2 days ago I did a spin class. Last morning I did core work and neglected to do cardio because I was too sore.

I haven't heard back from my friend yet, so I'm not sure what the deal is with clubbing. I feel like I'm in pretty good shape. I find it funny that even with all the activity I still find it difficult to approach.

I'll keep you guys posted.

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I've been pretty busy the past 2 weeks. College is about to start up again. I've still been working out every morning and doing cardio every afternoon. Nothing really to report.

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Hey guys. I had my first day of classes this week. During one of my classes, we had a 20 minute break for an activity. I took this girl who I've been talking to on an insta date to the school cafe. She was worried that we'd get in trouble. It was funny because I came back to class with a coffee and the teacher didn't care. I think that's one of the cooler things I've done with the game.

Sorry for skimping on the details. I like to give detailed reports to know what I've done wrong, but it takes a lot of effort.

College was probably one of the best things that happened to me when it comes to the game. It expands your social circle so much.

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Record: 131
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glad to hear youre back in the game. i really need to workout. at this point, im in between sarges. my relationship game is weak but the lay game is strong. oh well. i remember being a noob and wishing girls would like me and being afraid to even get a kiss. im happy with my progression. ill find my wife eventually.

Hey TwerkFan, good to hear. You've been in an LTR for a while so just have fun man. It's good to here you are getting lays.

Anyways, I just wanted to update you guys. I am still working out twice a day. For a reason that escapes me I'm pretty popular in my classes. I'm a bit worried about becoming the class clown type though. Yesterday when I was at school I talked to a girl for a bit. The IOI's that I were getting were things that I have just started noticing. When I would say something, she would switch what she said to agree with me. I just suck at this stuff. She said she wants to be study partners. I have no idea whether she means for studying or just to hang out.

Also, today will be my 10th day on nofap hard mode. I hope I can keep myself occupied this weekend (I always find day 14 hard). I'm much more motivated in everything that I do (working out, studying, ect.).

I still think the insta-date thing in the middle of class was pretty cool! I've never done anything like that before.

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Record: 131
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I just wanted to post something because it's been a week. I reached the 3rd week mark of not masturbating and the 2nd of not watching porn. There is no noticeable god mode. I'm still working out every morning (except this long weekend) and exercising. When I'm to tired to do anything productive (read, work on programming, PUA stuff, ect.) I play video games now. I try to keep busy, and never just be sitting around.

I just hung out with friends this weekend. I want to get back into the game, but all of my friends who are willing to sarge were busy. I think it's time to hit up a few people who have contacted me about sarging soon.

I also have my first rugby game in a while this weekend. I'm looking forward to it.

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I meant to post last week. I wrote something but couldn't post it because my internet crapped out, here it is:

9/8/2015
I just wanted to post something because it's been a week. I reached the 3rd week mark of not masturbating and the 2nd of not watching porn. There is no noticeable god mode. I'm still working out every morning (except this long weekend) and exercising. When I'm to tired to do anything productive (read, work on programming, PUA stuff, ect.) I play video games now. I try to keep busy, and never just be sitting around.

I just hung out with friends this weekend. I want to get back into the game, but all of my friends who are willing to sarge were busy. I think it's time to hit up a few people who have contacted me about sarging soon.

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(This happened on 9/8/2015)

Later that day I went to beach rugby. Afterwards I started chatting up this surfer chick. I opened about surfing in the afternoon or some bullshit. I was walking my dog (I was about to drive back to orange county). We talked a bit and then I walked away. When I came back she opened me and introduced herself. I realized that she was into me but didn't know what to say. I was kicking myself (sorry, the report isn't that fresh in my mind).

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Record: 131
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So now I want to update you guys on a few things while they're fresh in my mind. First, I have gone a month without jacking off as of yesterday and have not watched porn for 3 weeks and 2 days. This is a record for me (I think my previous best was 14 days). I have not entered "God Mode" from no-fap like a lot of guys have. Last week I was about to dismiss it as not helpful, but what I've realized is that although it has only marginally improved my interactions with women, I am way better (about 5 times) at reading IOI's. This has made the game so much easier for me.

What's funny is that I now know that 4 girls are interested in me in my calc class. There is that girl that I mentioned in that previous post (I'll call her E), a Vietnamese girl (I'll call her L), a girl who is too shy to talk to, and a girl that is pudgy. I will only be gaming the former 2. First of all, I rode my motorcycle over to college yesterday. Not only was it a great ride, but a lot of people commented on it. E saw me walk in with my helmet and jacket and asked me whether I ride. I said yes and talked a bit about my bike. We kinda flirted for about 15 minutes(about what my memory is kinda foggy on what) until L walked into the classroom. My helmet was blocking L from getting to her desk so I said "What kind of asshole would leave their helmet in front of the isle, oh shit!" and then moved it. E and L giggled. One of my friends who is also a friend with L sits behind her. He was watching a movie on his iPad. She asked whether I wanted to sit next to him. I replied, "No, I don't like him," with a straight face. E and L giggle madly. Then L slaps him on the face to get him to pay attention. E and I were shocked. She said that it was perfectly acceptable in Asian cultures. E and I joked about it and L got pretty embarrassed.

At this point in the conversation, I did not know L was into me. Each time I would try to talk to E, she would interrupt or cut in. I was thinking to myself 'Gosh this girl is an obnoxious cockblock.' She gave out mixed signals. The impression that I got from her was that she didn't want a relationship, but each time I would stop talking to her, she would open me again. This annoyed E. It was clear that she wanted to talk to me but she gave up and started talking to a friend. I chatted with L a bit. Class started and I was my sarcastic self. I made a few smart-ass remarks and a few of the girls would giggle (This was a first for me, I've never been a very popular guy). Class ended early and I chatted with L a bit. This was when I started to realize that she was interested in me. We talked a bit about our selves. She then asked me whether I had a girlfriend. I said no and said that my Ex was in Alabama. She said that she hated alabama because a boy that she had a crush on still loves his girlfriend who is in Alabama. I just completely ignored this (I think she made it up anyways). I asked her whether she had a boyfriend. She said a few things that worried me: that she never had a boyfriend and that her dad forbid her from having a boyfriend while she was in the US. She went outside with me to play chess (she wanted to learn, and I love to play). E walked out and was clearly jealous that I was talking to L (She said to her friend that "It's so random that they're just playing chess." I said, "I'm going to have to cry myself to sleep tonight" and a few other remarks. I talked to L and she freaked out because one of her guy friends showed up.

I'll be honest, I was pretty worried that the guy would steal her away or take all of her attention. Whether a guy is a threat or harmless (regarding stealing away the girl), I just suck at handling the guy. They talked for a bit. I knew that the guy was unlikely to steal L away but was still worried about it. They were only talking for 5 minutes when I realized whether I know him or not, I should be leading the interaction. I wasn't going to AMOG him, but it was clear that he was a fellow Physics person. I started talking about how I am majoring in Engineering and have been programming for a while. He was exited to talk to an engineer and said that he sucked at programming, but respected people that could do it. We started talking about wave harmonics when L interrupted him and said that she needed to talk to me alone. We kept on talking. I N-closed with a very awkward "Would you like to get coffee sometime or something?" She gladly gave me her number.

I texted her about managing to not kill myself on my motorcycle. She talked about how she crashed on a scooter. I said "On behalf of all americans, I thank you for not brining your motorcycle to the states." She said "You know how to make me laugh, lol." I then talked about fixing the AC for a while (I know, sexy right?). I then asked her out. I was surprised that she said yes simply because she is pretty conservative.

So I have a date this weekend. The question is how to N-close E. There's also a girl in my English class who is cute who I want to ask out. I'll keep you guys posted.

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VERY nice report re: Girl L.
You are becoming the new you.

I swear, this Vietnamese chick is driving me crazy (whom I refer to as L).

She says shit like "You don't want to be my boyfriend, right?" and when I say things like "You wish," she get's all upset (She's never had a boyfriend and her parents won't allow her even though they're in vietnam). She is completely ok with bowling and lunch on Saturday and I've made it clear that it is a date.

I want your guys's opinion on something, should I tell her that this is weird (might come off as needy), ignore it, or tease her for wanting me to be her boyfriend?

Tomorrow my goal is to N-close with E and the chick from my english class. Cheers!

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Okay guys, got another FR for you guys. First of all, I'm going to go by first names. I haven't been "found out" yet and I don't want to keep on using characters E is Enrica and L is Linh, got it?

First of all, I couldn't N-close Encrica because Linh was following me around like a puppy dog. You know how I asked you guys that question yesterday? I handled it well (unlike how I'd normally DLV myself by coming off as needy). First of all, we had a test (which I probably Aced and got a 100 on). I finished an hour early and walked to the cafe to get a sandwich and blended ice coffee caramel thing. I walked back to see Phong (the guy through how I met Linh, the one who was slapped in the face) sitting alone. I sat down and chatted with him about the test. We both thought it was easy. We started playing chess and I was kicking his ass. Linh came out and started talking to me about the test. I asked her what she thought of it and she said "You first," (gee I wonder why?). I told her that it was a cakewalk. She agreed. She kept on talking but I was focusing on the game (or at leas appeared focus, she was successful at distracting me). Enrica came out and asked me what I thought (I said the same thing). Apparently she thought that she didn't do well. She ends up leaving. We talked a bit and she said she was aware that I was teasing her the previous day and that she still wanted to go out.

I end up making a shitty move in chess and the game ends essentially ends in another stalemate. I tease Linh for messing me up and say I should of asked out Enrica. Linh says that I should have asked Erica out, so I get up and yell "Erica, come back! This Vietnamese chick is crazy!" All of Linh's Vietnamese friends started laughing at her. At this point, Phong says he has a crush on a girl. I say that I'm not the besk guy to ask, but ask her for coffee. It's cheap, is low commitment, and doesn't put a lot of pressure on the girl. Linh says, "Hey, that's what you said to me!" I said yes, but we're going bowling. I then explain to Phong to use coffee as the pretence for getting her number, but if she seems open to something else he can also take her there, like Bowling. Linh Laughs. Linh keeps on prying into Phongs life while I let it sit. I say, "Linh, you're starting to sound like a communist!" (Linh is abhorrently anti-communist). She then leaves Phong alone

Phong and his friends (all girls who like me by the way) were starting to leave. Linh drives seperately from them. She said, "Would you like me to stay or should I go?" I said, "I don't know Linh, I'm getting kind of sick of you," not sure whether I was going to backfire or not. She starts to walk away then quickly turns around and sits back in the table. All of her friends were laughing at her. We talked a bit about our personal lives and then I ran off to English.

So in my English clash I said that there was one girl who is hot who like me, there are actually 3. Two of them are friends and sit next to each other in class. Amy is a girl who I had some rapport with. on Monday I talked to her a bit. You know how some people sit with the backrest part of the chair in-between their legs? That's never looked right or felt comfortable to me. It's just funny the random shit that will pop into my head and make girls laugh. I said that I was going to try it even though it looks painful (the desks all sit facing forward in the class and she was behind me) and she started laughing her ass off. I was non reactionary and kept on talking. I know i don't have much for background but I knew she was at least somewhat interested (I was surprised because a year ago when I joined this forum, I would have thought that she was "Out of my league").

So today, I was partnered with her friend, Hannah, and a few other people: Paul, Katie, and Paige. I knew the latter 3. Paul is laid back and friendly to me (we both surf) while I kinda got off on the wrong foot with Paige and Katie (We were in the same group and I was trying a little bit too hard to control it, each time I'd make a suggestion, Katie would look at Paige not knowing whether to write it down or not). Honestly, I'm not going to recite 2 hours of dialogue. At one point, I forgot all of the groups names (except Paul) so I said, "Hey guys, I'm going to play a game where I forgot all of your names." They all laughed. I build rapport and attraction with Hannah. We had to give a report and I was clearly the best public speaker (Although I didn't admit it). Katie is shy, but was giving me some IOI's (She's a cute, small readhead). Hannah was easy to talk to. We gave our presentation and Katie talked about how I was the best speaker in the group (I normally stutter a bit, but I heard one of the side effects of no-fap is you're just able to present better).

I walked out of class and bumped into Amy and Hannah. We talked a bit and Hannah said, "What are our names Paul?" I purposely paused and said "Heather and... Amy." They were exited and giggling. I then say to Amy, "I was about to say Annie." They all giggle again for some reason. I then follow this up with, "Let me explain why I keep on forgetting your names." There's a short pause and they become silent to hear what I say. I then said, "I just really don't like you guys." They started laughing and giggling wildly. Amy says something about how I should be taking online courses. She was still laughing.

I then talked to a guy named Vish in class. He's a skinny, short, shy Indian kid who I like to talk to. He reminds me of myself before I got into the game. He is "Game sensitive" if that makes sense (He's got potential).

Anyways, here are my goals for Monday (when my next day of classes are).

N-close Enrica, N-close Amy or Hannah (Probably Amy), and N-close Katie.

It's 5:25 AM now and I'm running a bit late. I've got to work out! (I'm still working out, although have neglected to do cardio this week).

I'll keep you guys posted.

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Okay guys, I've kinda got a long FR for you today (The 3 hour date ended up going on for . First things first, I know most of you guys say to leave the girl wanting more and keeping the date short, but things went well and when she left at 8, she really didn't want to go (she had a prior obligation that she was almost 2 hours late for).

First thing first, she told me she had to do a party for another college that she goes to at 3:30 and asked me whether I wanted to come (It wasn't a party, it was like a fair). I said that I'll see how things go.

So I picked her up at her place at around noon. I had already found a Mediterranean restaurant with 5 stars on yelp by 300 people. I kinda showed off my new car with the tap to unlock feature. We drove over there and talked a bit. I teased her like I normally do. When we got there, it turned that the restaurant was inside a gas station. I could tell that she didn't want to eat there (she's not picky, but she wanted to sit down and eat to get to know me) so we ended up going to a taco place. I paid for the food. Once again we mainly talked. I wasn't all that flirty at this point. Then we went bowling. We split the cost and had a good time. This was when I started Kinoing her. I was kinda afraid to initiate it, but it didn't show. eventually, the lane we were at got broken. She was walking towards her seat (I was already sitting down) when I extended both of my hands. I took them and got her to sit on my lap. Everything was going really well at this point.

She then said that she had to go to the college fair and ask whether I wanted to come. I had nothing else to do and things were going well so I thought "why not?" I dropped her off at her house to change and then we went to the fair. I did a few things to DHV myself (unintentionally). There was an old lady carrying a chair (I was carrying a table) so I told Linh to carry the chair. We then sat down at our table. We were touching each other the whole time. Then Phong and his friend Yen showed up. Phong was happy to see me. He was having girl troubles so I gave him advice on what he should send. I know on this forum, I'm the last person who should give advice, but I helped him out. Ultimately the chick was a total bitch and ended up saying no, but we found this out later (Phong was friendzoned because he is a nice guy). I set barriers with Linh on what she could and couldn't do with me (ie. cover my mouth).

Things almost went bad when I called her a bitch which was over something stupid. I offered my chair to Yen, she said no, and Linh said that I was not a gentleman and an asshole or something. What's funny is that Yen and Phong were both laughing at Linh when she got upset. She asked me to apologize and I did, but pointed out everything that she did that was disrespectful today. She ended up apologizing profusely, and everything ended up okay. We ended up driving to another restaurant. Phong and Yen drove separately. At this point, Linh could not keep her hands off me, and was kissing my hand. We went back to my car, and I explained that I didn't want to reciprocate her actions in front of her friends (once again, it's considered a taboo to date, and even worse with dating an American in Vietnamese culture). I went for the kiss, she kinda turned her cheek, so I kissed her on the cheek and I was thinking to myself "Oh crap". Then she leaned forward and I kissed her on the lips this time. It was a bit awkward because I was not expecting a French kiss (many of you PUA's tell me not to French the girl the first time to build comfort, lol). We drove over to the restaurant and once again split the bill. Before Phong and Yen came in, I said, "Quickly, before they get here" and just went for the kiss. She was not ready and was pretty embarrassed and I was laughing my ass off. Eventually, She left with Yen and it was just Phong and me.

Phong asked me to help text that girl. I told him to ask her out in class, but he wanted to do it then. It didn't end up going well for him. I ended up talking to him about how I got better with women (which from his perspective, is like how I look at Chief, Foxx, OceanX, ChoclatePUA, Finley, and a whole bunch of others on this forum). I told him about limiting beliefs, setting value, and other stuff. He said that Linh hated it when I talked about my Ex-girlfriend (she actually refused to hold my hand for a minute). I said that "It seems that you are really obsessed with my ex, maybe you should be dating her instead!." I explained that I mentioned it purposely, it's to portray value. Long story short, I indoctrinated him into the game and into this forum.

So yeah, that's my FR. I honestly thought that I wouldn't be able to Kiss her or Kino her because she is a shy Catholic girl looking for a commitment, and I'm me.

I'd like to thank all of you on the forum who helped me, especially OceanX whose advice of "Simply focusing on one girl at a time" was much better for me as an introvert than chasing every girl I see.

I want to ask out Erica, but don't know how to do it without Linh knowing unless I do it under false pretences. I know Erica is interested in me. Would it be okay for me to say it's for a study group and come clean on text?

I also want to N-close Amy, she seems to like me the most out of those three girls, and is pretty cute too.

I'll keep you guys posted!

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Record: 131
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Thanks for the nice words man it means alot.
Not true at all man, you're in the game, you deserve a shitload of credit for going out and taking action. I commend you.

Hey Oceanx, I'm in the game, but I feel like I have as much of a right to give advice as that Cupid Player guy (and that guy annoys the shit out of me).

Anyways, I've got another Field Report for you guys!

Nothing really happened in Calc. I took Linh to a cafe and kino'd her quite a bit.

In English, nothing happened, but I managed to N-close Amy. I only got 4 hours of sleep the previous night, so I would manage to talk a lot about nothing in class discussions. I was thinking to myself "Now would be one of the worst times to ask her out" but I still did it. After class, I opened about something about the class. We talked for a bit and I started talking about how I managed to talk without saying anything in class.

We talked for a bit. Amy is a funny girl. I explain how my dog kept on waking me up, so she said she'd write him a letter telling him to stop. I knew I had to N-close. It was now or never (simply because I'd keep on making excuses).

I said, "Hey Amy, this is going to sound completely random, but I think you're funny, I think you're nice, and I'd like to take you for a coffee sometime."

She said yes, but she'd be busy this week with midterms (I don't know whether this was true or not, At the time I thought that this was her way of rejecting me. I then realized when I got home that I do the same thing to appear busy).

She entered her number in my phone and I left.

I got back home around 5:30 PM and was thinking a way of opening her. I was told that my Costco Membership card was ready. The lady ended up giving me an executive member card. Here's the text conversation with Amy:

Me: Hey Amy, it just occurred to me that I didn't do anything to convey status when I talked to you, so I just want you to know that I have a Costco Executive Membership as of today.

Amy: Wait who is this hahaha

Me: Who dis?
(after about 10 minutes of no response)
Me: Dis Annie?

Amy: hahahahahhahaa
Amy: Yes
Amy: Okay that's what i thought
Amy: That's impressive haha

Me: No its not, the lady gave me the wrong card. I'm a fraud Amy! I'm sorry, I can't do this anymore.

(2 hours later when I was sleeping)

Amy: Hahaha so you don't have an executive membership? Oh no

(This Morning)

Me: No, is that I deal-breaker for you? I have the executive card though.

Amy: Hahahaha I don't even have a Costco membership. My grandma does! what's the difference between regular and executive?

Me: You don't even have a Costco Membership? This conversation is over! Seriously though I have no Idea. That was the joke about me using it as a sign of status, no one knows what it does, not even Costco.

(I have not gotten a response back yet, probably due to classes)

Unfortunately I got a text from Linh that kinda threw a red flag (We were planning to study today). She texted "Also, i really need to tell u something, but let's just talk in person". I texted "Should I be concerned?" She texted back "Nope, it's all about me," so I guess I'll find out what that's about later today.

But yeah, things are going well for the most part. If Linh says something about how she can't date me, I'll probably say "If you don't want to date me that's fine, but if this is about your parents, you need to make your own decisions in life. I don't want to date a 22 year old that's still asking Mommy and Daddy what she should do." I'll also ask Enrica out so that she knows I have options.

Well, that's my FR for today. I'll keep you guys posted.

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Previously Rugby7

My PUA Journey (2014): http://bit.ly/1yYjtSV
MY PUA Journey (2015): the-342-journal-vol-2-rugby7-vt187356.html
My Workout (Read this): http://bit.ly/1zIQncY

Record: 131
Record: 124