So been on the 3rd or so date with this chick yesterday. Ive been on no fap for 50+ dayz before this and also did not have any sex.

It was like being a virgin over again. I went inside and despite my best efforts exploded in about 20 or so seconds. Was so ashamed I masked it and tryed to keep going. It was painful af but I kept going and eventually went limp.

She then cried. Apparently her ex made her really paranoid about her being "loose". Thats not even remotely true, the girl is tight as they come. I couldn't bring myself to overcome my own shame and didn't tell her the reason for me going limp is being a 2pump-chump all over again.

So she thinks what happened is her not being adequate enough for me.

Am I a bad person? how the fuck am I supposed to explain exploding in 20 seconds? I honestly didn't see it coming.

BAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA

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Lol this is hilarious.

Next time just laugh it off dude lol. Everyone has had that happen at least a few times in their life.
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I'd just make her feel sexy. Blame her.

"damn baby... your pussy is so tight. I never cum that fast. You're so sexy when you arch your back like that. Don't do that to me again."

Flip the script. Make her feel like its her fault... but in a good way.

One of the most important qualities is being real, straight forward and vulnerable, specially with a girl that you have seen for a while... You failed at this and made a small situation into and avoidable problem.... Tell her the truth of what happened..

With this being said the most important quality of a seducer is good sex, check out some books on sex the revlifestyle design has a pretty good, cheap one...

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Unless you already have thick calluses on your penis through massive pussy pounding, that no fap rule is totally bad advice in my opinion.

I always advice guys with sex problems on here especially virgins to desensitize their penis head thru fapping; just limit the number of times you cum in a day.

The figures don't lie. 75% of guys cum within 2 minutes. Either you do something about it or you don't.

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Its all good.

She came over the next day. Made her cum a few times through both oral and regular sex. Had no problem keeping it together this time around. Guess it was just a freak accident.

All's good that ends ok right?

Good to finally see an OP make it. Good job. This forum needs some positivity running around through all the onitis.

But hey, learn something from this. Don't lie like that if it happens again. Just own it. However you react to it is how she'll react to it. Meaning if you laugh, she'll laugh. If you get all insecure, she'll doubt you as well.

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I have to ask... what kind of girls are you having sex with where you've got calluses forming on your dick?

Excessive masturbation is the reason we've got 22 year old kids out there with erectile disfunction.

I've gotta call out bad advice when I see it on this forum. Telling someone to masturbate more often to desensitize their dick is worse than them cumming too fast.

It's one thing to not last long... It's a whole different way of hurting a girls feelings when you can't even get it up to a real girl. Porn fucks with peoples heads.

http://www.amazon.com/Womans-Orgasm-Geo ... 0446315036

It's all in there. Controlled masturbation to desensitize your penis is different from masturbation for the sake of masturbation.

As for erectile dysfunction on 22-year old men, the cause is more likely from too much McDonald's and sugar rather than from too much masturbation.

http://www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-cond ... n-20034244

The Mayo Clinic lists the following major causes of erectile dysfunction. There's no too much masturbation in there. The major cause is more about poor diet and lack of exercise. Too much masturbation is just too rare a cause of erectile dysfunction compared with an accident where you happen to drop a 5 kilogram kettle bell on your penis resulting in Peyronie's disease.

- Heart disease
- Clogged blood vessels (atherosclerosis)
- High cholesterol
- High blood pressure
- Diabetes
- Obesity
- Metabolic syndrome — a condition involving increased blood pressure, high insulin levels, body fat around the waist and high cholesterol
- Parkinson's disease
- Multiple sclerosis
- Peyronie's disease — development of scar tissue inside the penis
- Certain prescription medications
- Tobacco use
- Alcoholism and other forms of substance abuse
- Sleep disorders
- SPAM for prostate cancer or enlarged prostate
- Surgeries or injuries that affect the pelvic area or spinal cord

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I agree with Majikal. Sure controlled masturbation can desensitize. I just don't see why you'd want that.
And porn IS the major factor of ED in young guys, while yes, a bad diet and no exercise won't help either. Then again good luck eating healthy and walking your ass to the gym after you came in your hand for the second time today.

Why would you want to last too long anyway? There's plenty of ways to get her off.

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A very few percentage of women can cum from vaginal orgasm via the penis. Most of women's orgasms come from oral sex and clitoral stimulation.

That's like asking why do you want to graduate with honors? Why do you want to be included in the dean's list? Why do you want to be a world kyokushinkai karate or muay thai champion? But to answer your question, it's plain Maslowian self actualization. It isn't bad at all if you belong to the top 1% of guys who can give women orgasms through the use of their cock.

It's up to the OP if he wants to desensitize his penis or not so he can bring women consistent vaginal orgasms.

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That's exactly my point.

And most man haven't the slightest clue on how to give oral. Be good at that and you're already settled.

If you can give her a vaginal orgasm via penetration then great for you, but personally I wouldn't go as far as "desensitizing" my cawk just because some women need 40 minutes of straight fucking to cum.

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Eh, we have different goals in life. Personally, I operate like an electric company. If a woman who has the capacity to pay for some good banging but won't cough up the dough for a night of pleasure, I cut off the electricity.

It's called a financial management portfolio for a seducer like me.

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