When on a nightout I tend to hit the dancefloor and I am not afraid to pull shapes as used to breakdance. I tend to get attention from girls. I however do not react to it as find it hard to think of an opener in this situation or the music is loud for a conversation. Last night I was dancing and a 7 looked at me we had a little dance I lent in to say Hi but it fizzled out quickly and she moved on faster than she came in. If a girl starts dancing with you or shows IOIs is there any tips on what the hell to do?

I would think normal pick up rules apply.

Are not not able to pick up women outside of the dance floor environment?

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Well never really tried gaming before. I have known about it for a while but was a passing interest. I am now looking to practice and use this. The dancefloor is a good opportunity to open girls as get a lot of interaction on there. There would obviously be times off the dancefloor also.

Type into Google "how to meet a girl on the dancefloor"

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You have a valid point will actually get out there and try it before posting again.

Approach anxiety is the beast that awaits you.

Whether it be in a shopping mall, dancefloor or in a bar or on a playground (wut?) ..this will take some time to desensitise yourself. You have to essentially break down your ego and be vulnerable.

Once you get some reference experience post up your troubles and we can give you some feedback.

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Dude, you're in a club. Let body language do the talking. If you're a good dancer it's even better. Get physical asap. You don't need any words and even if you use them you sure as hell won't be bantering when you can barely hear each other.

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Uhhhh... start dancing with her?

Why does there have to be a "next step?" Why can't you dance with her and let things escalate by themselves?

Some of you guys don't understand... your fucking weirdness is the reason girls are turning their backs to you.

Stop being so weird!! Just relax and enjoy dancing with the girl!

Once you start dancing with them you're in. The more sexually you want to dance with the the more comfortable you have to make them feel. Both go hand and hand and differs between women. While dancing slowly start placing your hand on her hip and moving close. If y'all dry humping then start making out with her... if that's what you're going for, her number shall follow.

The next morning. After you've fucked her.

I see this happen way too often. Dude's making out grinding with her and his though is like "OMG I SHOULD GET HER NUMBER NOW".

No fucker. You should be taking her home. You're already making out and running your hands all over her. You move forwards, not backwards.

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Agreed.

Phone number is only after you've tried to get her home several times.

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Dont worry about shit fizzling out, you shouldnt fizzle out.

What matters is she gave you some attention, within that time you should have demostrated how awsome you are.

If it fizzles out i hope by then you've made her extremely wet and intruiged about you.

In that case your next step would be a phone number or a same night pull. Depending on logistics and the situation she's on.

Often times if i dance with a girl i kno its on due to the transfer of energy and escalation during the dance itself, i make sure i get them real wet. If she wants to be pulled she'll stick around, if not just take a number. Maybe later she'll want it.

But the main thing for you to focus on would be your man to woman vibe, how good of a flirt you are, and how sexy you can make her feel when dancing with her, how confident you feel, how do you look at her in the eyes and give he a cheeky smile, shit like that scores you points and solidify the interaction for future deep sea diving if you kno wat i mean

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Hey man,

Just start dancing with the girl without talking. I don't mean grinding either, just groove together, teach her a move, and spin her in a different turn pattern thats not the generic spin (This will be easier if you are already a dancer). Just before the dancing starts to fizzle out grab her hand bring her in and say I need some water, come with me.

From there you can start talking because you are going to take her to a place that isn't loud so you can talk.

Hope that helps,

It's hard to tell how it fizzled out without more information and seeing you interact with her. Your tonality or body language could have been off. Generally you don't need to talk that much on the dance floor and sometimes it can even hurt you. She is there to dance, not to have a conversation. As you approached her on the dance floor, a simple opener is a high-five to a spin and bring her in closer to continue dancing. You can calibrate based on her receptiveness and see how fast you can escalate.

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