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Also, race isn't a factor at all, black, white, asian, hispanic, attraction transcends these superficial differences; if you are a minority (or short,) girls will shit test you on being different from their standards of "hot." The way to move past this is to assume yourself completely and to be perfectly comfortable being black, as the old saying goes, what you can't fix, you feature. If a girl fucks with you for being black, simple laugh and joke about your race. If it doesn't come up, just assume she wants it and game her as normal.
This is all fine and dandy in forum land. But that's not reality.
There are going to be girls that aren't going to like him because of the color of his skin.
I'm not trying to put the guy down and I'm not racist... but I'm not going to delude him into thinking everyone is going to like him either.
There are black girls, latina girls, indian girls, blue girls, green girls, whoever that are going to dislike me because I'm white. There are girls that are going to dislike him because he is black.
That's reality.
People stereotype. You have about .4 seconds after someone see's you before they make a judgement in regards to whether or not they like you. If you get that "ew" label immediately, you might as well not even waste your time.
Some girls are going to have been raised in homes/neighborhoods/schools that were really harshly racist against a particular race. The thing that sucks is, if that's you, you really don't have a chance with that girl.
You're getting that "ew" label because of what daddy told her. It's not your fault. It's her dads.
Imagine what would happen if you knocked her up and she had to bring whatever daddy has been telling her to stay away from her whole life into his home.... That's what's going through her mind.
Unfortunately, we live in a racist world that stereotypes people. I didn't make it that way. I'm simply pointing it out. I'm sorry to burst your bubble.
You can fill him with all the "just be comfortable with it" shit you want... But he's gonna get slapped in the face by the big dick of the "real world" once he gets some experience.
Some people are fucking racist. And you know what? You shouldn't like those people anyways because they are fucking dumb. Get over it and move on.