Background

I met a hb 8 online, she is from another state, after 2 months of chat(here is my first mistake, we chat every day) we became very close, and we end up with a pseudo relationship, but one day she said I was a cool guy but she was really attached and because of distance she dont want it to go foward. After a SPAM conversation I changed her mind and we dicided to try something, she said really like me and I am obviously into her.

Day 1

So, I take a flight to her city to a date, since I dont know well the city, I decided to usually places...snack bar, movies, cafe(another mistake, I choosed the roadmap, but not the places). I missed some spots for KC at cafe, but not end of the world. After the cafe, she invited me to a new local pub to some beers, at the place some fluffy talk, a little deep talk, she said after 2 months was really meet me that day, in other words reset our past. After some beers, KC, we made out, after 1 hour she decided to go. We walk to my hotel, holding hans all the time, and she asks to go to my room, with some random excuse of course. There we made out again but the phone of hotel rings, break things, was the manager, after that she decided to go.

Day 2

She invites me to brunch at her favorites restaurant, I tried KC, she rejected, go for a walk, tried again, she rejected, end of the day, LJBF me. I take a flight to home

End

Since then I told her friends are not enough to me, deleted from facebook, phone, etc..(not blocked) Next day she texted me, I dont reply, NC, four days later I replied cold, and she keep text next 4 days in row, and I was still replying cold, so I decided to show some interest, after that she stopped text me directly.

Another fact, we are in same facebook group where we met, she tried always tries to contact me over there, but I ignore her, or reply polite. Now she is avoiding me, when I comment in some post, she stops and go dark.

Almost 1 month without contact her, and I dont know if NC is really working. Can anyone help?thanks.

ps: sorry for the grammar, I am drunk.

Dragula has what you need:
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This is a perfect example of a state interrupt and how women are generally led by THEIR FEELINGS AT THE TIME. One moment, she's coming up with an excuse to go to your room because THAT IS HOW SHE FEELS AT THE TIME and then a simple phone call interrupts her state and now she wants to exit because THAT IS HOW SHE FEELS AT THAT MOMENT.

Not sure where you were tryna take this relationship anyway; she is in another state.

Dragula has a lot of material that you need, actually. His product "The Little Black Book" has your name written all over it!

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I grew out of the dumb shit I used to say on here. Most of my posts don't represent who I am today at all.

Would you like some water? You sound very thirsty...

Your neediness is what is turning girls off.

yeah I know, tell this story without sound like a loser is impossible. Why I want stay in the game?well, we have a lot in common, the pros overcome the cons. And, end of this year I will move to near her location(I never told this to her).

My actions show a lot of DLV, but I never said "come back to me plz" or things like that. After she said LJBF, I just said "Ok, I understand, but I prefer not, but no hard fellings." and I am still holding this position.

Now I believe she is mirroring me, when I read and dont reply same day, she does same thing. If I change my photo, she change too. And I am still with the same strategy, NC. Need some help in this game.

When a girl says she wants to be friends, you're supposed to be a man. Go for what you want. "I'm not interested in friendship. I think you're a great girl and I'd like more than friendship, so give me a call if you change your mind" then walk away and go for other girls. Don't go into no contact with expectations..

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I grew out of the dumb shit I used to say on here. Most of my posts don't represent who I am today at all.

This, AND READ DRAGULA'S POST that i linked to above.

You flew all the way for a a girl that you haven't met yet?Lol

Anyway, I would fly to the moon if it was Jdaniel's mum but I'm digressing.

You got her back to the hotel man and got LMR you were doing just fine. All you needed to do is handle the mental state break and get back to the room. But instead, you reacted needy and lost all attraction as soon as you reacted like a brat and flew home. M

Regarding her to mirroring you on the texts. Stop over thinking and just say you're sorry for overacting (Don't do it in a needy way). Then she might even fly to you perhaps.

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I hug closed her. You jealous?

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I grew out of the dumb shit I used to say on here. Most of my posts don't represent who I am today at all.

Yeah, I was doing very well handle all shit tests, but last minutes was just enough to brake my image.

My flight was scheduled to go in 20min after she LJBF me, so I didnt run, but I was a little dramatic, deleted from facebook bla bla bla,"friends are not enough to me, I will move on", next day she texted me but I didnt anwser,after 4 days I anwser the text , in a cold way.

Now she didnt talk with me, actually she is avoiding me on the facebook study group(where we met), when show up on a post, she take off.

So, do you think I need to add her again on facebook, and start talk?now we only text via SPAM, but 14 days NC.

I was doing this. But she started to show interest, then I started showing too. Now she's avoiding me.

You purposely ignored her. Girls know when you're playing games.

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I grew out of the dumb shit I used to say on here. Most of my posts don't represent who I am today at all.

I totally agree with you. Thats why I came ask for help. Do you have any suggestion? I still think she is attracted to me.

Like I said, I would apologise for over reacting.

No magic lines needed

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Ok, I will add her again on facebook, and say "I think I was overeacting, sorry for that. Let's put this awkward situation behind us. Since we are on (facebook group name) everyday, I dont think the way I am handle things are the best way to handle the situation.".

After that, I contact her or always wait her contact me on chat?