Hi fellas (and if there are ladies, a very special hello to you as well),


I didn't quite know where else I should post this; since I can't quite categorize (if that's even a word) my issue.

Since June I own my own bar. It's a great way to make money and you meet a lot of different chicks. Plus, bartenders always seem to have a special effect on women, which makes my job interesting to say the least.

Here's the thing though. I have an accountant. No old, fat, sweaty man with a bag of paper stocked underneath his armpits; but a HB10 to say the least. She's young, attractive, smart and very nice.

Ever since June, I've met her a couple of times solely for business purposes. Handing in invoices etc. etc. You know the drill. Now because she's very interesting to say the least, I make eye contact everytime we meet and try to be funny and entertaining. Her IOI's are pretty obvious, she doesn't shy away from eye contact and doesn't shoo my touch. In fact, she caught me checking out her rack and didn't even mind.

Sounds good eh? Right.

My problem is I don't know if her IOI's are on a business level (maybe she's just a nice person pur sang) or if she's really interested on a I-like-you-like-you-like-me level. You know?

My second problem is that everytime we meet it's to talk business, so there's little space for routines since we both don't have that much time. But I would like to get to know her better to turn our shit into pleasure.

Anyone have tips on this?


And please don't kick me...

Being a boss is a notorious position to meet some stunners that are in the lower employee hierarchy

I would just assume attraction bro. Ask her out, no game needed.

If she declines, tell her that her pay rise review is up soon (joke)

In my local supermarket, I can see that the manager only enploys hot women for this reason I suspect. I'm sure he has nailed some of them too. Everybody knows a boss that is married to their employee (waitress etc)

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Please don't kick me?

With that attitude, how do you expect to be socially successful? How about... " Kick me.. Only if its necessary" ?

Nevertheless man, we follow a rule around her called "Assume attraction". Forget looking for ioi's. Assume women are interested in you and treat em as such until you find out whether they are or not. But it is the spirit of the guy who behaves as if he is already attractive that is the most seductive.

Ask her out..

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Unfortunately, you won't know until you know.

Nobody here can tell you if she actually likes you.

You've gotta figure that out for yourself.

How do you do that?

You make a move

Thanks for the replies on this...

Interesting points made and a great article to read! Don't get me wrong on this, I'm dying to make a move, I just can't find the right time or setting to ask her out since all we talk about is business...

Must be something I'm missing out on and really I'm no fan of social media (which makes sope things a lot harder)

Well this why we learn game. You're probably just read the game but haven't fully immersed into the lifestyle.

You just joined the forum and want to learn how to nail this one girl.

It really is just a matter of flirting and asking her out. Tons of content on the forum.

You just have Anxiety to take the next step with this girl. Everyone here who takes this seriously has earned to control this anxiety. You haven't (yet)

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Have a look at my guide. It will help you out with some general concepts. Come back if you have any questions.

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Hi, if you want advice from a woman, and i am accountant as well
First think about this,that the women we like to flirt with a lot of man that we do not find attractive,but we just flirt them to see if thay catch the hook,and for our self confidence.So we don't know if she likes you.
Sorry to tell you that.
But when a woman really likes a man she don't mind to be close to him,if you touch her hand by accident when you give her some documents,or you are close to her ,and she don't make distance this is the good sign.
If you are brave ask her out.If you want to make more slowly approach find her on facebook and chat there slowly slowly to break the ice ,or with messages,but this will put your ranking down ,the Alfa that knows a woman in Real life will not go back to the virtual life to speak with her.