Hi guys, so it's been 2 weeks since I have banged this hot blonde 10..we text often but I rarely initiate conversation. I'm really into her and I think she is into me too. I didn't know her fairly well when we had sex but now that I have learned more about her I think I want to take it to the next level or let her know I'm more interested in dating other then being a fuck buddy. Any tips on how I could tell her that I like her?

You've met her in person how many times?

Just be normal and tell you that you like her.

Actions speak louder than words, invite her out to places, do thing that couple's do. It will do better than a mutual agreement

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Right. Here's what I'm wondering though...

Is he attached after a one night stand - and if so - (and if he's only ever seen her once) how well will that go over?

Do like Dragula says. Do couple types of things, introduce her to your friends, and if she's into you she will start thinking of you as her boyfriend before the conversation even comes up.

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Yeah, I would think a few more sessions of Chill and Netflix (sex) needs to happen before you should contemplate a relationship...I just didn't think men can can feel this way after a one night stand

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I've hung out with her twice but she is a server at a bar I go to twice a week so I see her often..I think you guys are right..no need to rush into a relationship..I just don't want her to think I was just trying to bang her..thanks

You make it sound like every girl wants a relationship. But some girls just want a good fucking, no drama, no boyfriends. What do YOU want?

Whatever it might be, do that.

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Why do Bro's feel the need to rush a 'relationship' type status? Just so she has that 'don't touch' tag in her ear?

Let me clue you in.

That tag falls off real easy.......

Let HER dedicate herself to you, by being that slick motherfucker that doesn't need that tag on her, SHE wants to tag YOU.

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You should never be trying to chase up behind a girl so that you can give your freedom away to her. Your freedom should be something she should eventually require for things to continue. Nothing something you're volunteering to give away. Who wants something thats being given away so cheaply. You slept with her once, what has she showed you? What has she done other than being "attractive" and "cool" that would qualify her to you in a way that you would be considering her for something serious? List it.

Not to mention, today women are SPAM the milk free without the purchase of the cow so whats the point? Why signed up to give away more than is required of you for something any other guy could get without the price of his freedom?

What do you want from her? And why do you think she can provide it?

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Awesome bro. That's sounds like a beautiful situation you have yourself in. NICE. OK so taking it to the next level means she want's to start seeing it as the best option for her to be with you.

The best way to do this is through TEAM DYNAMICS - team dynamic's is basically where your starting to have you both be a unit. A unit as in together. One of the simplest ways to do this is A) be the leader of the team and B) delegate a little responsibility to her.

What this is doing is building a bound between you two as a couple that works well together. For her it's going to start her instincts buzzing on an sub level that her life is better WITH YOU.

Practically it means spending more time together. Doing things together you both would enjoy whilst having that dynamic develop.

One final thing - be UPFRONT about your VISION (use that word - they love a man with vision) and journey for how you want to live your life, then ask her the same - essentially this will bring out for her the opportunity to actually live how she want's (85% of the time she probably doesn't know) - even if it's still a blank for her your ELEVATING HER LIFE WITH YOU. BOOM.

You can do it bro - I'm with 100%

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Love the advice guys..much appreciated. I've been staying in contact with her still but haven't escalated as much as I'd like. She messages me first most days, which tells me she is interested. I'm having trouble using good text openers instead of the boring "hi" "how are you" which we all know is taboo. Any good new ones?

It's not a taboo. You already got her, stop "gaming" - just be yourself.
What I like to do about girls I'm in contact and built some sexuality: "Hey sexy/beautiful/girl/some nickname you have in common." I feel like it naturally sets me at a leading point because of the confidence it shows to compliment but yet it's something between us - that's what I like about her (sexy, beautiful).

I agree with Dragula. Not necessarily with telling her you like her, I'm quite against that if you're new to this.

But yes, do couple things and before you know it she'll consider you her boyfriend and pop up the exclusivity talk.

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