Hello!

I have a situation that you might be able to help me with.

So I will keep this as short as possible:

Im 21 years old from Sweden. I met a girl (shes 19) at a nightclub for like 1 year ago, we kissed ALOT that evening, but we didnt take it further on. So during this year, we've been texting a little (like 3-4 times) and she is kinda flirty in the texts, and she tells me she wants to meet up, but as I ask her, she always responds with something like she cant, she's sick, something came up etc etc. A few moths went past and I initiated contact again.

I tried to be funny and told her whe should do a question game where I ask her a question, then she asks me a question and so on. Well it didnt really work out as after a few texts she said "well I hate these kind of things where you have to think of things "

So then I just went for it and it goes like this:

Me: Well, what I remember, you're a really cute and cool girl and it would be really fun to meet up

Her: Well then lets do it

Me: Awesome! We can talk later about it

Her: Yea (Y)

*Two days passes and I initiate:

Me: Wazzup?

Her: Nah nothing, just came out of the shower ^^ you?

Me: Really.. Nah Im home watching tv
Me: Bring some friends to our party next weekend?

Her: What day?

Me: Friday

Her: Yea maybe I will try to force some of my friends

Me: Haha I thought u guys were party girls?

Her: Oh no, they have been getting very boring lately </3

Me: Aaaaw.. If they dont want to, then u should come home to me so that we can watch a movie and cuddle someday instead

Her: Sounds good

So yea... I know that I really fucked up this conversation with all my boringness.. The last message was sent this wednesday (7th of october).

Its monday today, and the party is on friday. When and what should I text to see if she comes? Becasuse if she wont come, I will try to ask some other girl instead, so I dont want to wait until the party and hopes she texts me b4 that, because if she wont come, I have no1 instead...

I think she's a very shy girl. And I dont know, maybe she dont want to meet up, but dont want to hurt my feelings so she says she wants to meet up but cant, or she wants to but is too shy?

What is your opinion?

Kind regards
Niklas from Sweden

Invite multiple girls to the party.

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But lets say that really would happen, then I will have to choose between one of them?

Isnt it better to invite every single girl one at a time so that I will have a chance with every1 instead of getting one and trashing the other opportunities?

IMO, you'll do better because when one girl sees you as attractive then the other girls will see you as attractive. Use the party for flirting and isolate the one girl that you really want. The other girls may get jealous and maybe even upset, but they'll crave your attention more and likely have something to prove when you reconnect with them. Women get competitive with other women...use it to your advantage.

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Okay I see, that seems very logic actually.

But the question remains, what should I text this girl? I was thinking of something sick like "OMG u dont wanna know what just happend..."

She will ask "what??"

and I will say something like "Well I was eating at mc donalds and out of the blue a naked man comes running through with 2 police officers chasing him! They knocked him down right over my table and all the food is now on my shirt..........."

Is that something good to start with? And from then on go ahead and ask her how many friends she will bring on friday (as like Im assuming she will come)

I would text something like this:

Me: Party. My house. Friday. 9pm. You're invited. Bring some of your girlfriends.

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If u read my original post, u will notice that I already asked her out for the party. Her replay was "Yea maybe I will try to force some of my friends ".

This was like 4-5 days ago, and now its 5 days left to the party. My question is what should I now text her to see if she comes or not? Or no, I dont really mean to just ask her if she will come, I mean more like: What should I text her to IMPROVE the chances that she will come?

Lol. I read it. I just don't think you should be selling her on coming after you invited her. If she's interested she'll come so don't try to convince her.

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Don't use canned material. It's not funny and quite cringe-worthy. I mean really.

That being said, dude, what the fuck?
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She literally agreed to a date and you're like "oh ok sure let's talk about it 2 days from now. And then you never do.
There is not one girl on this planet that does not know what "come by my place so we can watch a movie" stands for.
For the love of god. You're fucking up the conversation with all your lack of balls, not boringness. Set a time and place already for crying out loud. What the hell are you waiting for?

Read my guide on texting and dude, please stop cockblocking yourself. Also let me know if you have any questions.

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