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 Post subject: don't seek approval
PostPosted: Tue Aug 18, 2015 1:41 pm 
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Hi guys, how can i create in my mind a sense of not seeking approval?


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 Post subject: Re: don't seek approval
PostPosted: Tue Aug 18, 2015 6:34 pm 
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Are you cool with the idea that maybe nobody will like you, ever, and you could be stuck alone for the rest of your life? Then you aren't seeking approval. Just learn to be happy without anyone else having something to do with that... then you become a magnet.


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 Post subject: Re: don't seek approval
PostPosted: Tue Aug 18, 2015 10:36 pm 
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Are you cool with the idea that maybe nobody will like you, ever, and you could be stuck alone for the rest of your life? Then you aren't seeking approval. Just learn to be happy without anyone else having something to do with that... then you become a magnet.
^^ strong point

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 Post subject: Re: don't seek approval
PostPosted: Tue Aug 18, 2015 11:59 pm 
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People that fake it are easy to see through. You want to actually cultivate it. You want to actually learn self control.

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 Post subject: Re: don't seek approval
PostPosted: Wed Aug 19, 2015 7:26 am 
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OP: No matter where life takes you and whatever wonderful journeys you go on, ALWAYS, ALWAYS ALWAYS be blissfully looking forward to a better future.

Another thought: If you had a stack of gold bars and you were handing them out to people, would you be behaving in an approval-seeking supplicant fashion? Guess what, you already possess those gold bars, they're called YOU. You are immensely valuable just because you're you. Knowing this, how could you ever seek approval.


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