YOU LYING TWAT.

How much are you spending on strippers?????????????

You have no chance, your gf deserves better. I don't think I have come across someone more chodey than you. You have no chance.

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Okay okay, I get it. I was pretty stupid with my money at the strip club and was looking for love at the wrong place. No need to go to therapy over it, which is MUCH more expensive than a stripper even with insurance

stop going to strip clubs

Use that same money on therapists. Even if it's x2 expensive. Just go to see him/her less often? It's a step in a healthy direction no?

Strip clubs are waste of time and money for you. You don't see it. But you kinda know.

But, I think you're just using money as excuse, you simply don't want to go see a therapist. It takes a man to accept that he has a problem and could use professional help.

Or, Perhaps you are afraid of losing hope of marrying the strippers and using your gf as the lead bridesmaid AND...perhaps the therapist might make you realise, that you have these demon's that you just totally different disregard and brush under the rug.

Stop being pathetic and grab your life by the balls.

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Thats wat 99% of our male population is. I mean literally u scream ur lungs out to them "U r going to drown in this pool" still they wont understand. Won't even listen n u knw wat happens at the end ?? I tell u. In the end U r the bad guy for talking shit about his "Future Wife".

Oh man i cant stop laughing it reminds me of all the times i myslef tried to tell some goof a million times of wat little i knw myself....N yet still

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Don't get confused by my username. I am not Bald.

If I tell a guy "I'm not wanting a relationship at the moment" it means without fail that I'm not interested in a relationship with him ever. Women are always open to relationships. This line is like a guy telling a girl "I'm not wanting sex at the moment".

I'm curious if any guy has ever gotten this line and ended up in a good relationship with the same woman down the road.

I've escaped the friendzone a couple of times... but that was completely different, to be honest.

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I grew out of the dumb shit I used to say on here. Most of my posts don't represent who I am today at all.

listen man i'll be honest with you, strippers are like sales people or politicians, they will tell you what you want to hear just to get what they want out of you.

here's my take on it, if youve already gone to strip clubs quite often, then that means you should be somewhat used to being around beautiful women, if thats the case then you shouldnt be too intimidated by meeting attractive females out in the field. use that to your advantage and start trying to talk to attractive females when youre out and about.

Now if you wanna go back to the strip club then cool thats fine i mean we're guys and guys love having drinks and seeing naked females so thats obviously fun for us, but dont use it as your main mean of meeting girls.

in conclusion, if you wanna try to get with the stripper cool, just don't tread on it too much and try to get out there and meet some non-stripper girls. you'll be surprised at what you find.

hope this helps

Good advice, my POF profile is thriving right now. It's odd, even though I've gotten three numbers my first day, I don't even care. I miss the stripper. I finally broke up with that girlfriend I was keeping as a safety net yesterday and I also went to the strip club where I had a striking revelation. I said something to make her laugh hysterically which she replied with "man I'm going to miss you when I quit dancing" and it's like uh.. I have a phone and a car you know?? All in all I had a great time. She said she had 590$ stolen from her at the club. I only had 60$ on me because I couldn't get to the bank before it closed.. So rather than buying dances I just gave the money to her, she told me "I love you" three times before I ended up leaving and she also asked for a foot message which I happily obliged her on before I left.

However the "I'm going to miss you when I quit dancing" line stuck with me and is really concerning.. I'm thinking about putting it all on the line and just telling her next time something along the lines of "I'm really fond of you, here's my number. If you want to hang out sometime that's great, if not I know you're not looking for anything right now and you're extremely busy so that's fine. But I'm done coming here, paying to see you". I was wondering is there a better way to go about this?

You're quite the player. Believing her bull shit '"losing her money' story...That's exactly what you need to keep on doing to get into her panties. She probably spent that money on cocaine and snorted it off her fuck buddy's cock. (Who never paid for a dance from her)

You deserve all the misery you've earned. You just don't get it. Clueless. Delusional chode

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Exactly what I said last night. Brilliant.

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I grew out of the dumb shit I used to say on here. Most of my posts don't represent who I am today at all.

Everyone is just frustrated at this point... With incompetence.

Guy deserves what he gets - and if he hasn't gotten the point after 3 pages of people yelling the same message at him, another 3 pages won't help.

Thread locked. To this guy: all the advice you need is already written here.

Continue and you deserve what you get.