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| Taint767 | PostPosted: Mon Aug 24, 2015 9:37 am | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Sun Aug 23, 2015 11:04 am Posts: 3 | | Hey guys, complete newbie to all the PUA stuff and only recently starting approaching, and let me say thanks to all the PUA tips and tricks ive learnt recently I've gone from a guy who used to have trouble asking a stranger even for directions to actually enjoying running openers and talking to strangers but I find that here in observatory South Africa (where I live) ill often just be straight up ignored before I've even had time to run my opener and sometimes when I do get a get a response even after I've used time constraints ill find ill get the *when is this guy going leave eye*, I do all the usual things like open over my shoulder make eye contact and of course smile so I'm not sure where I'm going wrong or maybe I'm just approaching the wrong people, any tips or suggestions to help my approach? Much appreciated guys!
P.S any good openers you guys wanna share would be appreciated thanks
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| oceanx | PostPosted: Mon Aug 24, 2015 10:03 am | |
| Offline | | PUA Forum Leader |  | Joined: Sat Nov 09, 2013 9:50 pm Posts: 2864 | | You're most likely approaching them with the mind frame that you're tryna "get" something from them n ur concerned about how it's all going to go and they can smell all of that.
Instead, engage them (don't "APPROACH") and speak with them as though you already know them.
Don't think in terms of "openers"; instead think of gliding in to her life. Thought about this way, it's easy to say that you can start talking to her about anything under the sun. Don't put her on a pedestal or fawn over her when you speak with her.
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| Dragula | PostPosted: Mon Aug 24, 2015 11:11 am | |
| Offline | | English Muffin |  | Joined: Wed Sep 10, 2008 5:40 pm Posts: 5689 | | "Gliding into their life"
Very nice way to put it. I really hate the term 'sarging' but I think for newcomers, spam approaching can't hurt at all. Just don't make it a long term thing. Tone down on it when you have developed some hair on the chest with being used to meeting girls _________________ USER HAS BEEN BANNED FOR REPEATEDLY IGNORING MOD WARNINGS AND MULTIPLE RULE VIOLATIONS
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