SPAM her 1st

She has to accept your friend request and other steps for you to contact her on the Facebook

Just SPAM her. Once it's smoothed out. Add her on FB if you must.

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You not think it will be another DLV from me?She can think I am unreliable, and now want became a friend, and maybe a eternal friendzone.

You had her in your room and you think that phone call is what fucked it up for you? IF she was attracted enough to you she would have fucked you after that phone call. Don't blame the phone call on her not fucking you.

The fact you flew to another state for a girl you met on facebook is super low status. Comeon man, go to your local bar and start gaming local girls. Go to the shopping centre, but for fucks sake don't start an online relationship for a few months and fly to her and expect it to be on like donkey kong. Don't be chattiing to her all day everyday. This is a serious case of oneitus. I don't mean to be a dick but if you had other options you wouldn't have done this.

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My Journey:viewtopic.php?f=22&t=192265

I said that a few posts ago, "yeah I know, tell this story without sound like a loser is impossible. ". I truly understand your position. But I am not stucked with this one, I am gaming with others.

I don't mean 'gaming', I mean fucking. And not 'gaming' as in you're talking to girls you've only talked to on facebook and never actually met. You probably thought you were 'gaming' that girl for 2 months straight aswell.

Like are you putting your dick into other girls vaginas that you're attracted too?

I would assume not if you're catching planes to other states to meet with girls you've never met.

Fuck other girls. It's the only way to overcome this oneitus shit you're experiencing.

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My Journey:viewtopic.php?f=22&t=192265

She is the only one online. The others are local, but you are right, at the time no FC's, but I am working on it(No FZ's at the moment). My main focus is move on, actually I was doing pretty well until she starts give me IOI again.

You are in the desert mentally and she represents an oasis of water. Move to a lush garden by the ocean mentally. In other words, meet women.

I am trying to. I am a beginner, so takes time.

UPDATE

I spoken to her today.

First she demonstrate a little bit upset with me, and said later it was only a joke, I just continue the conversation.

continuing the conversation she said it was ok ignore her, it is a way to handle things, like it never happened, I reply saying isn't the best way to handle things, and I was texting her to adjust this.

here's the paradox, she says, "You made clear. You wont accept only friendship" and lol, what, what, what: "I tried interact with you on study group and you just ignored me"..."I accept it because I have no right to ask you things". Well, my beginner skills is limited to analize this, can anyone help?

in the end I ask if she had any question to me, she said "nope" and ask me if a had one, I made a question(a joke) and said I have to go(I really needed to go, I was dining out). Then comes another crazy thing...after the "goodbyes" and a long silence, she send a massage "although the all things, you are the most real try of relationship I ever had"...I reply saying I was already driving(I told her I was dining out and have to go).

Well, that was it...like I said, I dont know the final result of interaction. Too much complex to a humble biginner like me, can anyone help?