go out with friends, get drunk together and end up at my flat.


We are back at University and are in a few of the same classes. We have slept together a few times since returning. But it doesn't quite feel the same. We don't have that spontaneousness and excitement factor. She lives with her parents a bit further from the town so when she stays over its been all quite prearranged. On one night out in the town when she was arranged to be staying at mine, I saw her making moves on my friend which was a big disrespect. I know she's seeing some other boys but i'm not exactly looking for commitment. Surely its her right to want to play the field a bit since she's spent her best years with a chode. Neither of us want a relationship. I just want to know how I can make things fun again and reignite that spark of fun and actually game her a bit.

Cheers,

It's a big disrespect? lol. She owes you nothing. Stop being jealous, it's unsexy.

That being said, of-course the intensity will tone down a bit over time. But if you want to kick it up a notch take a break from her. Few weeks, a month, whatever. Let that desire build up on both sides before you unleash it.

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