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PostPosted: Sun Oct 04, 2015 5:03 pm 
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hey guys im totally new here so please excuse me if im posting in the wrong section.
well anyways a little bit about me.. ill be 19 on the 14th.
i have a bit of a weird situation.
iv been talking to this girl for like 4 months now. we talk everyday but i dont think shes like really in to me.
i met here at college and for a while we didnt talk because she was talking to my friend but they stoped so now i pretty much text her everyday. we talk about random stuff and we have hung out before alone in my dorm but i couldnt afford classes this semester so im waiting until the next to move back on campus.
We have talked about hanging out and stuff but she stays really far from me and i dont have a car right now.
iv been in relationships before but lately i dont seem to know what the hell im doing. im very social but picking up girls is foreign to me. i usually meet them through friends or classes.
i also move around alot and im currently in a more rural area. and i cant drive so i really cant hangout with my friends like i use to and i didnt grow up around here so i dont know anyone or where to go.
id really appreciate any advice.


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PostPosted: Sun Oct 04, 2015 5:34 pm 
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You're just creating hypothetical problems.

You're talking to a girl for 4 months. That's friend zone territory

If you think she likes you in a romantic way. Ask her out for a drink with you and make a move? What's wrong with that?

Nobody can help you if you move around so much. Perhaps come back to pick up when you are sustainable with your life.

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PostPosted: Sun Oct 04, 2015 7:07 pm 
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You're just creating hypothetical problems.

You're talking to a girl for 4 months. That's friend zone territory

If you think she likes you in a romantic way. Ask her out for a drink with you and make a move? What's wrong with that?

Nobody can help you if you move around so much. Perhaps come back to pick up when you are sustainable with your life.
well we havent been talking constantly for 4 months. its been more of an on and off thing. for the last 3 weeks i would say we have talked about everyday. We talk about meeting up alot but its hard due to distance/transport and based off what shes said she seems somewhat romantically interested.. im just trying to figure if its possible to even keep her attention for the next couple of months until i can move back on campus and invite her to my dorm.


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PostPosted: Sun Oct 04, 2015 10:15 pm 
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You're just creating hypothetical problems.

You're talking to a girl for 4 months. That's friend zone territory

If you think she likes you in a romantic way. Ask her out for a drink with you and make a move? What's wrong with that?

Nobody can help you if you move around so much. Perhaps come back to pick up when you are sustainable with your life.
well we havent been talking constantly for 4 months. its been more of an on and off thing. for the last 3 weeks i would say we have talked about everyday. We talk about meeting up alot but its hard due to distance/transport and based off what shes said she seems somewhat romantically interested.. im just trying to figure if its possible to even keep her attention for the next couple of months until i can move back on campus and invite her to my dorm.
Better get working on that teleportation device bro

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You're just creating hypothetical problems.

You're talking to a girl for 4 months. That's friend zone territory

If you think she likes you in a romantic way. Ask her out for a drink with you and make a move? What's wrong with that?

Nobody can help you if you move around so much. Perhaps come back to pick up when you are sustainable with your life.
well we havent been talking constantly for 4 months. its been more of an on and off thing. for the last 3 weeks i would say we have talked about everyday. We talk about meeting up alot but its hard due to distance/transport and based off what shes said she seems somewhat romantically interested.. im just trying to figure if its possible to even keep her attention for the next couple of months until i can move back on campus and invite her to my dorm.
How fucking far away can you live? geez.

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PostPosted: Tue Oct 06, 2015 11:03 pm 
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you are asking us to solve your logistical problems man! we can't help you with that, that's on you! because as you said, if she looks like remotely interested in you, just ask her out.


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You're just creating hypothetical problems.

You're talking to a girl for 4 months. That's friend zone territory

If you think she likes you in a romantic way. Ask her out for a drink with you and make a move? What's wrong with that?

Nobody can help you if you move around so much. Perhaps come back to pick up when you are sustainable with your life.
well we havent been talking constantly for 4 months. its been more of an on and off thing. for the last 3 weeks i would say we have talked about everyday. We talk about meeting up alot but its hard due to distance/transport and based off what shes said she seems somewhat romantically interested.. im just trying to figure if its possible to even keep her attention for the next couple of months until i can move back on campus and invite her to my dorm.
How fucking far away can you live? geez.
we are kinda past the asking out part. iv been in relationships before and i know what to do in person. im just trying to figure out if i should continue talking to her. its a good hour driver. im really only worried about how i can continue to remain relevant as im waiting move back on campus where i can have her visit much easier.


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PostPosted: Sun Oct 11, 2015 7:16 pm 
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Better than working on your transportation, get her to come to you. That would be huge investment her part, amd if she does it she will rationalize it by saying to herself "I must like this guy a lot to drive an hour out to him." If she refuses, then you can use it to anchor your position as a negotiating tactic. Use it to meet her halfway between yours and hers. Then logistically think about taking small steps back to your place (aka a halfway station between the meet point and your place.) A girl who won't meet you halfway probably isn't too interested.

Stop talking to her everyday man. That's conveying way too much interest and is a sure way to the friendzone.


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Stop talking to her everyday man. That's conveying way too much interest and is a sure way to the friendzone.
It's fine if they talk everyday, as long as she's the one initiating the majority of the time.

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i recently stopped talking to her i honestly have more important things to think about. i appreciate all of your advice.


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