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PostPosted: Sun Oct 11, 2015 10:21 pm 
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This is not a bashing post. I actually attribute a lot of positive experiences to studying PUA from the community and it probably pulled me out of finally losing my virginity at 22 and giving me the ability to have hooked up with 20+ girls in college. Now I just graduated.

Of course meeting up with and fucking girls in college is bounds easier then managing this in the real world. Living a couple months void of that university experience I've found myself feeling very empty. I'm someone who did nothing but play video games till I was 17 then I finally started working out. Then realizing this was not enough I started learning pua and joining social organizations.

Continuing on this path i've dedicated 100% of my effort basically making this my life in attempts to date/ hook up with girls to a degree of success minus the dating part. I went out 5+ nights a week my last 2 years of college. I day gamed. I studied theory very hard. I would find though that while i had no problem opening girls, escalating, nclosing, I've come to realize i'm a very poorly rounded person.

basically I'm just a guy that goes to bars and chases girls that didn't really care about my education and never really did anything else. I worked out to be more attractive to girls. I went to school to meet more girls. Very few things interest me else. I have no passions. I never go to bars to just chill. I hate talking to guys. Anything non-female oriented or didn't help me acquire female attention I would not give a percent of effort. I grew up in a wealthy family and was very babied so I did not build a discipline or value for work.

So what happens with me an girls? I will say most if not all the girls I've closed were one night stands with the assistance of alcohol and a party SPAM. I may have went on to see the girl after that for a month at most. I've never had a girlfriend. Lots of girls will be very attracted to me initially and then that interest will fade once I move on to true middle game. Most of the girls I found out probably were just very horny and wanted to hook up with someone. I am very bad with certain girls that require witty, unique, exciting conversation over ones that are typical ditzy girls that are easy.

No matter how much routines material I would study on conversation lots of conversation would fall flat because what would I talk to them about? my hobbies PUA uhhhh working out and ... video games... well shit thats it thats all I have to offer.

I kind of believe i need to revisit my career and what interests me. At this point focusing on other areas of my life would seem beneficial to continuing to go out to bars and not developing myself as a man of depth and continuing with the same shallow conversations with the same shallow people. Maybe this is why girls will hook up with me but realize I'm not dateable. What does everyone think? Any tips on becoming a more interesting person?

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PostPosted: Mon Oct 12, 2015 3:21 am 
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You seem very insightful, this is meant to be a hobby. My advice would be to stop everything PUA and girl related for a year, and go get a life and pull your shit together


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PostPosted: Mon Oct 12, 2015 7:21 am 
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Continuing on this path i've dedicated 100% of my effort basically making this my life in attempts to date/ hook up with girls to a degree of success minus the dating part. I went out 5+ nights a week my last 2 years of college. I day gamed. I studied theory very hard. I would find though that while i had no problem opening girls, escalating, nclosing, I've come to realize i'm a very poorly rounded person.
Of-course you're not a well rounded person if you went full RSD on this.
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basically I'm just a guy that goes to bars and chases girls that didn't really care about my education and never really did anything else. I worked out to be more attractive to girls. I went to school to meet more girls. Very few things interest me else. I have no passions. I never go to bars to just chill. I hate talking to guys. Anything non-female oriented or didn't help me acquire female attention I would not give a percent of effort. I grew up in a wealthy family and was very babied so I did not build a discipline or value for work.
So basically you get all your good feels from women validating you. Do you see the problem?
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So what happens with me an girls? I will say most if not all the girls I've closed were one night stands with the assistance of alcohol and a party SPAM. I may have went on to see the girl after that for a month at most. I've never had a girlfriend. Lots of girls will be very attracted to me initially and then that interest will fade once I move on to true middle game. Most of the girls I found out probably were just very horny and wanted to hook up with someone. I am very bad with certain girls that require witty, unique, exciting conversation over ones that are typical ditzy girls that are easy.
That's because party SPAM hookups are not meant to evolve into something meaningful or even half serious.
It's the path you've chosen. "Night" game has ups and downs.
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No matter how much routines material I would study on conversation lots of conversation would fall flat because what would I talk to them about? my hobbies PUA uhhhh working out and ... video games... well shit thats it thats all I have to offer.
Routines don't work. And this is exactly why. You have no depth to your character by the sound of it. Or if you do you have no idea how to express it. You want to develop a natural, adaptive conversational sense. By practicing and being normal, not a robot that follows certain protocol.
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I kind of believe i need to revisit my career and what interests me. At this point focusing on other areas of my life would seem beneficial to continuing to go out to bars and not developing myself as a man of depth and continuing with the same shallow conversations with the same shallow people. Maybe this is why girls will hook up with me but realize I'm not dateable. What does everyone think? Any tips on becoming a more interesting person?
Yes, do this. You need to have all aspects of your life in order if you want to be happy. Fucking 5 different women / week won't get you there :).
Read my guide, it'll give you some perspective.

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