So after 18 years, I finally have my first girlfriend. We've been dating for almost a month and the first week or two I felt amazing. Im not sure exactly why I lost interest (its weird because before I always thought I'd be the the type of guy who could really stick to a relationship with one girl forever).

Recently, she's told me she loves me (I didn't say it back because I don't feel it back). So its not fair for me to keep dating her if I don't/probably won't ever feel as strongly.


Well the problem is that it took soo darn long to finally get a girlfriend, what if its takes years to get another one. I was going on dates before her, but nothing before her seemed to work out for more than a couple dates. Now Im conflicted and uncertain.

Has anyone ever went through this? Any advice?

Yeah. Love after 4 weeks. Lol.

Dude, keep seeing the girl if you want, stop if you don't.

For fucks sake, are you gonna stuff yourself dead with food just because "you may not get another meal"? What the fuck kind of mentality is that?
Are you honestly expecting anyone here to tell you "nah man, stick to it, you may never get another woman in your life".

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I always tell guys not to look at the woman they're dating from the perspective of how they see her in that moment. I tell them, that when the fantasy wears off what will you be left with? Its so easy to get caught up in the emotion. And here you go getting caught up in the emotion of fear that you may not find another girl. You will always find another girl if you go get one. There are so many outlets to meet women now this shouldn't even be a second thought. They'll be another, and because this situation gave you perspective it will be better than your last one.

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Some just do not have the balls to leave their shitty comfort zone to actually reach the promised land.

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thank you for the responses guys.

So post break up, how do I go back to being social and likable (before her, girls were finally starting to show interest, but now I feel like I've lost my social skills to a large extent again). Advice?

Love yourself. People will like you.

Go out alot and socialize. You will be social.

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This way of thinking will fuck you for the rest of your life if you don't change it now. There are always more girls.