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PostPosted: Sat Sep 26, 2015 11:47 am 
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Hey, guys.

This is not about a girl in particular, is more of a general question.

A girl I know (who recently updated her relationship status to single) posted something like "the more men I know the more I want to be single. Less work and less trouble". And I've noticed more and more girls posting crap like that.

How do you game a girl in that frame of mind?


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Its just like any other girl that gets into a non positive frame of mind and goes down a spiral.

Do you think she's going to continue to feel this way? I'm sure she's felt this way before, just as every other girl who has ever had a disappointed relationship. Did that stop them from getting to know more men? No. So why would her making a Facebook status change the way that she needs to be handled?

Treat her like everyone else, because on the inside she is everyone else.

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PostPosted: Sat Sep 26, 2015 11:59 am 
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Would you date a hot girl that mentions she likes to blow torch her victim's balls off?

Stop trying to have sex with anything and everything decent looking. I really wouldn't date a girl that has that crap in her facebook profile...It's just strange man, you read that status, now you want to know the best way to chat her on the facebook insta chat? lol - It's just a bit uncalibrated if you ask me.

I remember my friend at work, chatting girls on POF:

Her - I hate men and I hate my life
Him - let's meet up then!?


No...

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PostPosted: Sun Sep 27, 2015 12:46 am 
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Some are deeply fucked up internally. You don't what that.

Others have trust issues. And that's understandable to some degree. When people are hurt they don't wanna be hurt again.

There's nothing you can do about it except for showing them exactly who you are and what you stand for. No matter what she says, how you make her feel will determine how she'll act.

If you make her feel safe with you, that whole "I don't trust men" bullshit goes straight out the window.

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Man most of the girls I've ever dated or banged have said or posted that kinda crap at some point. They are still people and prone to fall in love , sleep with someone.


Just read and discard from your mind. Game on as usual.

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Hey, guys.

This is not about a girl in particular, is more of a general question.

A girl I know (who recently updated her relationship status to single) posted something like "the more men I know the more I want to be single. Less work and less trouble". And I've noticed more and more girls posting crap like that.

How do you game a girl in that frame of mind?
she just sounds like an attention whore. but here is a pro tip: use that to your benefit, agree with her with the things she says about men but dont really bash on men yourself, just agree. by doing this you stand out from the guys that stand up for their manhood, what you are doing is building a connection and commonalities with her and commonalities are awesome and thats how people become friends, friendship + sexual escalation = relationship or whatever you want it to be.

please take into consideration that she has probably gotten her hopes up and shot back down a couple of times to say foolish crap like that so please consider these 2 thoughts before you break her heart more.
1. she is probably looking for a relationship, do you want one?
2. do you want to hang out with someone that is that pessimistic?

i say pessimistic because there are a lot of great guys out there and i believe her perception is way off or she needs to hang out with better people and up her standards

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Thanks, guys.

So, in a nutshell, ignore it, keep being positive and make her feel good.


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Thanks, guys.

So, in a nutshell, ignore it, keep being positive and make her feel good.
Exactly.

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PostPosted: Wed Sep 30, 2015 6:10 pm 
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There's no point in trying to be Captain Save-a-Hoe. What is with guys wanting these girls?

Why do you want to bring someone into your life who:

a.) you're already fighting an uphill battle to "win them over"
b.) clearly has some emotional issues
c.) blames other people for their issues

It's not a matter of how... but why would you want a girl like this?


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PostPosted: Thu Oct 01, 2015 8:14 pm 
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a long time ago, i saw a video of gambler, in it, he said that if you ever end up dating a girl that had a boyfriend, and i think the same thing can be apply here.
first of all, she started dating him for some reasons, so, if she ever talk about him, don't be like "oh i can't believe he did that, poor you.. bla bla bla", instead " haha he really did that! that's awesome! what a great guy".
basically, agree with him, because she end up in a relationship with him for a reason, and i can bet that she will end up with guys like that in the future. but that is just one point of view.


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PostPosted: Thu Oct 01, 2015 11:59 pm 
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One time I got LMR from this girl and couldn't close that night. I remembered her telling me about how all her past boyfriends were douchebags and treated her like shit. I'm normally a nice guy that will break rapport to build attraction, but I kicked it up a notch and started using asshole game and laid her the next time I saw her. Girls will put out the vibe out there and the world is a mirror that will give her what she is thinking about or subconsciously attracted to. Just play the game and calibrate if you want her.

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PostPosted: Sat Oct 03, 2015 12:55 am 
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If she has a bf, I feel for him, she's meeting more men and wants to be single :S


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