A problem that comes up about 70% of the time in my experience of dance floor game is that the girl seems to always turn away or put her back to me when I go to approach her on the dance floor. i know that if a girl does this its a big sign of disinterest but the thing that throws me is they will sometimes give me IOIs in the way of running her hand through her hair, a submissive look down or repeated bits of eye contact prior to the approach so when i see the IOIs i immediately go in and dance up to her but then as i said about 70% of the time they turn away or face their back to me. I dont know whether to take it as a sign of disinterest or a shit test if it wasn't for the IOIS i would just move onto another girl and assume she wasn't interested. Is she expecting me to dance up behind her? but that just seems very creepy and a low value move to do, but if she does turn her back on me i dont want to just stand their like a tool so in this situation i normally go back to dancing but then if i make eye contact again it makes me more cautious about approaching again because i don't know if she really is interested in me or not.

so what im basically asking is what do you do if you make eye contact with a girl and she and she turns her back on you during the approach. And while im at it what is the best way to approach on the dance floor because i've done a lot of research but all they say is approach from a slight angle as if by accident and go in with high energy but this has not really been working for me so far.

i know there have been a lot of posts on this kind of thing but none of them seem to tell me what to do in this particular situation.
thanks for all the replies in advance.

The may sound strange to some, but you'll be shocked with what you can get away with when you have the proper confidence levels.

Grab them by the wrist lightly, and pull them to you.

Don't grab the hand or the fingers or the shoulder. Grab the wrist and lightly pull them to you. I get a positive reaction 80% of the time.

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Yeah like Eddie says.

Just go for it no hesitation if you get that IOI. If you're trying to figure out a smooth to break the girl circle you have already waited too long at this point.

You can ass bump and get them to look back around. Take her hand and dance. It's pretty easy.

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It's important that you are dancing and having fun to the music so girls won't feel that you are being predatory. Girls will occasionally give IOIs to guys around them if they want to be approached. By IOIs, I mean eye contact or going out of her way and dancing within proximity. They will see you are having fun and will feel comfortable being around you.

You are correct that you don't just want to start dancing behind them as that is creepy. One way I like to approach is to have fun dancing while facing the DJ and occasionally making eye contact around. Gauge if the girls maintain eye contact longer than a few seconds.

Smile once you make eye contact with her and go for a high five and grab her hand. You can make her do a spin and then bring her in and start dancing with her. This works nearly every time. It's all about having fun, acting without hesitation and capitalizing on opportunity.

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Thanks for all the replies guys you have no idea how much it means to me, im so hyped to try these tips this weekend!

Hey guys have also wondered about this. I get IOIs in eye contact or proximity girls. I have acted on this twice both times involving taking them by the hand spinning them and being playful. The problem is this only gets you a short wibndow before tjlhey lose interest. Where do you go from there? Do you speak or just build kino? Any help is appreciated.

Escalate.

But as we mentioned to you in your thread. You need to game girls and put your balls on the line

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