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Tried all other than the yoga class. Not saying you can't but they're probably an over-rated cliche.
Bus Stops - Great place, because you can exchange IOI's really easily. Easy to open aswell, as always you can say what you want but you can just ask how long she's been waiting for. If you're just passing by the stop, spin around and do it as a spontaneous thing, take her number and leave (you will have to use a direct opener if you do this). The only problem you have is if the bus comes to soon after you've initially started, if you're not getting on then it can make the exchange pretty awkward, of course, you can play pretty dominant and keep the bus door open until she gives the digits. If you're getting on the bus and you haven't initially built the rapport, always let her get on first and then sit in front of her, never behind or next to her unless you've established enough, if you get on first she might not follow to where you're sitting. Of course, this can fuck up too, depending on how many people are on the bus, seating arrangements ect, where she's getting off. Just try to stay in control as much as possible and never raise your energy too high.
Library - Public libraries are usually dry, but if you spot a girl you can guarantee it's possible. Uni libraries are obviously the best, but if you're not a student you're probably not getting in. I bounced a girl back to my place from my library when I was at uni... screen for what she's doing, who she's with, all that shit. You generally want her alone and bored, you can really go indirect or direct with the words, as long as your natural subcoms are good. I went indirect, made a comment on some book she had, she wasn't very welcoming and first, so I made a joke which actually got her to turn towards me. Once she'd done that, carried on flirting, only a little rapport, bounced her to a starbucks, then back to mine which was just round the corner, she was pretty much up for it by then. Seating and angle is also important for the initial approach, you want to make it feel as though she could tell her friends "I just randomly met this guy in the library today". You have no time to "warm up" like a lot of guys usually feel they need to do, once again, don't raise your energy too high.
Just going for a walk or jog around the area you live will surely have you bumping into girls on your travels. In the daytime, there are usually more "private spots" around city centres that girls will usually be seated or hanging out, malls and shops are probably the best place though. Avoid the extremely busy areas, girls usually just want to get through and away from all the salesmen, religious nuts, and if I dare put them in the same category, PUA's
... Any social event or party is good but there is a reason bars and clubs are my favourite place though, the girls are definitely free for the night and they are already ready.
Thanks a lot for this Natural_Dec really appreciate these stories/tips. This library one I can see myself doing, I'll try it this afternoon (have to go study anyway) one that I've never NEVER been able to pull is girls from the bar... I just can;t seem to get this right.
I go downtown by myself on our strip, I wear dress shirt, or polo shirt and dress pants and dress shoes. Every girl that I approach knows exactly whats going down, and they all seem so pretentious,I get this "O god not another one" to the point where I'm like wtf... not all these women can be so shallow...
To be clear I'm not a self conscious weirdo, or even the "nice guy". I show up have a good time and go home, but i'd be nice if I could meet 1 person from DT(downtown). Any tips? or quick success stories from bars?
Actually managed a one night stand exactly once. and I almost blew it. This girl comes walking in alone like she owns the place sits down at the bar, and like 4 dudes flock to this gal, I go to the bathroom and walk back out and shes giving me these lazer eyes. So I simply sit down ask her hows it going, then for some reason I look her over as look her straight in the eye "So are you for sale or what?" her eyes get huge and shes says "You think I'm a fucking hooker?" I take a gulp "Well, uhh, look at all the women in here, none are dressed half as nice as you. So either you'r for sale or the best dressed girl on the strip tonight", saved.
She bought me a drink and whispered in my ear if I wanted to go home with her. I was pretty drunk so yeah... my only success and its when I told the girl she looked like a hooker...wtf.
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