In Ireland nobody rings they just text so does anyone have any advice on how to do this correctly cause im abit losted here.

I'm a huge fan of texting. It gives me a chance to think about what I want to say and make sure it's not going to come off the wrong way.

Here are my simple rules/guidelines, of course take everything I say with a grain of salt, I'm still an rAFC.

1. Always wait at least 10-20 minutes between texts while you are just getting started. This makes you feel less needy and will make her respond to your texts faster. As she starts to send you texts more often and responds to all the ones you send her quickly you can shorten this time. If at any point she doesn't respond to one of your messages I let the thread go, freeze her out for a bit with making her wait and then get back to the game.

2. I like to do some DHV while texting, "Hey! It's crazy at (local bar) and I'm shooting the shit with some new friends." Not only are you out and about, but you are creating social proof should it exist or not. You could even start with "You need to get down here, the bartender just breathed fire!" Obviously if you go the latter route it should be true.

3. You must stay congruent (one of my sticking points). It's easy to be cocky & funny/big and bad in a text but you have to back it up when you are in person. If you don't she'll give you a "You're all talk" response whenever you are being alpha, don't want that happening.

I hope that helps! Let us know how it works out for you and if you learn anything else.

well lads i have it here the best guide to text game i got it from AFC Adam who is the shit at the moment

Never text b4 9 because u dont wanna b textin all day and u'll be most likely the last person to talk to her that night which means she'll go to sleep with u on her mind and u'll b on her mind when she wakes up

Stage 1:
Always give them a nickname .ie shorty or something relavent to build a connection thats fun and personal

Stage 2:
Remind them of the last time you had an interaction that was fun

Stage 3:
This depends on weather you wanna text them for a while that night introduce some fluff talk

Stage 4:
Intent of the text. This is where u state ur intent but do it in a subtle but obvious way like wats ur take on random walks in the park

Stage 5:
The end. End with something different something funny like who do think would win in a fight a cat or a smurf


Hope this helps it helped me

ok i got a problem ,just tryin this to see if any guys here can actually help or know what to do,i got this beautiful girls number, and found out when she gets off work and when its good to call her, so she gets off at 6pm i get off work at 7pm, so told her ill call you then.So time comes i call her up and no answer , so figure i call again and leave a message that i called and for her to call me back when she gets a chance.Anyways next morning i check and see she didnt call me back or anything, so i texted her and she said she got message next morning at 6 am so it was to early to call me back.anyways this is kinda long ill try to make it short.basically im tryin to talk to her a bit on phone and then set up a date or hangout,anyways after texting her a bit and getting normal replys and stuff it seemed everything is cool,so i ask her maybe we can get together today with text,she says shes going to bbq and to watch laker game then going out with friends,next day same deal kinda and she says shes going to a birthday,so i was pissed and figured im tryin to hard and guees she thinks im needy or someshit,so i didnt call or text her on the 1 day she said she didnt work, kinda to get her back for all this bs of not picking up the dam phone,basically she answers texts but when i call she doesnt fuckin pick up the phone,its really annoying.anyways i dont like giving up on shit, its not that im in love with her or nothing i just want some time to spend with her and get to know her, and see if i really like her and go from their,but cant get her on the dam phone,so wanted to know what you guys think i should do, forget about her or keep talking with gay texts and see what happens.oh ya by the way i dont have problem getting girls, its just i hate this kind of girls that give their real number ,but then they dont fuckin pick up the phone and seem to be busy always its like wtf, why you even give me the dam number and waste my time?, anyways thx guys .

I think we may all have had this problem at one point.
First off, you called her twice and texted the next day. Whether or not youre a needy person you come off as one.

Girls go to the bars give out their number to boost their confidence when they reject a guy, and build their social proof. Don't blame them it isnt their fault.

Now this is what I would have done.
Called her while she was at work, knowing she wouldnt answer the phone, leave a message the first time "hey this is trackjunkie, im going out tonight but i didn't want to forget about calling you, but there's something I want to tell you.

So I think of it as you just proved your social proof, whether or not you actually go out is something else.
You sound polite and promote and take care of things as they arise


However the only things I see wrong with it, as it gives her a chance to say not call back, and you better have something entertaining to tell her.

Put I think this is a lost cause. Good thing there are millions of girls

ya thx man figured it was , i rarely get girls like this but its really annoying how they do that.I dont know about the rest of the guys but i think its not right,they give number and its the real number but they wont pick up the phone.anyways so its hard sometimes to tell if their playing hard to game bs or they changed their mind or dont care, etc.For the record im a really good looking 27 yrs old guy ,athletic,funny and all the good stuff and shes prolly 21 22, havent really found that out, i know shes over 18 so its all that matters haha,anyways thx for reading laters.

im not exactly sure wath the hell your talking about.

I know this is the wrong spot but im a noob and it wont let me post anywhere else...

I can get hb5 and 6 easily mostly by just being myself, my problem arises after i sober up and realize I dont want to be seen with them, (im just being honest not trying to act cool or whatever)....

What are some ways to get rid of a girl, without coming across as you used them??? I try and be extremely honest and drop little hints like " im glad I dont have GF" or "isnt being single the best" little retarded things like that that hopfully get here to realize i just wanna have fun aka pound some vaush.....


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Allright I got a phone close with a really hot teen at a party at the university. Looking back, I think I could have k closed, but i'm still rAFC so i'm just glad i'm getting over AA. The thing is, # closes don't mean much in Brazl. Things are much more agressive here, I see guys k closing in under 10 minutes, though most times it stays there. Lots of girls go out just to see how many boys they can french kiss in one night with little intention of taking it further.

I wanna try some engaging text message just to see what happens. She probably doesn't remember me since we were drunk, but I might make her curious with and engaging and funny msg. Any ideas?

I've thought of doing this:

CONGRATULATIONS! (text)

Then i'll text her sayng she just won an afternoon out for icecream with the hottest guy in town followed by a romantic sunset watching.

You can probably think of something better, I appreciate any feedback.