Hi, Im brand new here but not brand new to the game. To make my story fast and short, i will tell you what happened to me last night that i cant explain what happened.

Meeting her:
A week ago I saw this pretty girl i had met a year ago(we saw a couple of times on a group activity im in). We talked for 10 minutes and the subject of marketing came up. she was finishing marketing degree and wanted to do something. At this point im not even applying game but i see a really cool connection, she was really happy to see me.I ask her to meet me for coffee and talk more(again just business at this point).

She meets me for coffee, things get more flirtatious, and she tells me shes hungry. I tell her lets go eat but "im on a bike you dont mind?" no i love bikes she says.
We are eating and i decide i like this girl so i start teasing her, she starts laughing and at this point we are not talking anything related to work. She really likes me at this point i can tell.

We leave the restaurant I pay for the meals, even thou she offered to pay i say you pay the tip next dinner is on you(test for an actual date) She says ok with a smile.
I take her home and tell her im into blonde girls(test) and she says i was blonde look, she wants to show me her picture. fast forward... we leave an invitation open for going out.

We see each other again next day. At this point shes attracted to me, i tell her i want to go out with you, she asks me "you and me alone?" i answer "yes you and me alone is that a problem?", no not at all but i want to make sure. I say good.

At this point is clear she knows were dating and i know she fucking likes me and alot.. now bare with me here comes the important piece of all this.

The date
I take her to eat fancy mexican food and go in to creating more value. Believe me when i tell you it was one of the best dinners i had, conversation wise, this girl is smart and we can talk about anything.
At the end of the dinner i go on and tell her my intentions very slowly and creating super suspense.
I tell her all this things i like about her and h, she blushes, i tease her, she says you're been very romantic i like it".... But i make the worse mistake of my life imo, i tell her shes a girl i would take my parents to meet, blah blah blah, "you're girlfriend material" and i do this because i see shes reacting as i want with all of this.
And here comes the shocker "im not attracted to you that way, i like you as a friend.
I realize at this point i didnt physically escalate enough.

So my question is wtf happened? im not stupid and i know she was into me. Her response literally threw me off so fucking bad, is this a test? i even asked her. Are you testing me?.
It threw me off so bad that even thou we went to a club after, i wasnt able to game anymore or work for a kiss close.

I will see this girl again, help a brother out and let me know my mistakes so i can correct them and honestly i want this girl to fall for me till her panties drop just to prove the game.

did i get too much into her? this things have worked for me before, did i just get lucky those times?

Thanks players.

You're in a friendzone I guess. She got a few meals of it too. Good for her.

I'm pretty sure you opted to take her for a drink, she would resist because a drink is more of a date thing and she can't use the "oh but we are just friends" excuse.

Next time, make your intentions much more clearer. Stop talking about business. Tell her you're attracted to her and would like to meet again. This will force her flake or meet you for the romantic reasons.

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My intentions were clear, we stopped talking about business the moment we finished coffee and i told her she was attractive and that i liked her before dinner i even made it a game and said. If you do well on the date we see what happens(teasing) and shes said that sounds good.

I guess what im looking for is an answer on this not normal behavior so i can correct it (where she wanted me to continue after i told her my intentions)

My point is at some point she changed her mind last minute. We did go for drinks later that night as i said.

And youre right maybe more intentions before the actual date. the point is none of this matters really when on the actual date you just use the game.

Did you have a hard on or semi hard on during the date? If you're horny, she feels horny too.

If you can't get into a sexual state or find it difficult to get into one, then you need to fix your diet and exercise on the regular. Stay away from endurance exercises like jogging, marathons, hiking, zumba and so on. Instead, do strength training and high intensity interval training on cardio. 30 minutes of those beats an hour of jogging or shadow boxing.

A very crucial element of the human mating process is isopraxism or mirroring. The girl has simply been mirroring your non-sexual, friendly vibe. If you're anxious she will mirror that too.

Another element is reciprocity. If you're dominant during the date, you are more likely to fuck a submissive girl who reciprocates your dominance with submissiveness rather than a masculine female who would feel more comfortable dominating and emasculating you. Choose the right target demographic that fits your personality.

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You did what every single other guy who's ever been attracted to her did: tell her she's pretty, pay for her dinner, pay for another dinner, and then ask her out. Essentially, you friend zoned yourself by not being exciting, not being different, and moving really slowly. Next time, don't do any of that Provider-like behavior and learn Game instead. Blue Pill Beta Game doesn't work, that's why the Community exists in the first place.

There's a difference in making your intentions know and telling her what your intentions are. Your problem was you didn't make her feel attractive...you simply told her that she was attractive and started to tell her your plans for the future.

Here's something for you to think about. Women do a lot to make themselves sexually desirable because they want to be desired sexually. I didn't read anything in your post that leads me to believe that you expressed your sexual desire of her in anyway. Instead you called her girlfriend material and all that means is that you can introduce her to your friends and family, take her out in public, and relatively trust that she won't cheat on you. She probably would have liked you a lot more if you said that after you guys finish dinner, you want her to come over to your place and watch a movie rather than telling her what type a girl she is...especially if she doesn't picture herself as girlfriend material.

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Thanks for the replies. Looking back analyzing it i wasnt congruent with what i showed the first times we met i was more sexual and very alpha. the problem was when i started to like her i became the super sweet guy i used to be that never got me any pussy and telling her how i felt instead of showing her. spot on.

I didnt text her for almost two days, she texted me and basically saying she had an amazing time, now i will take back control and be less invested in her as opposed to her to me. Also i was too concentrated on her liking me by pushing and not pulling at all. All this happened because i thought what i was saying about her and her telling me to continue was an IOI. It was a test to see if i was like the other guys.

i played good texting game and regained back some control, and put myself as "not the friend" type.

Will let you know when i see her this week how it turns out.
thanks bud yeah thats it i was too much of a friend not a lover. And that has been my problem, i attract like you have no idea and once on the dates become the cute friendly guy.

There's little to no sexuality going on in your interactions and yet you're already picturing the wedding?

I exaggerate for effect, but really, telling her she's the type you'd present to your parents when the intimacy of your relationship is basically 0 is straight up creepy.

Be sexual, it's not that hard. Women want to be desired.

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