I want to get some feedback on if my plan makes sense

the girl: is about an 8. Seems to be genuinely nice but also shy.

Interaction so far: saw this girl at the gym and asked her about the exercise she was doing. She answered and then I mentioned I see her at the gym a lot and asked if she is on a team. She said no. Some guy was standing 2 feet away waiting for her to hurry up so I went back to my exercise.

I saw her the next day in the gym walking up to the water fountain and said "hey," she smiled/responded and I continued "I tried out your ISO curls and they really worked; I made dinner for friends that night and afterwards I was doing the dishes and they said they never saw anyone clean so quickly!" She laughed and I drank from the fountain. My next line was weaker and I asked her next, "do you know any exercises that can help me with do my taxes?" She laughed and said no, so I joked, "damn, guess I'll just have to keep running away from town to town." At this point she was moving in for water so I went back to my workout.

next move? so I feel like it's hard to talk much in the gym cause everyone is focused on his or her workout. Plus she seems shy. She was happy when I reopened her and laughed at my (marginally funny) jokes So I'm thinking to just go direct and ask her to to grab some food or coffee after a workout.

I was thinking that the next time I see her without many people around I'll say, "hey, I have to admit I think you are really pretty and i get the feeling you are an interesting person too. I'd love to get a chance to know you and make you laugh. Could you we grab something to eat/drink after after a workout?" I should mention to you guys that there are restaurants and Starbucks next door.

If she says yes, I'll say "cool how about today?" After she responds I'll introduce myself (give her my name) and do logistics

If she says no then I'll say, "Its cool, I understand we don't really know each other. But I hope you don't mind that I'm gonna continue to do those ISO curls I asked you about "

Lunch? I didn't read the whole thing, but lunch is very... FRIENDly

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Is that bad?

Yea. You want a date to be in the evening, where it can lead to you taking her home and having sex. Sex from a lunch date is possible... but it's fucking boring, in the middle of the day, and predictable.

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Booze. Not sandwiches.

Booze.

I love the simplicity of your posts lol. +1 though.

OP, this doesn't mean go out and get smashed to you're not too scared to talk to her!

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You're trying way to hard.

It's unattractive and needy.

TELL the girl you want to have lunch with her. Stop being so soft about it.

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I probably didn't respond to this soon enough, but you're pitch is far too thought out, far too long, and just way too much effort.

Whatever happen to: " You wanna grab something to eat this week? " One line. Wait for a response. And then handle it from there.

She obviously knows you think she's pretty because you keep approaching her making jokes and not escalating he conversation beyond that point. You have to shut the mind off sometimes and just make your move will the iron is still hot. You don't wanna make 3 different approaches before finally mustering up the courage to ask her what you wanted to ask her the first approach. That doesn't show you in a confidence, assured, and decisive light.

Never the less, go for it. Ask her. If she says yes, go, if not move on and delete her from your mental history. The less weight you put on individual approaches the more successful they will be.

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Seriously, it doesn't matter what you ask her out for if she likes you. Lunch, booze, coffee its really whatever you like to do also what's in your budget. Nothing unmanly about a nice lunch, plus they sell drinks at most restaurants anyways.