Hi mates, on the average, how long should a good date last if you don't intend on going for the lay?

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Why would that be your intention?

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First off, why wouldn't you be going for the lay?

I personally think that if you aren't moving in the direction of sex, you are shooting yourself in the foot. If you aren't making it known that is your intent, she will get bored with you. If you do make it known but not have sex if the opportunity arises, even if on the first date, she will get bored with you.

So if you are insisting on a first date and purposely not wanting to lead to sex, my opinion would be make it last between an hour and two hours so she isn't thinking you're boring and unattractive.

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And that is what i hate about seduction.Is so two-faced it makes me wanna puke.
When you build attraction you have to badboy/jerk.No problem playing that role.But you also have to build comfort.Where you basicly have to shift your personality to nice guy mode.No problem playing that role neither.But i cant play both.I cant shift.It feels awkward.Two faced.
If i have to be the badboy/jerk then i wanna be that all the way and not suddenly switch to a nice guy persona.Its weird and i think the shifting from badboy to niceboy.Thats the part most guys struggle with.You need to combine both and balance it right.You have to be two faced.Rollercoaster.

Thanks for the feedback mates. Well, my week days are usually busy and I'm free on weekends.

I want to make some time during the week to hang out with new girls, make a connection and invite them over to my place on the weekends.

However, if the opportunity arises, I'll go straight for the lay depending on my schedules.

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