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So you accepted a 40 hour a week job that you could possibly work for perhaps a decade....on the basis of a woman that you like?
Don't shit where you eat. Maybe she does like you. Maybe it was an intentional flirt to get you to accept the job, who knows.
I urge you to be good with women instead. Get immersed with pick up. Read my sig.
I read your post and yeah, it makes sense. Most guys don't get it. I admit that even though I saw my little progress since I have learned to walk (figuratively), most of the time I just don't get it. Some of my office hottie gave me signal and I thought that's a green light only to end up being busted in the end.
And some also give a clear signal, but I hold back, fearing what I will do might be not right (based on my past experience) and yeah, they ended up frustrated because I didn't make the move.
So, as you can see, I always find myself going from one extreme to the other, and I can't find the balance. That's the thing that I'm longing to get - to find the equilibrium. And as you've said, only 5% get that balance.
On another thing, you've said I accepted the job offer because of that girl. And yeah, I did that before. And I became so happy with the journey, even though I didn't reach the destination so to speak.
I'm still continue to learn, and I can say that I'm happier than before because I have got the guts to go and talk to women while other guys just stare, and managed to strike attention of even hot girls while some guys are just spitting some boring stuffs in their ears.
I have concentrated on the targets that specifically suited my lifestyle:
1. Student girls
2. Officemate
3. Women that I ride with public vehicles
I limited my concentration on these areas because as you've said, focus (laser focus) is the key.
So, in this part of my another journey, I would be glad if you give me a particle of your mastery with women.
Thank you.