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DW-Heart-Charmer I'm listening. What's your take on it?
It might be a little much here, but we will start with the title being 'zero needy'. If your neediness is completely absent why would you need a women to commit to you completely? If you have everything that you need, how can her stated commitment really mean anything to you?
My experience going out has delighted by that of married women and girls with 'faithful monogamous relationships' boyfriend-girlfriend types. Just Wednesday I kissed a girl with a boyfriend, she had no fucks given. I say this just as my experience, you will have to find out what the world is like for yourself. I can however tell you that most experts claim the divorce rate in America is around 50% with some estimates up to 62% and higher. This doesn't include married people who are cheating.
Here is just a frame that might be of interest, try it on just to see a different perspective. What if you were the guy that a women would do absolutely anything for? If you had zero neediness and could get any girl, sure she might mean something to you, but you know that she is completely replaceable. You also know that you are better than any other guy she has a chance with.
With this frame you might date many girls at the same time, getting a feel for each and every one of them and then THEY would try to make you the boyfriend. They would then tell you that they don't want to see anyone else and only want to commit to you. At this point you have the option of committing or not, but why would you commit to her if there is no further benefit and you already have everything that you want out of the relationship? Really at this point there is nothing gained from a commitment, and even further her being with other men only furthers her attraction and desire for you. Why? Because you are already her best option, those guys will be trying to lock her down when she really wants you, and this all only pushes her more into your arms.
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