There's a girl who sits in front of my in my calc class. Before class started, I opened her up and we had a smooth conversation. When class ended, I nonchalantly handed her my phone, saying how we should meet up for study sessions. (She says how she has friends who already took the class ahead of her btw). When she gave my phone back to me, I told her how I was gonna text her back later in the day.

Several hours later, I discovered how she only gave me her first and last name, but no number. In fact, im not even sure if the name she gave me is real. So the next time I see her, I won't even bring this up, but maybe give her subtle hints that she forgot to actually give me her number?

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Personally, I wouldn't waste another moment on her. Why? She isn't stupid. She's smart enough to know that you wanted her number and she didn't give it to you. If there was any chance that she really did have some sort of interest in you, she'll want to give you her number and you just let her offer. Otherwise, follow the default method of gaming other women.

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Yeah, that answer's always been the case.

It just sucks how no matter how good my interaction is with the girl, it just all ends the same.

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A) She wants you to facebook add her
B) She is playing around with you
C) She typed in her name and the number didn't type in

Don't add her on facebook... if she didn't want you to it will seem creepy

The next time you see her... tell her the number didn't go in the last time...

If she wanted to give it to you she will sort it out

If she's trying to play with you... she will do something further to try fuck you over

Don't let this get to you or get angry... hot girls do this a lot...

Switch it around and start being cheeky towards her...

Figure out how to do this yourself... use your instincts in the moment

She will loose all of her perceived power over your emotions

You are no longer a weak little boy

This will create attraction and she will become intrigued

Now you have the ball again...

Keep flirting with her in class... you are the prize, not her...

Flirt with some other girls in the class...

She will be fantasising about being in private with you...

No cliche "do you need a study partner" shit... she has her friends for that....

Make your move properly next time.

No.

Learn how to take a hint, OP.

You're not Brad Pitt. Girls will say no sometimes.

Yeah, I would of already forgot about her by now.

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Life is way to short to be responding to you CF.

But this guy still has a shot.

OP... You've had a bunch of advice...

I promise you if you be normal about it in the next class and ask her about it you will get one of those three reactions...

It is most likely to be the cold reaction... but you can turn it around with the steps that I outlined and she will respect you for it and begin to see you in a different light.

Go for it man, if you fail then learn from your mistakes...

Just don't be a little bitch and sit there in the back of class wishing you could put your dick into her... that's how you end up on a forum with over 3000 posts and still can't give some practical advice on how to actually get a girl in a simple situation like yours.

It is totally up to you... but give it a shot.

If you do get rejected, take it as feedback, there is probably something wrong with your calibration or aspect of your game that you need to work on... something that no guy on this forum is going to be able to sort for you in a post.

Charlesfinley is a good guy Dec, you could simply disagree and put your 2 cents across as opposed to attacking. Also, I'm on 3000 posts too so you're having a pop at me, but you know for fact I'm not a KJ and back up my talk.

I pretty agreed with CF but you ignored me because we know each other probably.

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You're right, Natural Dec -

Here's what he should do... Cause acting normal and not like a social retard who can't process a simple rejection is overrated anyways... Maybe you can speak to that?

He should continue to pursue someone who has shown minimal to no interest... Making himself look creepier in the process - but at least he's trying!

Or -- since this is a pickup forum and not a "focus on one girl. Ohmygodholyshit she's amazing and the only woman on earth" forum... He could just move on to someone who shows some interest.

Only every other person here disagrees with you Natural Dec --- but why not take a crack at the moderator for apparently no other reason than to flex? -- it's cool.

No mate, didn't know that you were agreeing with him.

If you are then I do disagree with the both of you...

Of course he shouldn't get caught up on it... that's what I thought you were implying with the forget about her thing... but I would say... he needs to analyse where he's at with this girl because it isn't over... she hasn't rejected him yet... and he should prepare his mind so that he knows what to do the next time he see's her. It's the only way he's going to learn.

It's cool.. Just don't "no" my advice like some sort of authority, especially when I've been in a similar situation and had success from it... I know how girls work and I know the dynamics of his scenario. He should be slow burning it with this girl... walking away and staying silent right now would put him in the geeky beta male box.

I don't know CF personally so I have nothing against him... but if he hasn't pulled it off in a situation like this before then perhaps he shouldn't be advising somebody to walk away from it without giving it a shot.

You got a little personal though. Mentioning the post count and calling him a KJ.

I understand you're optimistic for th OP. I guess I'm just on the realistic point of view from my experience. (But I don't attack your experience)

Like, if we were to put a bet on the outcome, I'm willing to bet £300 in the outcome. Do you accept?

At the end of the day, the op had 2 view points. Which is a good thing. No need for attacks.

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It was a legit statement about CF's advice, it was poor for a guy with over 3000 posts...

He actually assumes that the girl has rejected this guy already even though she hasn't

I'm positive he will get one of those reactions... and from those reactions I gave him a practical step by step way of how to go about preparing for those reactions and turning them into a relationship with her. But to be honest... OP probably has a long way to go... I haven't seen the guy personally but he is obviously far from a ladies man at the moment and I don't know anything about him or the girl... he might fuck it up and make a mistake... or ACTUALLY get a rejection... but that's the only way he's going to learn...

For all I know OP could be a deformed little weirdo who dresses like shit so no I wouldn't put money on him pulling it off lol...

To be honest... I don't know what the fuck I'm even trying to help guys out for. Every golden piece of advice I give to guys in this community gets misconstrued... I guess it's because I'm actually coming from a place of doing this shit, meeting girls in reality, being around girls all my life, fucking them and dating them... whereas most are coming from a place of well... sitting in the back of a class wondering how all of this works.

I won't say any more on this matter. I'll only be posting my reports from now on because I have better shit to do and I actually want to grow and develop.

CF... No hate bro, but show some respect and you'll get some. Can I ask... why would you walk away from this already at this point of the pick up?

Dragon... I invite you out to wing one Saturday before New Year...

It's not bad advice though is it? If I was the OP i wouldn't even bet on myself to seduce a girl who isn't interested in me. I would even up the bet to £500 if you could take over from the OP and try to finish the job...


3000 posts or 10 posts, doesn't mean jack shit. I am friends with CF and he has settled down with a stunner with a heap of experience under his belt. Still, he posts because the community has helped him.


Well, if one person disagrees with you, fuck him/her, if every forum reacts like this to your posts, then maybe could be a problem from your end, you do have a talent for winding people up on forums lol - I really don't care anymore, I need to chill out on forums myself. Majority of people on this forum are 1 post Oneitus's looking for magic lines.
Will think about it. Seeing a nice girly at the moment. Or was this a pick up challenge lol? I will let you answer that before I reply to that...

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Damn, a lot to take in lol

The problem i've been getting consistently is having great opening conversation, only to have the attraction between us die in one form or another. With the girl in my calc class (that i'm not obsessing over), i didnt feel like i was rejected. she could've easily declined to input any information about her on my phone, then that'll be the end of that. im off to talk to another girl.

however, i wouldn't want things to be awkward between us if she still chooses to sit around in my vicinity. There are plenty of other chairs in the class and we both tend to arrive early, so what i want do is test her: i get to class first and see if she still sits in front of me. if she doesn't, then i know where our relationship stands. i could even call out her name, and if she doesn't respond, then i know the name she gave me is a fake.

if i missed any questions or something else, please point them out.

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"I've learned it's important not to limit yourself. You can do whatever you really love to do, no matter what it is." - Ryan Gosling

Well OP has PM'd me so I'm going to try to help him out as much as possible.

I would definitely be in with that bet, the situation he describes would be a piece of cake for me. Of course, I have a higher percentage of girls that are usually attracted to me so it's a little different for this guy. But he should still give it a go...

That's why I said that life is to short to be bothering with a response to the dismissal of my advice.... I've worked hard on my game up until now and I'm still working hard and I have big goals, I'm currently seeing a few girls and have a lot of other shit going on myself... I have no time for flaming, it's sad

Alls I say to CF, or for anyone else for that matter... is that I'm not one of these guys that's coming on here clueless, I meet new girls every week and I've fucked and dated plenty of them, I know what I'm doing and if I'm going to post something serious it is going to have practical value. I came here to learn and further my knowledge, feel free to challenge my ideas and I'll surely challenge yours, but also show some respect and I won't have any reason to diss you.

A lot of you are posting shit on this forum from what I can see.

My advice was coming from first hand experience of success in a similar situation, when I guess yours was coming from rejection from a similar situation that you just accepted as a reality?

Yeah, I noticed... the dudes on the forum don't have a clue and really need some help lol... it's very hard to help them out over text.

A bit of both... wouldn't mind winging with you personally... I think we could learn a lot of each other... I think you definitely understand a lot of the aspects of seduction that I do that not many guys seem to pick up on so it would be cool to see how that goes down infield. But yeah, I've never actually been deep in the action with you properly so I guess this is a call to Dragula to show us what he's made of