I'm going to start posting some interactions when I have time. A little about me and my influences in PUA I'm currently a student at a local community college, I've been interested in PUA for about 4 years, it started with trying to find some solid "Mans rules" out there and I came across Carlos Xuma's online book where he talks a lot about personal responsibility and about how self worth and leadership are cores to have when dealing with others, he believes if you'r girl,peers,boss does not respect you its actually you'r fault, which I've put into practice over the years.
I also adhere alot to Mark Manson, his book Models is amazing he believes that you must first respect yourself and know what you want in order to be successful in life and with women.
I've read Niel Strauss's book "The Game" its an ok book...but I think a lot of old school PUA is gross. The only thing's that have worked are his "Push Pull Method" and "The Cube" is fun also the "Ring finger game" and greek god fingers" everything else I found is hollow and mean.

So here my first post..
I never give advice on here that I don't take. As an example yesterday I was in the Library printing off some paper for a class , seen a girl across the library was looking me over(her eyes darted quickly back to the screen once I looked over) so I turned off me computer and grabbed a seat close to her and when I sat down " Are these printers printing off paper?"(like the other one wasn't...) "Yeah," I waited and got myself set up, "You in my class?" I asked her she told me no. And here's an important step she was unresponsive so I stopped talking to her because I just get stuff that will keep you out and busy..
She then went to print something came back and slammed her papers in from of me "Can you believe this is for one course?" I was just like "uh yeah..." went back to my work (this is a push pull tactic btw). Another girl starts asking me about the printer also interested in me, I was tempted but sort of just brushed her off (Great social proof). So as this gal got up to take off I just said "You leaving now?" "Yeah" " well, can I introduce myself before you take off?" "Sure" with a smile at that.
The only thing is I think I came off as desperate...just a little because at the end after I got her number and such I immediately asked "Maybe if you'r around tomorrow we can hang out?" I usually don't do this but she told me her place is like four blocks from me. So I'm going to call her tonight see whats up, if shes interested well meet up if not I delete her number.

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Good work man. And I LOVE your "opener." Just perfect. I will NEVER know why a guy would ever go to a girl in a situation like that and say "oh shit girl dayum you were looking so fine I just hadd to come up to you." Where's the elegance in that. Good report.

Thanks for the support. I did end up calling this girl just now and I hear "hello?", then I ask "Hey is this Sarah?"...then she hung up.
I just checked her fb after and she has a boyfriend. I never understand this,when they give you a number and contact info just to be like please don't call me. Another shallow gal. O well.

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The bf may have been with her at the time of the call. Also in that moment she may have FELT like giving u the # just to see where things go. But at the moment of the call she may have FELT differently. As u said, o well.

Not enough comfort, not enough connection.

You'll get this a lot, especially with the interactions that only last for a few minutes. Don't worry about it too much, but if you can spend a bit more time in set.

Don't sweat it man, there are other fish in the sea. It drove me crazy too when I was in Colorado. When you get better you will get a lot less flakes, and when you do get a flake you'll know.

Keep us posted, I look forward to reading your FR's. Can you give us a bit more background on yourself?

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Hello there,


Its September 16 2015.

Tonight was karaoke night at the local college bar. I tried to invite this one girl who took classes with me like two years ago in college, she keeps giving me this eye, so I figured I would try and invite her straight up for the night and stay at my place a no go...
Invited my roommate instead, we got there had some drinks and about two hours into the night I feel someone staring at me, turn around and its some of my classmates. Now there's this one girl whose been staring daggers at me but when I sat next to her kept brushing up on me and touching my elbow (two things here, 1) I would NEVER date someone in my class, college is costing me a years worth of wages and 2)I'm taking this as shes interested?)
Also there was one girl who did a kareokee song. After a couple more songs after the "DJ" gets up and say hes looking for a new singer/helper with the set as his old chick left. My roomate asks "What he say?" "Hes looking for a new stage helper... this girl who sang goes bye "what she's going to apply for" I said it right at her while pointing in her direction.
When she came back down from applying I chatted her up, what classes...what you doing this Saturday(Busy with a guy a truck and drive in movie) and got her number. She then goes by again and says something about the song she chose "I asked her if anyone ever told her she sounds like Miley Cyrus" shes looking offended and takes off. Some guy gets up hes so drunk and everyone's video taping I go over to her "You think hes going to regret this" she holds up her index and thumb really close "Just a little.." and I went back to my friends.
They say there goodbyes and me and my roommate take off. and all I hear behind me is "I stepped in shit!" Look behind me and its three girls I yell back "You guys are rude" and then I started in with the jokes on these girls,like "O so you where the loud redhead in the back trying to sing my song?"got all three of their numbers and am going to call the one back for coffee well see. My phones starting to fill up with strangers


Lessons- -Its not Negging if you use push pull, pepper with teasing,but be sure to give credit as well. You have to let people in general know you'r approval doe not come easy.
-Also drink less and laugh more. I only ordered 2 beers the whole 4 hours we where there. Everyone else got drunker I just sat back made some eye contact with girls that where being "hit on" and could have swooped in,next time maybe I'll definitely be going to the next theme night and staying sober.

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She could be very well be interested. OR she could just be animatedly talking to someone else, or not particularly aware that you're there. Only one way to find out - open her and see! Even if you have no intention of dating her, it would still be a good idea to practice opening.


On another note, it sounds like you need to stay in set longer. Build attraction a bit more instead of just making comments and bouncing.

Lol, I think I forgot to mention the girl I plan on texting tomorrow was also grabbing at my arm when we where walking through the parking lot with her friends.

Thank you ChocolatePUA, for the feedback (part of the reason I post these) and yes I do often cut interactions short, this for me is intentional as I never want the girl to feel as if I'm either desperate, or boxing her in. I try to let them see that their not special,it like me saying "I'm able to talk to anyone here".
That being said, I might try incorporating this and maybe doing both like do broken sets then come back and on round two and build attraction. I'll be sure to post how this goes. Thanks again.

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This is the ending to are two weeks in college...yes two weeks and I have not been able to meet a single women on a personal level. Now I have made friend girls we go to the gym,study groups,do coffee and texts regularly, but these women are untouchable as there in my class (Not that I wouldn't go for it otherwise). I've also been organizing myself as my course has many components,so that has kept me more than busy.

I think today was my breakthrough to the other side because I got really pissed at myself. I was studying in my building cute blonde goes up stairs...not unusual, then she comes back down stairs looks out the windows for a couple of seconds, I'm leaning back looking right at her "Yes, its still raining" "you think It'll stop?" "I think if you run fast enough you might get less wet" I'm always so proud of my witts. She sat down and poped open her laptop. And I'll go off course here
I should have at this point at least tried to land this girls number,at the least. I couldn't tell if she was just being nice or whatever,but now I'm killing myself here, like what if.She was a graduate form my program working for what I want to do, I usually don't let lower status kill my mojo. I've dated lawyers, businessmen's daughters(these guys have nice houses) and teachers, I just need a doctor and I'm good.lol. My point is they keep me around for... I don't know what reason,and I don't ask. I'll be praying I see her again and I'll definitely stop her...
Felt like crap and packed up my things and started to walk to the Library and met "Miley Cyrus" from the other night, shes like some school events girl or something so shes like running around all the time. Then went to the library and sat down to the prettiest girl in the library.
"I'm starting to feel like I live here already..." "Yeah" I joked about her having to puta snow shovel on the front of her car in winter when she commutes. Asked if she was doing after this and if she wanted to grab a beer. Nope she has a boyfriend.Laughed it off "probably for the better, I might actually study now".

So in summery I'm caught up on work and going to get ahead this weekend so I can make something happen this week. I'm going to finally take the plunge of active PUA and go around campus during busy hours and chat up whoever I can find . Its going to start tomorrow, one of the girls from my class invited me to yoga,so I'm going!.

I'm usually a passive PUA I wait for when someone walks into my life and I snag the chance...well, I Fu*&ing blew that chance today so the games gotta change. Wish me luck!

As always tips and feedback are more than appreciated, and I'll keep you guys posted on how this week of aggressive PUA goes.


Sincerely,
Compass

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~Compass

Hello again,


Well I'm in week 4 of my course at school...but hey no once cares about that right?.
You want to read about the ladies and scandal and, well, you know the bit. So my week of aggressive PU consisted of me going up to various women with an almost business like manner and asking them if they were in my course...you can guess how many times this worked. So after doing this from Saturday-Thursday I caved, gave in. Then in a study group the app called Tinder came up, if you don't know what this is its like a hot or not app based on a fb profile pic that uses the gps to find singles in your area and if you and another person both pick hot you can talk to each other.
So last Saturday night I dl swiped about 50 pics (all hot of course) on this thing and thought nothing of it. Then Sunday Morning I got a message "This has got to be a bot" I read the message on Monday "Were you at such and such a place last Monday?"
Long story short I set up a date with this Gal for Friday and I'll let you in on my method/routine and this has worked %100 of the time...
On second thought I had better keep that to myself . But hey if the method is still gold come Satureday morning I'll be sure to post about it.


Sincerely,
Compass

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Well Tinder girl bailed on me..can't say I'm surprised. I need something to really bring out the PUA in me, maybe be more in the moment and just try to bring in people and help them out?. Like I'm in college and am charismatic, I've been making friends and getting my Sh*t together. Everything else is going good, it just be good too..O' I don't know... LAND A GIRL!. I'm surrounded by beautiful women who know their beautiful.

So here are my options/plan
1) go to a college bar night, I usually run into girls from my course here or am able to get some sets in.
2)Go randomly downtown (this has never really worked for me, I often find myself asking "what the hell am I doing?".)
3) Just keep being awesome and going on my business
4) Go to "movie night" this Thursday is some healthcare documentary so there's bound to be a lot of gals here .
5) Hit up the halls from 11-3pm its so busy there's ample opportunity.

I probably won't post here again until I've made some progress or at least learned something. So stay tuned!.

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" I never regret doing it, but i always regret not doing it...."
~Compass

Well Tinder girl bailed on me..can't say I'm surprised. I need something to really bring out the PUA in me, maybe be more in the moment and just try to bring in people and help them out?. Like I'm in college and am charismatic, I've been making friends and getting my Sh*t together. Everything else is going good, it just be good too..O' I don't know... LAND A GIRL!. I'm surrounded by beautiful women who know their beautiful.

So if I was to take anything away it would be "Never make long term plans" I think I should have just invited this girl out Friday day...I always forget about reeling "Push pull". O well another one bites the dust.
I probably won't post here again until I've made some progress or at least learned something. So stay tuned!.

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" I never regret doing it, but i always regret not doing it...."
~Compass

October 11 2015


So I finally did it.... after all these weeks of school and getting my act together and being shut down I gave up.
I was at the coffee shop last Saturday doing my studies and such and seen this women there looking a bit lonely, so I began chatting her up asking what she did and such. Shes a pharmacist, one thing led to another I packed up my stuff and sat down with her and grabbed a fresh coffee and talked with her. We ended up at my place (she drove us) and hung out for about 4 hours then went home. I texted her later that week and invited her over for the next Saturday. Now here's where things got... uncomfortable?.
She came over and I made her dinner, we laughed about her dog, and had fun then I said something and this girl slapped me!, not hard but that's not what matters I was taken back, I've never been slapped in my life, and I've said a lot of stupid things this was not even close to top 100. I hugged her and put my face on her shoulder "Don't do that, you have to be nice to me..." I let go and let it be quiet for about 20 seconds she tried to pipe in "More studying tomorrow?" "...uh..yeah" I was clearly not happy and said "So you usually slap your guy friends?" she sounded concerned and said "why did it hurt?" "No, but that's not what matters. I don't like being slapped on the face at all. You can slap my ass,but don't hit me on the face please".
I think I handled the situation well. I'm sure she did have guy friends that let her get away with that sh8t and thinking back I did let her tap me on the face earlier and thought nothing of it.
Then after she leaves later I send her a text saying it was fun, and asking if she still wanted to hang out tomorrow like we planned, I also put in the text "I know I was wired today, hope it wasn't too much for you" I'm an energetic guy but last night I was hyper, studying almost non stop all week and the thought of having some real food (SPAM,eggs,kd, rinse and repeat) and a girl to boot, plus I was exhausted. Either way I got a text back saying "Nope it was ok. I was just thinking the whole time whats going on with us?" I knew exactly what she was asking...wait no I don't. What the hell is she asking!? I've never been asked that before. like what do you say to that?. So I just sent back "Going on with us?. Were meeting up tomorrow and hanging out if your up for it?."
Going on with us?...I did ellude to having girls over before when saying how soft this womens hair was "You'r winning in hair softness" or when I said its "Usually not hard for me to get girls". This is my crux, I feel this need to share myself with these women, when I meet them on an intimate level.


Reflection/Lessons

I'm really glad how I handled the literal slap to my face. Although next time I'll be sure to watch for these things BEFORE they escalate and stop them at that point. Lao Tzu says to discipline before anythings gone wrong, never after.

2) I was way too hyper,laughing tossing jokes around. I need to calm down and be like I am at school naturally. My course is heave (I'm actually procrastinating right now). So when at school I have a mentality of a man on a mission and balance fun and professional because its my job, when at home this drops off, so tonight if we hang out I'll be sure to put myself in the

3) I need to stop sharing myself with these women, and learn to make up more sh*t and practice some self control and a little regression is good.

I'm planning on meething this girl tonight so we'll see how it goes!


Sincerely,Compass

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So just a quick line or two. I'm pretty proud of myself in this one. SO this girl I met recently, I sent her a text "Iv'e been having a lot of fun lately want to meet up this weekend?." "Yes, me too. But I'm not just looking for fun in the long run". So I placated her, (Usually I would have said, alright see you or put my heart on the table) and just agreed to a relationship and "built castles in the sky" if anyone's used this before. I use to feel dirty doing this, but I've tried complete honesty...and honestly if you ever expect to keep a girl, just tell her what she wants to hear,if it doesn't have any actual consequence... I've told women/girls my true intentions for myself and the future and have been looked down on,judged,and dumped, and honestly, I'm tired of that sh*t...

Lesson Learned- Sometimes Women/girls just want reassurance NOT! reasoning!.

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" I never regret doing it, but i always regret not doing it...."
~Compass