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I have been involved in the pick-up community for about 2 months now. This is my first post on this forum.
I have read various books, and even done things like self-hypnosis to improve my self not just with the ladies, but also to improve confidence and such. I was wondering if anyone could compile a short list of principles/things that when done (properly) will ultimately help you come off as more attractive to females, as well as make you more likeable. (FYI, I am under 18).
Basically, all of pickup can be summed up in four words. "You are the prize". Here's some key points to remember:
- She should be chasing you, not the other way around.
- Never lean in.
- Never let her feel like she's "got" you.
- Always be a challenge.
- Never seek her approval (consciously this is easy but it takes time to realize when you do this subconsciously)
- It's ok to give her compliments so long as she has earned them
- Always maintain a balance of interest and disinterest in the girl so that she is never sure how you really feel about her
That's all I can think of right now. Good luck man.