Sometimes women are looking for some reinforcement that fucking you was okay and they look for you to do that for them. I believe they do this because after sex is when their emotions are at their most vulnerable. Sometimes it's best to tell her the opposite of what she told you in order to have her stay around if you want her to stay around. When she says that you guys shouldn't continue, you say that you want to continue and add that you understand where she is coming from if she chooses not to.

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No bro if she wanted to stay she would have...as she was acting very into and crazy about me 2 weeks ago. Ever since she knew she was going to dubai and after while there she changed. The guy who took her..me and him work in the same industry and have common friends and colleagues. Our only difference is he is super rich. They stayed at the Burj al Arab(7 star) for a week (2000 usd/night). He showed her the highlife she could live...but she still banged me the next day! I feel sorry for him to tell you the truth. And I am way better without her.

True. Not here though, the OP is right. This adds up. Obviously she had some kind of reservation, whether it was the other guy or something else who knows. In addition to this point if the sex is really good, she will not say things like this. Right on. Good response man I can tell you grew from this whole experience!

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I suppose you are right. What was I thinking? Women that have guys with money never ever have sex with guys with little or no money.

If you are better off without her then more power to you. If you wanted a fuck buddy, better yet, a fuck buddy that would buy you shit with another guys loot...you probably threw away your golden ticket.

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Some guys don't know how to milk a situation like that. They give their heart to the girls that don't have one to give back. That's the difference between an aspiring pick up artist and a true player.

Why do you feel sorry for HIM? I mean he flew her over, banged her probably a lot more than you did, and now he took her from you. Sure he spent money, but he got the girl. And she doesnt sound like a prize to me, but you still wanted her. So objectively, money guy won. You cant say you're way better without her, after she left.

Update 2

Hey guys she just sent me a message not even 24hrs later... "Hey! How are.you!? How was.yesterday? Could you arrange bank stuffs and etc!?" Haven't responded...what do you guys think is the reason for this message? Shall I continue with freeze out?

I thought you said you are way better without her. So why would you care that she's messaging you?

Instead of asking all of these questions about what you should do and what things mean, why not just tell us what you want from this one solitary girl that you claim would make your life worse with her in it?

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Honestly just thinking whether to get laid or not.

It doesn't seem like you're being honest, IMO. You've already fucked her and you've fucked her knowing that there was another guy. So you are not having a moral problem. If it was bad sex, you wouldn't want to fuck her again. If it was good sex, you wouldn't be wondering if you should get laid or not...you'd just do it.

To me, you are coming from an insecure place. Your earlier posts you had concerns with their being another guy. Then you found out the other guy did exist and the differences between you and him was that he was rich. You fucked her and he fucked her and you got butt hurt because you thought she chose him over you and you were ready to throw in the towel because she had a guy that was similar to you but rich. Now she's messaged you and you have hope.

So I'll ask you again, what is it that you really want from this girl? Avoiding an honest answer doesn't help you unless you already know that what you want isn't really the best thing for you.

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Keep in mind the frame that the OP was coming from: "She is my gf because I had sex with her, and she cannot be with anyone else. If she does that is not right." He is. But part of that I believe is some false society programming and some representations of the dating world the OP has that doesn't have to be true. For example he wants to have sex with the girl, but might have some thoughts that he has to care for her or be with her when it looks like he does not want this.

He does need to clarify what he wants from her, but I think a part of his growth will be learning new frames of the dating scene and seeing more of what is possible, much of that knowledge which can be found on here.

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Is she asking you for a favor here?

You guys are absolutely right...I have to be honest with myself and decide what I really want from her....at the moment will just keep communication open with no sort of relationship. Thanks again for all your advice and comments. It is much appreciated. Will do my best to pay it forward.

No English isn't her first language. I was here on business and had to deal with a bank as part of that.