Hi everyone, note that this is probably the only time I had flirted with a girl in a whole year, due to me being a combat soldier ( barley home ), and I had a girlfriend until two weeks ago too.

So anyway, yesterday I was sitting with a couple buddies of mine in a bar, as soon as we first sat there was this really cute & hot waitress whom approached us and asked us what would we like to have, I offered my hand and asked for her name, she giggled and shook my hand telling me her name.

Me and my buddies began drinking beer, having shots, the waitress and I exhanged looks along the night, I had invited the waitress for a shot with me and had a little chat and some light kino on the way too.

A little bit before me and my friends were about to head off, after paying the bill, I lightly grabbed her gave the waitress her tip and leaned very close to her, asking when does she finish her shift so we would go to my place.... For some reason I didn't create any kino upon asking it, I dont know if it's thatt critical... She said that if it wasn't for her having a boyfriend she would sure come.

Not sure wether she really had one or not, I am pretty happy that I tried because it was really difficult for me to be so straightforward, especially when I am still thinking of my ex. By the way, the main reason I was so straight forward and didn't try to get her number and invite her out was because I had to return tomorrow to my base for another two months and I just wanted to have a good last night.


Bet there are many things to improve, please do criticize.

"Don't bring him! That would be awkward for him."

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.

What do you mean man?

Call her out on the bf thing, a lot of times these girls will sidestep advances with the claim of a bf.

A hot bar waitress is a 'hired gun'.

Attractive young women hired to work at an establishment based solely on their sex appeal. Examples of hired guns are pretty girls that work as bartenders in upscale bars, clubs and lounges. Hired guns can also be strippers or sexy young ladies that work in men's clothing stores or waitresses in restaurants. Hired guns are good at getting men to spend absurd amounts of money by simply flirting with them. It can be particularly difficult to pick up a girl that is working as a hired gun because these chicks get hit on by men on a regular basis at their jobs. Also, many hired guns are just doing their job by flirting with men and are not trying to get picked up anyway. Many of these girls may be stuck up from constant sexual advances. Many businesses, like the restaurant Hooters, are based entirely upon the employment of hired guns. As the saying goes, "sex sells".

And she has been selling that ass all day.

She gets hit on 1000x per day. You my Bro are not unique. She was sizing you up for the TIP!

You gotta have some serious game to pull one of those bitches.

The line I gave you shows you don't give a shit if she has a boyfriend or not.

I would have followed up with something like; "You look tired and stressed out, I can see it on your face, lets just go share a smoke outside on your break".

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.

Totally get you now man, thanks for the feedback fuckin helpful init