See when I'm talking to a girl online, usually have a upbeat personality, but it's not showing across my messages. Hence why I'm getting this awful replies.

Not sure how to put energy into interaction without coming across too try hard.
Also would anyone started my conversations or responded differently to me(I haven't responded yet)
Would it of helped to build more rapport first.

This isn't much of an interaction.

Her replies to you are simply to be polite. You're kinda creepy.

You may want to try a little flirting first? Not cheesy, canned flirting either.

This is what I mean, in real life I know the first pic would go down better, I'd be doing it with a cheeky smile and better vibe. Hard to get your personality over text and online.

So theoretically then, how would you cheekily and flirtatiously say to her "I don't have you on snapchat" as an opener? I just think that if you're approaching via Facebook (instead of text even, and certainly instead of phone or in person), you're going to have to do better.

You don't necessarily need to look like a circus entertainer, filled with energy, but you have to do better than 'I don't have you on snapchat", you know what I mean?

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I'm confused by this topic.

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Do the opposite to what other guys do, in every situation.

In person, 99% of guys are indirect because they're trying to find out if the girl likes them. Be direct in person - you're talking to her because YOU like her, so fuck it, who cares!? But you seem to have that part figured out.

Online, most guys aren't as shy about being rejected, so they're insanely direct to the point that they open with a cock pic or something lol. Girls hate cock pics so much that I'd only ever even consider doing it if the girl was firstly a lost cause and secondly a complete cunt. If a girl asks, different story.

Be a little less direct online. Still be just as charming, flirt indirectly to the point where she's trying to push it further, avoid mentioning sex at all costs, so again she thinks it's her trying to fuck you. Oh, an most importantly of all, set a date as soon as possible.

Indirect online, direct on date. 90% of your talking should be in person.

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Wtf was that?

"Are you snapchat? " come on, at least use something canned at the very least..

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