Thanks for your reply man. In person it was nothing like this, that's why, I thought it could be changed. She seriously liked me. It's not about getting the girl, it's about the experience. To maintain my value, maybe add "No worries. Maybe another time. Talk soon!" Or I could say "No worries. You'r energy changed" maybe she thought I seen her as a "bad girl" and triggered her ASD. Maybe if I just take a step back and build comfort it'll be different?

you need to call her and get a final answer once and for all. you're a man of value and have no time to waste with bullshit.
these are the possibilities:
she says yes - great
she says no - you move onto the next girl
she doesn't pick up - you move on
and please please do not leave a voicemail

I appreciate your response bro. I'm very open to calling her, but as you can see she said No. So, I don't know what you had in mind to get around that.

OP I am not intending to attack u in this reply, only to help you with what I hope is constructive criticism.

So that next time you get some sparks going with a girl, you are able to efficiently turn that first interaction into a meetup.

We were advocating to keep it very short, keep it simple and go for the meetup. Re-adjust for the next girls.

You don't need to try to be witty, funny, or overly charming in your texts.

You don't need to try to build comfort or rapport or whatever else in your texts.

If the girl is replying she has some level of interest and if a girl is replying you most likely had a positive good first interaction IRL. So a drop in with a reconnection and then a meeting proposal is often times all that's needed.

For instance, with this girl, she was interested to some degree when she replied with A reply back could have been something along the lines of "well i may be able to fit u in lol, how does ur week look' OR WHATEVER.

Point is, keep it crisp. You don't need to show verbal gymnastics. USE TEXTING FOR SCHEDULING THE MEETUP.

To salvage this unsalvagable situation you may want to call yourself out for the unusual texts and say you weren't thinking straight or something. I really don't know how to salvage this. Probably just move on.

Her vibe changed and the mood changed because the texts she was receiving were disjointed and unclear. Pls don't blame the girl for the vibechange.

you're right....anyway, give it 48 hours so maybe she forgets your bad texts and call her.
I disagree with oceanx, I would not apologize for the bad texts.

Whichever way he goes this situation is probably fucked. Call with a high vibe in a few days or text her and call yourself out for the weird texts. If u do this don't be apologetic about it though; as i mentioned just bust on yourself a little bit.

Again either way it's probably not salvageable.

Another is to actually drop in and see her again.

dude, how would he mention the texts without being apologetic? he cant.
and dropping in = stalker

op should call in 2 days and pretend the texts never happened. there is nothing else he can do.

by the way, I just realized something, maybe the texts weren't even a problem. why draw attention to something that wasn't even a problem in the first place. either way, op should act normal when he calls.

If it were really about the experience, you wouldn't have gone against the one guy in the thread whose advice was related to getting used to the EXPERIENCE, Dtrak. Maybe if you had taken that advice and chilled you wont have sent those weird messages. She's rejected your text messages and phone calls, and you're probably on the road to being blocked. Hit her up in a few days if you'd like to try again. But the real value was finding RC's guide. Meet more women, try the stuff in the guide and relax. What killed it was you tried way too hard to impress her.

Fact is there is no good option here.

She told him she did not want to speak with him on the phone so calling is most certainly not a no-brainer option.

It is possible to bust your own balls without apologizing; they are two completely different things. The analogy is I suggest him to have a glass of orange juice and you're construing that into meaning I told him to go drink several shots of tequilla.

Stopping in to the same place he met her is not stalking. Once again, THERE ARE NO GOOD OPTIONS. But there are options. The rationale behind that suggestion is that it may trigger in her the state she was in when they first met; there was nothing weird or odd about him at that time judging by her reaction to him after seeing him in person. If he goes to see her in person I would suggest to schedule a meetup right there if the vibes are good.
Read the full text exchange and tell me with a straight face that texts were not a problem. Every other guy here seemed to think they were and I that know you being a solid poster here will most likely come to the same conclusion.

There is an abundance of women. If it were me, I would move on but the OP seemed jacked about this girl and I feel for him.

ok, you're right.

I know. J/k

Nah ur right as far as calling her could very well work, it's just any option is shit because of the predicament this guy has put himself in.

Using the same joke more than once in such a short time-span will kill it. As it did with your future reading thing.

The texts were a bit over the top. You don't have to be tryhard, you just have to have fun with it. This is why you have to know yourself and understand your humor before you can convey it to others.

Does "Hi, how's your day" seem fun to you? I'm assuming no.
Does "I see something interesting in your future!" seem fun? Could've been were you not overusing it. The bad girl thing was kinda creepy though, not gonna lie.

Keep it fun, light and more or less casual. You're not trying to impress her. Her being impressed, if at all, should be a side-effect of who you are, not the purpose of who you are, if that makes any sense.

Ask yourself both these questions next time you text:
1. Am I playing it safe?
2. Am I putting on a show for her?

If the answer is no both those questions, your text is exactly what it needs to be.

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OP, this reads to me as you being always "ON" and at some point you seem like too much of a player with how you are communicating with her. At some point you need to let her see something genuine in you that she can focus on and make her want to continue where you guys left off.

I'll compliment you for your effort and if you were at a club she probably would have went home with you. For a situation that has to end because there is no way for you to get her to leave with you, you were way too gamey. (Plus you probably got her fired and she hates you for it now)

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for me, it looks like you have two options here:

the first, if you are really into that girl, wait a few days, and call her, not apologizing for what you said, because that may look like incongruent of who you are and a little insecure.

second option, if you're not that into that girl, wait until she texts you, because when you approached her, she seemed she was into you so, maybe she could text something like "hey, what happened to you" or something like that.

lol, that could explain a lot