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PostPosted: Mon Aug 17, 2015 5:36 pm 
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There's another problem. You're viewing it as this big mission. Anywhere that you can talk to people, is a place that you can game. It's just normal life, yet a little more social. Stop viewing it like that.

A good place is a mall, but you can literally game a girl anywhere from a library to a death metal concert lol. Asking for a place, is like asking for a place to walk
I've actually noticed that when I'm out in public places, I don't even think about approaching women at all. For example, I'll drop by at the mall for an hour to get Chinese food, I eat, and then I'm out of there. There was a girl in a McDonald's shirt that was staring and grinning at me at the mall's cafe. I think the reason why my approaches may be low is because I'm only approaching in a social setting, such as work, and Craigslist.

Here, take a look at this link that shows all my history:

http://forum.bodybuilding.com/showthrea ... =168088273

If you've noticed, there are 7 women on that list that I approached at work, 1 cold approach at a restaurant (the waitress even said she would go out with me if she was single), and 1 cold approach at a gas station where I dated the girl for a month. The rest were online. Not only that, half of those women were already pulled into seduction mode.

So that's what the problem is here. Not doing enough cold approaches, and half of my approaches were women I leered into seduction mode. The solution is that I need to do more cold approaches. Too many of my approaches rely on seduction mode (aka, "unicorns").


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PostPosted: Mon Aug 17, 2015 5:45 pm 
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Forget about getting laid right now

You need to be exposed to this horrible spot light feeling, otherwise known as anxiety. We all have this feeling, so you're not unique to it

You need to liberate this feeling by doing it and failing till you're desensitised to it. You're putting too much pressure on yourself.

Go indirect, direct, whatever you prefer. Give her your phone number or ask for hers. Whatever, just get used to "closing". THEN worry about making it solid when you have the social freedom and handled the spotlight feeling

Question, these approaches you do at work, what did you talk about to get their phone number? Post up some sort of transcript
It's not so much as anxiety of the girl rejecting me, its just doing this in front of a bunch of people.

To your last question, if you check out the URL I posted above, you can see my timeline. The women that I approached were already in seduction mode. I seduced them using a deep swagger walk for 8 hours (I'm a cart pusher). I didn't even have to say anything. However, I ended up getting filtered due to mistakes.


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PostPosted: Mon Aug 17, 2015 5:51 pm 
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'Seduction mode' and 0 lays

what the heck does that even mean?

You seem like another looney.

WHAT ARE YOU SAYING TO THE GIRLS?

There is only 14 interactions and that link is filled with pokemon videos.......

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PostPosted: Mon Aug 17, 2015 6:08 pm 
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'Seduction mode' and 0 lays

what the heck does that even mean?

You seem like another looney.

WHAT ARE YOU SAYING TO THE GIRLS?

There is only 14 interactions and that link is filled with pokemon videos.......
Here's the link again: http://forum.bodybuilding.com/showthrea ... =168088273

Look at the first post. Tiffany, Jacki, Rebecca, Krystal, and ANOTHER girl that I don't have on that list were all pulled into seduction mode. Seduction mode is when the girl is seduced, and gives you "the look". She's practically chasing you, and begging you to ask her out. I did not say ANYTHING to Tiffany, Jacki, and Rebecca. They all walked up and qualified me (aka, chasing) with the little hearts above their head. Krystal became seduced through a very long process of communication over the week, but I choose not to do anything, because she was married. The "OTHER" girl was seduced after I told her my ex-wife banged her step-dad, and her boyfriend drove by in his car and cockblocked me.


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PostPosted: Mon Aug 17, 2015 6:29 pm 
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"Seduction mode" to me, is when the girl is looking at you in a way that she'd only look at people she wants to fuck. When you say something, and she can't even hide how much it turned her on... then you give her an unholy portion of vaginal decimation. The clue is in the word "seduction" ...seduction mode without seduction, is like saying "I bought this girl a drink, but I forgot to pay, or get the drink, or even ask for it" lol

Also, are you saying most of your "cold approaches" are online? If so, I can triple that in 15 seconds. "Cold approaches" online, do not count... surely I'm reading that wrong, though.

As Dragula said, post your interactions here. I had a quick look at the thread, but I tend to stay away from Hentai porn.

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PostPosted: Mon Aug 17, 2015 6:47 pm 
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"Seduction mode" to me, is when the girl is looking at you in a way that she'd only look at people she wants to fuck. When you say something, and she can't even hide how much it turned her on... then you give her an unholy portion of vaginal decimation. The clue is in the word "seduction" ...seduction mode without seduction, is like saying "I bought this girl a drink, but I forgot to pay, or get the drink, or even ask for it" lol

Also, are you saying most of your "cold approaches" are online? If so, I can triple that in 15 seconds. "Cold approaches" online, do not count... surely I'm reading that wrong, though.

As Dragula said, post your interactions here. I had a quick look at the thread, but I tend to stay away from Hentai porn.
There's no hentai in that thread. My cold approaches are NOT online. You can view all my interactions in that thread. I've only done 2 cold approaches this whole time. 1 ALMOST worked, the girl said she was taken. The other actually worked.


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PostPosted: Mon Aug 17, 2015 8:04 pm 
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Do 10+ more and post on Friday how they went

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PostPosted: Mon Aug 17, 2015 8:08 pm 
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Do 10+ more and post on Friday how they went
OK, so just walk the mall, walk into every store, talk to random people. Try to escalate conversation, and then do an approach.

Oh god, my face is going to turn red. Here we go.


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