Hi there,
I am confused what I did wrong or fucked' up.

*Long thread*
I am 19yr and I can speak fluent japanese as a foreign language.
I met this girl thru my friends' friend.She is 19yr,a shy japanese girl but I got her really into me when I first met her.I arranged a date with her after 4 days and I went to her place to pick her up about 5 -10 mins late and I immediately took her to the moive and grabbed a ticket for tonight.

We then bounced back to my place cuz I said I gotta grab something really quick and got her to my room and chit chat a little in my room and showed her around.
After that, I took her to get some drinks and We talked alot about families and shit to build comfort and I also kino from time to time and I got some pretty good reactions from her. I took her to grab some pancakes and went to the movie.

I lead her to the seat I wanted and I immediately raised the handle in between us.
I played the 5 lies game with her and made her to move over and lean on to me during the movie.
After 5 mins, my arm was sore so I pushed her away. After 10 mins or so I put my palm facing up and she put her hand on my hand without me saying a word, I thought that was great so I pulled her over and she was basically leaning on my chest again and I was holding her around her waist. Then she said she is tired of that position and moved away.( I was confused at this point) I pretended nothing happened and still whisper to her during movie.

After the movie its really late and we got school tmr so I gotta take her back. I said I have to grab something again but this time I had to take some pills cuz I have spine injuries. She seems uncomfortable so I didnt force her to go into my room. Had some teasing with her and kino on the way back to her place. After she got her my car, I went out side and I was trying the trust test and looking to K Close. Just as she put her hands on top of mine, she suddenly moved her hands up and slapped my hands, laughed and ran away,then I made her to come back to hug me twice and then I left.

I texted her after I got home and she did give me some long reply like I had fun and shit.
Then I texted her 4 days later and she did reply but I felt like she had lost interest in me. I called her after a day and she didn't reply or call back(its been 24 hours).

At this point, I am really confused. Did I come across as needy or a player? Was I too aggressive or not aggressive enough cuz I thought I would slow down a bit cuz shes international. Hoping to learn from my mistakes. Any thoughts are welcomed.

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