Alright, I'm going to give you the "tough love" you need.

Here it goes...

This is fucking ridiculous. These girls do not actually like you. They remember your face because you're a fucking mark.

You need to stop going to strip clubs. Your "approach anxiety" is just bullshit social anxiety. Everyone has it. Fucking deal with it.

You don't need to aggressively approach 60 fucking girls every single night you go out.

Go to a bar. Have fun and be talkative. It's a bar. It's okay to talk. you don't have to be a fucking weirdo. If you see a girl you find attractive, say something to her. Be honest with her. Talk to her just the same way you're talking to these strippers if you want. Just be genuine.

This way, you might actually "fall in love."

A lot of girls are very manipulative. Women spend their whole lives learning how to get shit from men by "seducing them." And you decide you want to fall in love with girls at the place where the ones who are the best at it fucking congregate. You moron. Stop making your life more difficult.

I've never liked strip clubs. I've been to two of them in my life - the first time was when my girlfriend at the time wanted me to go with her cousins who were visiting out of town. I hated it. The second time I went with some buddies from my hometown - I wanted to see if I disliked it as much as the previous - I did. The energy is super negative and sad. I could tell most of the guys there were lonely and desperate for a woman to give them attention. I feel like some weren't even there for the sexual aspect - they were just deeply lonely people.

And the strippers - I know some strippers I've met through friends or Tinder and some are cool, interesting ladies but a lot of them are damaged and sharks out to get a guy's money. Sad stuff.

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So you have no success in cold approach but hot strippers with a killer body are supposedly in love with you ? Dude, if you have a lot of approach anxiety you can't be attractive for a woman because you are a pussy. They are just playing you for your money. Strippers don't fall in love with beta males.

This forum is full of a bunch of haters. Personally I love pulling strippers and I've fallen for one, and my roommate used to give me shit about it like all these other haters. Then HE stopped by the strip club and picked up one, and now they are in a relationship, and she is totally in love with him. So I make fun of him all the time now because of the irony, but who cares about that. He is fucking a 10 every day. A girl that the other strippers hate because she makes way more money then they do. I love women who are not uptight, that don't mind taking their clothes off and walking around a strip club. A lot of girls aren't even close to being that open minded, so I love strippers. They know looks matter, and they know how to suduce a man and be really sexy.

The problem is they have a gold-digger mindset most of the time, but it's easy to shut down, and once you show them you won't fall for any of their shit tests, you get to have a super hot super sexual chick.

You could go to regular clubs like the rest of these chodes and convince yourself that those girls are so different and so much better, but I say do what you want. The girls at regular clubs are just as slutty, just as likely to cheat, usually just as gold-digging, and like to fuck just as much, but are way more fake about it.

After reading this utter fucking stupidity, I think your name may be a lie. Girls in normal clubs, aren't being paid to take their fucking clothes off for a guy they don't even like. Use your head ffs

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You may not like women who get paid to take their clothes off, but there's a reason they get paid to take their clothes off. Porn stars, strippers, and the girls at the Playboy mansion may not be for everyone since they all get paid to take their clothes off, but I sure like them.

If you don't, that is awesome. I'll suffer through all the kinky sex and threesomes and take one for the team so you more intelligent guys don't have to deal with them.

Thanks. Be sure to leave us the girls who are just as hot on the outside, and better on the inside.

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I think strippers get stereotyped into gold-digging, unintelligent, conniving, drug using whores... Most of them DO have dad issues though, but the other stereotypes simple aren't true for many of them. Of the two I'm interested in one will be graduating school in 8-9 months and she's really excited to quit stripper. During one of our last heart to heart conversations she confided in me that she "hates this place" and that "stripping has turned me into a bitch". ... The other stripper I've developed feelings for (who just happens to be related to the other one) also hates stripping. She told me that she only earned 15$ in the last three days, ouch! She told me she's just going to start "applying like crazy" to get a new job and I told her I could get her hired where I work real easy if she wanted. She told me she'd take down my information the next time I was in.. Should of did it on the spot looking back! Either way though once these two girls quit dance I will DEFINITELY be done with the club, as my temptation will be gone.

So these girls obviously don't like what they're doing and aren't like most strippers. Perhaps that's just me wearing rose coloured glasses. I'd like to think it'd vastly improve my chances of forming a relationship with the one if she ends up working where with me?... Although the fact that I was seriously pursuing her sister may diminish my chances on that front.

Already told you that getting her a job wont give you any more chance. You're being a fucking pussy, after a whole year of pick up, this is the level you're at. You refuse to improve and I think you (and highiq) are actually trolling, surely. Ask her out and be prepared to walk away and mean it if she says no. Is that so hard?

Also, strippers don't get stereotyped wrong at all. That's like saying "I think boxers get stereotyped so wrong. They don't all punch people!"

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Such a troll

Nathonder- on a scale of 1-10, what do you think your chances of getting into a Rship with one of these strippers? Honestly

HighIQ - we are not doubting strippers, the girls are gorgeous and ooze sex appeal. We are just trying to save the OP money and turn him into someone who is good with women. Don't you realise that? You must understand that his current mindset is not up to par to obtain these girls? He is going it in reverse order

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Honestly... A 3 with the one girl.. Maybe less. She's taller than me and I once read that only 1% of marriages are a couple in which the female is taller and she's taller than me by an inch... So maybe even a 2.

As for the other I'll say 3.5 (she told me she's dated a guy from the club before but broke up due to his jealousy) and maybe bump that to a 6 if I can get her a job with me..

So admittedly my odds are quite abysmal, but I still keep expending time and resources for something that'll turn out to be nothing at all. I guess I keep trying because I feel so attracted to them. As unethical as it sounds I sort of have a girlfriend I'm not sure we're right for each other.. Until I make my mind up on that I can't re-create my POF and these dancers provide me with (an albeit it faint) opportunity... The one I put at a 3 indicated she isn't wanting a relationship SPAM so that's more of a long term hope and the other I don't want to ask out yet either.

Well at least you're honest. You have some deep demon's going through your head. Not sure why you're on a PU forum to be honest. I really think you should see a therapist.

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I have my share of problems but deep demons? I'm not so sure, once I get my mind made up I'll be fine.

I also think you should see a therapist. I've said this before. You've claimed to be in and out of love with 5 girls in the past year. One was an ex who dumped you "cause you don't want kids" and another was just some girl who cut your hair like twice.

I don't think getting this girl a job is going to improve your chances in the slightest. Infact, it definitely isn't, because you're expecting it to. I heard something good on Orange is the New Black recently. It was something like "Don't spend your life holding doors and then get mad when people don't fucking thank you" ...this is something you'll need to remember after getting this girl a job.

If I sound angry, it's because I am. I'm sick of trying to tell you that you have a slim to none chance of ever having a relationship with ANY stripper, let alone these ones. If you got your inner game sorted (tried telling you for months but you wont listen) and put real effort in, then you'd do better than me with women.

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Seeing a therapist is out of the question lol. I'm not a harm to myself or others and I don't have that kind of money to waste on one anyways... That girl still cuts my hair to this day. I'm no longer view her as a romantic prospect, different lifestyles, different preferences but she's nice and gives awesome haircuts so whatever.

I'm NOT expecting something from her by getting her a job at all, it will though, put us in a setting other than the strip club where she's trying to make money. Being with a dancer has a certain allure and benefits as another poster said, but aiming for one is evidently pointless.I dont really care about their "damage". You and others have have told me to "put in work" or "putforth the effort", what do you mean? What would be your top suggestions as far as getting better with women and inner game?