Good to hear man.

As Dragula said, be authentic and straight up. Only way to do it IMO.

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Dont ask her over to your place so you can break up with her man. What the fuck?

Do it at her place or somewhere you usually hang out that's close to her place. She'll probably wanna go home and eat a few buckets of ice-cream after hearing the news. Make it easy on her.

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R.C. We are allways at my place. She still lives at home, and I haven't been introduced to her parents yet.

Dragula, thats some bullshit. Just wanted to do this as nicely as possible. Normally I can't keep my interest in one girl so long, that I need to do the breakup like this. So its just my way to try to get some info. How should I have posted my replies for help instead?

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Just doesn't see how his last posts added any value. All they did was poking me. Thats a nice thing to do to a guy who feel he is in a emotional difficult situation.

Mate will you man up. You're about to dump her, and this is difficult for you? Seriously

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I'd say, before you dump her assess what's going on. Your details are vague, ie spark gone, not sexually interested, and you typically lose interest in a girl after a period of time. All over the place. Assess what's going on. For eg, if the spark is gone because youve become boring, fix it. If it's you guys arent compatible, dump. You say you arent attracted to her anymore sexually. Assess why. Was she never your type and you settled, or has something changed physically about her. If you have trouble staying with a girl for too long, figure out whats going on. Or else you'll just dump her, meet a new girl and do the same thing over and over. If monogamy isnt for you, stick to that going forward. I'm not telling you stick with someone that doesnt make you happy, just figure out why, if its you, or her, or both, and what that means you'll look for or change going forward. Howver you decide to dump her or not, you should know what went wrong and what that means for your future.

Neo87, thanks for the advice man. I really have alot of thinking to do about what I want with girls and why this happened. After the breakup we had a talk about the relationship which made me open my eyes to some of my faults.

If you are breaking up I recommend to meet up in a "public" place. Like a park/beach or go for a walk. Don't make it awkward like a restaurant. That's the last thing she needs. If you want to talk about things with her you can ask her to come to your house or vice versa.

I have been in the phase and it is killing you inside. But I decided to fight for it and we are still together! Maybe the best thing I have done. Still miss the attention of girls and messing about with them. Don't know how old you are but sometimes it's time to grow up.

Make it as easy as possible for her whatever you do. Keep is simple. And the most important thing;
Enjoy life bud!

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